I mean..... don't be a gold digger, but.... If he knows, and he's fine with it, then I don't see the harm. He's a consenting adult, and if he's fine having a gold digging trophy wife... More power to him. Not for me, but you do you, homie.
Wow...just wow... Op is literally the definition of a gold digger. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt bet after listening to her arrangement I couldn’t logic my way out of that definition. The family has no right to be upset when wanting to reap the benefits of a rich in-law though when they chastise op for dating for money. They want to use someone’s capital for their own gain (enjoying a vacation) but are upset when op uses his capital for her own gain (enjoying a secure life).
I always though that gold diggers were people that used deception to get money, basically with looks/their bodies. This seems more like an agreed upon arrangement than anything. Like an arranged marriage, only it was set up on their terms?