Narcissist dad recorded 

That's the absolute truth.

basically Biden

Boo the fuck who. You poor little victim.

I can relate. Though if it's a one one one conversation I perform better than regular people due to the my ability to fully control it. I'm both a narcisist and a sociopath. However, I absolutely suck at social interactions involving more than one person for the simple reason that it's a/ harder to control and b/ I have to listen to multiple people and I really don't care about anything they want to say unless it's about me, or unless I'm talking. For example, public speaking, I'm flawless at that too. As for the reason why 1 on 1 conversations work so well for me is because these conversations occur with either the few people I care about (relatives / loved ones) or people I try to get something out of. Idk what the best way to explain this is, but to put it simply in group-based social interactions, it starts with my not wanting to hear anybody due to an absolute lack of interest, followed by high levels of hatred and overall negativity due to not being able to speak for extended duration. There's been people in the past that've claimed I have social anxiety but that's literally the exact opposite. It's more of me stopping myself from standing up, saying some really bad things to everybody and leaving in group-based interactions.

@@themacocko6311 who hurt you

Hit the nail on the head. My father does the same thing when he goes out. When we get into a argument, he wants to tell everyone in the city how disrespectful and disobedient I am towards him. That’s something I would never do to my father, but I only tell about our relationship to those who are close to me like friends or co-workers to seek advice in handling the situation. None of my Mom side of the family likes him, especially his side of the family. My brothers and sisters don’t get along and don’t bother to visit him because he’s never understanding, reasonable, too quick to judge, doesn’t take criticism well, and ridicules you by degrading your self-esteem. He expects me to say “Hi”, “Good Morning”, or “Good Evening” to him the next day and acts as if the argument we had never existed. Lastly his scapegoat is using religion/the Bible as a counterargument, when realistically it never pertains to the topic we’re arguing about. So as of right now I don’t pay him no mind and act like he doesn’t exist. I understand that’s my father but the why he treats us is not how you would treat others like that.

Yeah, they know that the people close to them have already been 'won' over, so they don't have to make any effort, but with new people they want to use their oily charms to curry favour. It's disgusting.

@@platinum476 Mate, I'm sorry you have to deal with that, I have the same with my Dad...how do you handle it? I think keeping distance and be on the watch for those behaviours in me and how I treat people.

@@youhavetogotheretocomeback I mean I live with him, but I still don’t pay any attention to him at all. As long as he doesn’t bother me or ask me for anything, I’m straight. He’s a stranger to me so I can careless. Sounds harsh but!… I can’t change his ways.

@@platinum476 Cool man. Just note that I shared some stuff with you there and your response didn't mention or respond to it in any way. Lots of "I" and "me". Not calling you out for being a narc, but that's certainly a tendency. Good luck with it all.

my dad literally called me superficial bc i said i was sick like tf

Or maybe they just don't tolerate any shite and just simply have the balls to stand up and say what they feel? Trust Me, You don't know so many things!

@@ProjectCreativityGuy96 No, what you are talking about is someone who is honest with themselves. It's important to understand the difference between Honesty and Narcissism. But what you are talking is also just straight pettiness, which is a big part of who a narcissist is. So you got that aspect to them correctly. Good job. Narcissists will try their best to come across as the victim. They cannot ever be the aggressor in their eyes. Everything is everyone else's fault. They will lie, and manipulate to make everything sound like everyone else's fault. Someone who is honest will admit their own mistakes, and look to be better because of it. They will call you out but also take accountability for their own actions. They will not look to manipulate you, or other people into believing they are the victim.

​@@ivanstayner8818well I make a mountain of things..but that's only with my trigger human..

... @ivanstayner8818 @eternalyujis frl, first of all, put your self in your parent shoes for once, second of all, you most likely talk shit about your friends a few times, dont you? And maybe a parent get harch for you saying your sick bc thay may not want you missing out school... you dont want you wasting parts of your life, do you, well they nether want you to waste parts of your life.

I think the father reacting like this is a tiny bit related to the fact that he is self aware and what he’s saying to his son or whatever he was doing is wrong, but I see a lot of comments on here saying “he fully knows why the camera needs to go and he’s so concerned about the video because he’s abusive and he knows it” When I tell you this man has not a single clue or idea that he’s the abusive one he thinks it’s all rainbows and flowers he’s not self aware that there’s a deeper meaning behind the recording no one gives a fuck about what the PowerPoint does he’s recording to showcase how absurd a narcissistic parent can be without ever realizing at any moment that he’s the abuser!!! So clarification for most of these comments he has no fucking ideas he’s narcissistic and probably denies narcissism as a whole!! Just doesn’t believe in it at all and yes my father is a full on narcissist and yes I’ve tried to record like this before lol

Same with my parents

mine too

90% of Baby boomers are like that unfortunately

same with me my whole life, and my dad turns everyone against me and everyone thinks I'm the crazy one

I’m adopted and my when my dad gets mad at me, he says at least I know who my real dad is, knowing how much it hurts me. Never have I felt loved by him.

