A channel dedicated to helping people get over a past relationship, be it romantic, work, or social. The end of a relationship can be devastating and negatively life-changing. But it doesn't have to be that way. Errol Greene discusses his years of research into how people can experience years of separation in a matter of weeks, days, or sometimes instantly with the power of "aha" insights and the resulting change of perspective.
love my ex very much. We've been apart now for 2 years. He has me blocked from calls/texting, vlocked on Facebook messenger but doesnt have me vlocked on facebook....i wonder if he looks at my profile?? We dont talk, so HOW can i get him back!!❤
Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
bro its been 30 days of mine and we're brokeup now idk the same is happening with me as well, can I have you Instagram handle? In case if you want to share
3 months is more than enough for a person who's not worth the effort or the time. Move on to something that makes you happy. Love will find you someday.
dated for 4 month but were with each other everyday. Sadly she had depression and was on anti depressants. she ended it 2 days ago cause she was in limbo.. i miss her very much. im not mad at her just wish her the best..
It was 2 weeks for me and a year on of completely no contact, I still think about him and feel some type of way? Genuinely don’t understand it and wish I didn’t but let me get to the end of the video.
She was the new girl at work. Everyone had their eyes on her but she had her eyes on me. We worked side by side. It took about 2 months before we finally went out together. Things moved quickly and it was nice but we started to argue. We couldn’t agree on things. I wanted kids, she had 4 and didn’t want more. We agreed to be low key. Friends with benefits. Nobody at work could know. It was kind of hot. We were basically work’s worst kept secret. The arguing didn’t bother me but it bothered her. The only time we could get along was in bed. Enter the “nice guy” at work who asked me if we were together, in which I responded “no” on a day where we were frustrated with each other. On weekends she pulled away for a couple weeks. She told me she had put her kids first. The nice guy was a people pleaser. A yes man. Maybe not the most masculine man or the most good looking but everyone liked him. She started taking her breaks and eating lunch with him. I got jealous. I even sent him photos of her at my house. I never felt good about it, I just wanted him to go away. I think this pushed them closer together. Fast forward to now, it’s been two month and they’re still in the honeymoon stage. I have to see them together everyday. I can’t seem to forgive myself. I’m 41. What would have been wrong with being the step father of her children? I believe I made a big mistake and rumor has it they moved in together two weeks into their relationship because he got kicked out of his living situation. While that sounds fast, I wouldn’t be surprised if these two beat the odds of a rebound relationship and I’m doomed to watch them fall in love for the rest of my career. I took her for granted and started most of our fights. I’m struggling to move forward.
I saw him only 3 time but the damage was so heavy on me... I was in a rollercoaster of emotions when I was with him, he would ghost me from time to time but when he did give me attention I was over the moon. The butterflies were so brutal I didn't realize they were actually signs of red flags. After I ended it, I was (kind of still) in denial that he gave up on me so easily. I looked for reasons why, and questioned how he moved on so fast from the pure love that I gave to him. There's no need to find explanations, sometimes things leave out empty in life, and it's okay to feel lost and confused and not feeling shame that it's taking this long. We're human beings and there's no math in these things, not a proper solution, not a adequate time range to heal or estimating the reasons and so on. Life happens and we live through it. At the end of the day, I feel grateful that I have the chance to "feel" and "be alive" and hopefully this pain won't be so brutal in future and my prayers for the true and healthy love will come my way ❤
I just broke up with a one-month relationship two days ago. The thing is, it's a long-distance relationship and we have never even met. For the whole duration of our relationship, the longest video call we've had was only 18 minutes. And we've had vc for only several times. He only texts me in the morning when he's not busy and I noticed that during nighttime, he is online and doesn't even bother to text me goodnight. I don't need to be told what's been happening so I just decided to move on. I deleted the app which we use for contact but my hand is itching to install again. I know I will believe whatever he has to say. I want to be strong.
