Asking someone, especially family, to have a baby for you is asking A LOT! Add that your last birth had complications, and that doctors and husband advise otherwise? She has a lot of different options, you have NO SAFE OPTIONS! Now, who is being selfish?
Both parents are at fault here. The mother SHOULD have gotten the paternity test done so OP would not suffer. The treatment of innocent op was uncalled for by the father indefinitely and it’s op’s choice whether wants to stay in contact or not. I don’t get why the mother refused paternity when it ruined her son’s life and caused him to be mistreated by his own father. Both parents are idiots and morons.
Your mother was a major AH for allowing that to carry on for years. She could have stopped it anytime if she just got a DNA test. She should be ashamed of herself. She put her pride as more important than your welfare. I would be no contact with her too.
I love Chinese food but MSG gives me awful 2-3 day migraine. AND, you'd be surprised at all the non-chinese food with MSG. A lot of soups and BBQ potato chips. Check ingredients on lots of foods. I have too because I never know what has it.
All cheese has it, all tomatoes have it, all soy has it, all meat has it, all fish has it, all miso has it, and marmite has it, all naturally occurring MSG. The same chemical, no difference. If any of these things don't give you 2-3 day migraine, then it's a nocebo effect. Congratulations, you're free.
@@pretty_kitty msg is not salt msg stands for Mono-Sodium Glutamate It may look like Salt but it's not much like how sugar looks like salt but you would use salt in the place of sugar when making cookies It is a compound that makes food taste more savory as Glutamate Is something that is often found in foods that contain protein (but not always) some foods like tomatos have Glutamate but next to zero Msg is the refined and purified version of Glutamate
It's a concentrated form of meat flavor it's used to give like in umami taste to stuff to make it savory. It's very good. It's a lot more like a seasoning and I think the reason why people are so adverse to it is cuz of the name and you know people saying like it gives you cancer and shit. It's just a flavoring like salt
Monosodium Glutamate, it is a chemical like salt that enhances flavor, except instead of making things taste salty, it makes them taste umami (described as a 'meaty' flavor). It is naturally found in some foods like cheese, mushrooms, seaweed, ans even tomatos.
Mono-Sodium glutamate It's a compound added to food to make it taste more savory Glutamate Is kind of proxy for the presence of protine in food so our bodies evolved the ability to detect it in the form of a savory taste How ever the proxy is not perfect meaning that certain foods may taste savory but not actually have much protine like tomatos Mono-Sodium glutamate is added to food to essentially trick your brain into thinking there is more protein in the food then there actually is and thus making taste better
@@thecraftycreeper3167 Monosodium glutamate (MSG), also known as sodium glutamate, is a sodium salt of glutamic acid. MSG is found naturally in some foods including tomatoes and cheese in this glutamic acid form. MSG is used in cooking as a flavor enhancer with a savory taste that intensifies the meaty, savory flavor of food, as naturally occurring glutamate does in foods such as stews and meat soups SALT
@@MittenstheCat. I have a thyroid disorder and have to take meds everyday for it. The misconception that this is a side effect is nonsense. MSG is used in low sodium diets and anyone suffering high blood pressure because you will use less due to the fact it reduces the use of straight salt use.
I do the same thing. And when my hair is long it means I'm happy. Messing with someone hair especially when it is that important then yeah that response was correct.
People what does it matter if she’s “technically a gold digger” they’re both happy with their arrangement and clearly aren’t planning to fall in love with someone else. Jealousy isn’t a good look.
this sounds like you are a gold digger, I mean marrying for money, and not for truly loving someone, isn't that gold digging, by definition, I'm pretty sure it is, is it the definition of gold digger, someone who marries someone so they can get their money, isn't that exactly what they're doing, like, isn't that what they say in the story that your marrying for money that's a gold digger
🤔My question is, why would she even tell her family why she got married? You don't have to tell everybody everything. She talked too much.And now people are judging her based off of her personal decisions. No one even had to know that part. She should have kept that part to herself. Just like if you have a boyfriend that treated, you bad, tell your family about it, then run back to your boyfriend and marry him. 'Cause your family is going to hate him forever. They're never going to warm up to him, and there's going to be friction, your entire relationship.
Bc she’s not doing anything wrong or shameful or harmful to herself . She should be able to tell her family without them acting like idiots. This is really no different then an arranged marriage, they just arranged it for themselves.
Wow...just wow... Op is literally the definition of a gold digger. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt bet after listening to her arrangement I couldn’t logic my way out of that definition. The family has no right to be upset when wanting to reap the benefits of a rich in-law though when they chastise op for dating for money. They want to use someone’s capital for their own gain (enjoying a vacation) but are upset when op uses his capital for her own gain (enjoying a secure life).
I always though that gold diggers were people that used deception to get money, basically with looks/their bodies. This seems more like an agreed upon arrangement than anything. Like an arranged marriage, only it was set up on their terms?
No, she's not gold diggers are predators that target men specifically for their money.What she has is an arrangement.Because her husband is getting something out of this too.
I mean..... don't be a gold digger, but.... If he knows, and he's fine with it, then I don't see the harm. He's a consenting adult, and if he's fine having a gold digging trophy wife... More power to him. Not for me, but you do you, homie.
I would take out a FULL PAGE AD in the town’s newspaper: a copy of your paternity test results. For not only your father to see, but also everyone he knows to see how unfairly he treated your mother and yourself all those long years. He has a LOT to make up for.
"Unnecessarily cruel to someone who made a mistake"? Let me tell you something, the people saying that are the people who didn't go through 18 years of a broken home because of his fathers trust issues or his mothers stubbornness, both parents were in the wrong, the son has every right to go no contact and to put them in their place, at any time, a father in doubt could get a paternity test done regardless of the mothers permission, if you have REASONABLE doubt, if the mother has nothing to hide, then regardless of how butthurt and offended they may be, getting the test done can save YEARS of utterly pointless trauma for everyone involved. Both parents were responsible for their sons suffering, they BOTH put him through it, so they're both getting held accountable, as they should, family doesn't automatically mean forgiveness, just because someone is blood doesn't mean they can do no wrong, it's a ridiculous mindset to get stuck in.
Was completely the mother's fault for not getting the test done in the first place like he wanted. Not wanting to get the test done made the father's doubts far worse.