My mom is like that and that's why my parents at getting in a devorse. She tries to make me seem crazy, I can so relate

Cynthia Scott God bless you hon! You’re so sweet!

wasassabi k god right

@Thomas Anderson I didn't say he had a permanent stutter, jeez. I said I know that feeling of that stutter when you're frustrated. I've seen his actual channel. He's allowed to post content other than conflict between him and his father.

@Thomas Anderson and anyway everything is recorded you can see for yourself what's going on.

@Thomas Anderson 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omg are you the dad?

So true

@Thomas Anderson so your saying he's lying correct?

Same with my mum

do mothers count?

Both my parents are like this

​@@AB_HTof course they count why wouldn't they?... Lemme guess you think females can't do wrong?

@@seamusohoulihan666 lemme guess... this is a joke?

"You're adding fuel to the fire!" ~ indeed, foiling their gaslighting!

This...

@Thomas Anderson wow you can't see the toxicity and are asking about what must've happened 15-20 days before lol. Is it that hard to Identify toxic people. I hope you're not the toxic one

Thomas Anderson unfortunately narcissist parents drive you to do things that you normally wouldn’t do as you feel desperate to prove that their behaviour is inappropriate somehow. These situations can build up for years and can lead to some desperate “cries for help”.

Especially when you are a child.

@Thomas Anderson Oh haha! WHY was he still at home?!

He looks old enough to walk away from it.

miles ♕ this comment made me realize why I stumble when people actually listen to what I say. It makes so much sense and hit home hard. Thank you truly, this comment helped me understand. Hopefully I can move forward and be more confident in my speech in the future, though it's hard.

I can relate

Dude I can totally relate 😡

Damn, I realized the same thing. He's used to not getting to finish his sentences so when he gets the chance to, he's not used to it.

omg is that why i cant ever fucking finish a sentence without stumbling over my words every 5 seconds

@SlimJ1980-Eire Totally agree...hope he's doing ok today 🙏❣

@@LassieSgryou sound like a narcissist to lmao wtf dude u cant be serious. if the dad cant talk to him right and has treated him like this his whole life this poor dude had a shit childhood. the dad needs to grow up snd take accountability for his actions.

​@@LassieSgrRents are too high, especially for younger people,college students,etc. He does need to move out, many people need to move out,even before age 18, actually. These high rents force people to live together who should not be. The parents are abusive anyway. He should simply stay away from them until he can get his own place. In California, it's almost impossible to do this right. The year 1981 was the beginning of the end of successful adulting. I wouldn't want to be his age for anything,tech or not.

​@@3SeveredHeadsHe shouldn't be home whenever they are. I hope he pays some rent, keeps his paperwork off premises, an affordable storage unit.

​@@LassieSgrHow is he bullying or threatening or intimidating them?

The dad's the one who will suffer the consequences.

Reasons defined. I am 😂😂😂😂😂out loud .

if dad and grandma decide to sue, then yes, kid will suffer the consequences.

My niece and nephew grew up like this. They're adults now and won't talk to either parents.

@@sagebaun6101 they're the ones who will suffer the consequences.

Gabrielle Hendershot \(^-^)/

Precicely

Righttt

Gabrielle Hendershot mememe

Literally me just now

Yes it’s easy to see that the wife and son are not rational and reasonable by the cognitive distortions and logical fallacies. People of the lie. That’s how abusers manipulate and dominate. The son doesn’t even know he is lying. Just like the lying addict mother. How’d you like the part when she tells the dadget along by getting to the heart of the matter which is getting along? Circular reasoning. Political shit weasel. How about when 5he English professor says so I’m always to blame? Hahaha. Living with heroine addicts no fun.

Narcissists in their make believe world imagine that anger is a sign of pathology. They calmly play mind games with straw man, red herring, tu quoque, pleas to pity and ridicule and incredulity, and do all the same things they accuse the scapegoat of. Double standards. So superficial they learn a little about narcissism and use it to be even more manipulative and dominating. Look at this idiot describing the unreasonable narcissists as reasonable. That’s what evil people of the lie do. Luckily there is a name for every distortion and fallacy they play. What people like indigo girl don’t do beyond her narcissistic empty assertions and mind numbing cliches where she callously flips the script, is engage in actual reasonless deliberation about the actual facts. Thanks for the excellent example of lying empty ehtoric.

