Nope !!! Do NOT turn it off !!! Record it all !!! These types of narcissistic parents need to be HELD ACCOUNTABLE for their abusive behavior ! Yep, he’s not letting his son talk ! It’s invalidation ! Funny Hoyt he son is the scapegoat for standing up, right ??
Please tell this to their enablers. I’m so unbelievably beyond sick of hearing “after all they ARE your PARENTS!” Never mind our parents treat us like toilets.
They can never have a civil or sincere conversation about serious issues with them, they make expressing true emotions and feelings very hard because they don't have empathy so they can't understand your pain or frustration. They hate taking accountability and reflecting on their mistakes because it shows they're weak and vulnerable. Basically are grown bullies, and mostly just jealous or too stupid to see things from others' perspectives. I think you handled them better than I would've.
This isn't a Narc. It's an ugly argument, but that is not NPD. A lot of people don't like being filmed, especially mid argument. If you want to hear a real Narcissist, you can listen to my partner flip out in a microsecond, screaming so loud he's gasping for breaths, hangs up on me and then disappears for days, ignoring my messages. Or listen to him screaming like a savage animal in a drunken rage telling me to "GTFO!!!" because I said the word "Weird." People can have Narc traits but it doesn't mean their actual Narcissists. True Narcs have repeated patterns and say very particular things to unveil the beast. They will suck the life out of you and torture your very existence.
I remember seeing this a long time ago. Realizing my own step father was a narcissist. They are sad individuals who need major professional help, but they are so stuck in their own delusions even professionals wouldn't be able to help them. Lets be honest here
I still live with my parents. About to be 28 years old, I am a man. Although my father is not a narcaisst, he has trauma and traits from my grandmother. I love my father, wouldn't trade him for any father out there. But narcasissm affects everyone in ways you dont realize until your older. I'm now aware the emotional detachment as a child was a big deal.
The old lady is the biggest narcissist of them all! Who do you think taught him?? Didn't realize this was 9 yrs.ago...it would be great to see how they are now.
Grew up in this shit, I understand your needing to film it. It’s enough to drive you insane. I hope you’ve been able to get some distance from them and found people who listen to you and care for your well-being instead of defending their fragile egos. Wishing you the best OP, I lost my temper in response to it all more than you seemed to have growing up I’ve got to applaud you for that
I haven't commented on you tube in a few years. This deserves my words.. YOU ARE JUST AS BAD FOR POSTING THIS. If you thought it would help the arguing then why have the need to post it? I hope you were able to move out. There was no changing that situation. Don't argue with narcissistic people
Just because someone says a person ist narcisstic that doesn't mean he really is. To me the adults in this situation seem to be a lot more normal than he is. To call someone narcisstic just because he's arguing with you ist just childish behaviour...
I haven't commented on you tube in a few years. This deserves my words.. YOU ARE JUST AS BAD FOR POSTING THIS. If you thought it would help the arguing then why have the need to post it?
It's disgusting that he accused you of being a baby for asking for basic human decency & respect, when his ENTIRE DEMEANOR IS THAT OF AN ENTITLED TODDLER. I'm so sorry. You're so strong. Hope you're well.
Yuck. Few minutes in that dad reminds me of two of them. The fake voice. Ugh shudder. The moment you hear that you know a physical assault or man baby tantrum is imminent.
You are are irritating your father you're poking the bear if he is a narcissist and he telling you to stop doing something and you keep doing it and then he slapped the crap out of you and then you say he wrong for doing that you wrong for doing something he asked you to stop and he begging you to stop in the way he don't walk away and came back and you still family he don't want that so you don't do that where they know you doing that is triggering this man they don't care why because you can't reason with a person who cannot be reasoned with but see you acting like your father because you are the seed of him so if he's a narcissist so are you
I understand. I was with two narcissistic. Mentally they can shut you down emotionally and it's also so hard on the children. Hopefully things are better for you now. Prayers to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
When I was a little girl. Like 4 or 5. My mom would scream at me and I would push apology letters under her door to her room. And she would pick them up, come into my room, make eye contact with me, and crumpled them up and throw them away. 4 OR 5 YEARS OLD TRYING TO APOLOGIZE "I'm sorry mommy that I made you mad" WTF????