I 🩷d my ex...he never told me jack shit about him but he has 9 kids, married for 7 years..we met in November..he moved in December and he dumped me 2 weeks ago yesterday..it's early Saturday morning!! I sat and cried over him..I wish he would just come back!! I'm starting to go mad waiting around for him at night
Heartbroken over someone who I only dated for a little over a month. But I spent so long being single, and he made me feel so special. I hate that I'm so heartbroken. I wish people were willing to work more on relationships. He's only 24 and had two divorces clearly he was a walking red flag I ignored. 💔☹️
I am an Indian came to USA for 2.5 months and was in love with this US women who was twice divorced I too ignored this redflag and then when I came back to India she walked away quickly due to small reasons and I am still stuck. 😊
So true! If I look back on any of the women I've broken up with, it wasn't a problem with attraction. It was either a behavior, bad timing or a fit issue, as you say. If it were an issue of attraction, I never would have dated them in the first place. I guess that would hold true for the women who have broken up with me as well. Thanks, I needed this. Too much red pill toxicity out there, this is a much better and correct understanding of relationships.
I have been in so much pain over someone I went on 3 dates with. I have been so ashamed of my heart break, my pain felt out of sequence with the length of the attachment. It's been 6 months and i still feel broken sometimes. Thank you, i really needed to here this.
same. it was so brief and it happened two months ago but he was the first guy to show me he really wanted me and told he wanted me to be his girlfriend and i had this whole romantic projection about him, and then he broke it off because he felt like his problems would’ve been too much for me. and i’ve stayed wondering whether they would’ve or not
I have been struggling to let go of a 6months relationship He cheated on me with his ex Told me he still wants me but to give him some time I just want to move on with my life
Cheating... on someone you supposedly "love," is a character defect. You're either a cheater or your not, and this guy is one. It's said that relationships are a reflection of how we view ourselves. The love we accept is the love we think we deserve and you clearly deserve more and better. Why he thinks you're going to hang around, accept this and wait on hi until he's ready is beyond me, but it sounds like you are too smart and are making the right call on this. Good luck, you can and will do better.
Oh my god, I went through the same struggle. When I break up with my first ex after a more than one year relationship, After 3-4 months I was doing ok. I kinda easily got over it because every time I got that feeling of nostalgia I reviewed the red flag list that I had created. But after that I had a fling with someone. We flirted a few times and never got into a relationship but it was so hard to get over them because I had created this perfect image of them in my head but later on I realized that they weren't that great anyway.
When you put your heart into someone, and we all have, you break up it hurts! Woman will tell you it's different for men and that's not true. Remember men are brought up not to show our feelings. It absolutely does not mean we don't feel the hurt. Get through it as best you can...
This video is the first to finally help me after several months of struggling to get past a 6 week relationship. Thank you! I’m finally feeling better. Please make more videos like this.
Ease the pain by taking the lessons this relationship taught you by putting yourself back out there when you are ready and by being that much smarter in your next relationship. Our minds lie to us and tell us that we will never find anyone like them again, but that's a good thing--you will find someone better who it works out with--IF you can put yourself back out there and learn from the past. Good luck, Essa!
My ex was crazy about me possibly more than I was crazy about her. We dated for 7 years but one day she got up and split and never saw or heard from her again. I went instant NO contact the day she left me so I have no idea where she is or what she's doing and I refuse to go on her social media because I don't want to see any other guys around her. So again I have no clue what she's doing she could be dead for all I know.
That is crazy and speaks to her being severely unstable or else having a secret life. Who ghosts someone after seven years?? I was once ghosted after a few months and found out she had been engaged the entire time and I was nothing more than a summer fling. If she had been honest, I would have been a lot better prepared for what she did. I'm grateful because I am now with a woman who would rather die than leave me. I hope you find the same thing.
I totally get that--two of my ex's were smoking hot and I heard a lot of the same stuff. But in the end, that's not what really makes us happy. The two most beautiful women I ever went out with would have lead me down the wrong path as we didn't have enough in common. A true connection is what really matters--that will be what makes you happy. And, take a look around--no shortage of beautiful people out there. If you put yourself back out there and take the lessons you learned from this relationship, you WILL find another beautiful partner, that much I can guarantee you. Good luck!