The rational, reasonable and calm is a superficial guise the narcissist wears because they stupidly think an angry reaction to their games or the victim standing for his basic human rights is pathological. Meanwhile they lie every time they open their mouth. With haughty arrogance and omniscient certainty and projecting all narcissistic traits in their primitive minds onto the scapegoat. They falsely accuse him of wveryth8ng they themselves are doing. Notice how the son shades the dad that asking for help is interrupting and fiddling with another parameter is ignoring but he withholds these resentments and acts out and then lies about why he walked away. He changes the story and flips the script that dad changed the story when the reality is that he rushes to judgement and doesn’t use critical thinking. He keeps the false and petty accusations coming one after the other. Families like this are taught in recovery to level with each other and to resolve issues reasonably. The people who are evading reasoned deliberation are the wife and son. The ENGLISH PROFESSOR DAD could easily teach them how to talk reasonably in order to GET ALONG. They don’t listen to him. He is right. They all need to sit down together and seek truth and find meaning and understanding. Share their perceptions, thoughts, feelings, beliefs, rules, values and principles. And listen to each other and negotiate. Any decent father would be concerned with a son who walks off angrily and silently in the middle of a job and rushes to judgement that dad isn’t supposed to be annoyed or give honest feedback. Next the son will report back to wife who then punishes dad with these sick mind games. Her language patterns are cluster b. He is absolutely right. She is an addict who lacks insight and needs to deal with this. There is something wrong with the son. She was callous about the effects of her lies to the son about dad and she is too self deceptive to understand or care about the consequences of her actions on others. She is weak and lacks self insight. Neither she nor the son self reflect or reflect back to dad his humanity. He is an object in her drama in a rigid role. She withholds the truth that she told son daddy is an evil monster who doesn’t know how to talk to kids. We see the son acting out the original trauma in a repetition compulsion for fifteen years. Issues go unresolved because she is not honest. She speaks in empty assertions and circular reasoning and vague generalities. With an air of superiority and omniscient certainty. But she can’t explain how to get along. Dad knows. Hang in there and level and talk openly and fight fair. She is irresponsible and has been scapegoating him for decades. Secretive and deceptive. It can cause schitzofrenia and neurological diseases in children. Her and the sons behavior Is crazy making and they know all about it in addiction recovery programs which she did not pursue except superficially and to validate her preexisting distorted beliefs and sick values. In other words she used the superficial knowledge she learned to be even more manipulative and dominating. Her and the sons abusive script is a well known game you can see in any homeless shelter among cluster bs. They should write long letters back and forth and the ENGLISH PROFESSOR could easily teach them how to reason honestly and logically. We actually do have objective standards of morality and reason in this world. Her rules are anti social. We see the son act out the sickness that he can do whatever he wants when he eats the plants on grandmas table half naked like a gorilla. He can do whatever he wants and they better not say anything about it. If they do he will kick in with the global labels and overgeneralizations and spar with word salad and report back to the wife who pretends she is Switzerland while “getting” dad with her distortions and fallavies like a common low level sociopath.

The son is parroting the wife and is her pawn. He needs to seoarate and individuate and stop playing her ally and enabler in a childish covert war against the dad who is obviously superior intellectually and morally.

@@misstmemrs Ok. Ive read your points over and over across the entire comment section of this video, how do you come to the conclusion that the wive is an addict?

I know it well, it took almost a decade to formulate sentences and complete them

Can someone explain to me why this happens?

The son suffers from parental alienation syndrome psychosis and it is the wife who is the pathological narcissist. This is a common triangulation game and you can identify the narcissists because of the cognitive distortions and logical fallacies. The father here is being bullied. If you are only seeing the superficial picture her then you have narcissistic traits yourself.

Same :(

@@xaviersfitnessjourney I can relate to this so I'm goin to tell you why happens in my case, When I'm trying to talk to my dad(a narcissist) he always cut me off when I'm explaining my point of view, he don't let me explain what I'm trying to say, and that happens every time I talk to him and have a disagreement, so I'm now used to it, therefore I always stutter when I try to talk. *Sorry for my English 😬 Im not good at it but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say

So true😭😭

More like mopping the ocen w/o a mop bucket , and the bucket wouldnt even work.

You mean narcissistic son ...

Arguing with any narcissist is like that. Covert narcissists are dicks but they're victims in their own right; usually of abuse as children, and they have an inferiority complex, so their brains develop that delusion of excessive self importance to counter their low self esteem. Grandiose narcissists, on the other hand, have had everything fed to them on a silver platter since day one, so they expect it to continue throughout their lives and never understand how reality really is; they're truly the fucking scum of the Earth and deserve nothing less than to be impaled with a flaming stake.

you phrased it beautiful.

😂

SO OBNOXIOUS!! smh lol

D.A.R.V.O. in action. Wish we had video back in the 80's, but I grew up thinking this was normal. 😢

Yep. I suspect my mom has borderline personality disorder but her parenting style was 100% narcissistic. She would have higher expectations for us than herself. For example, she once snorted and called me a rotten child so I snorted back and called her a rotten mother. She later told me I owed her an apology for that and I told her that she called me a rotten child and should apologize to me.

That's gaslighting.

Thomas Anderson bro what????😂😂😂😂

Thomas Anderson 5:45 Theyre literally talking about going on a jog and swimming YOU did NOT watch this video😂😂😂

Thomas Anderson Thank you for your very boomer input.

@Thomas Anderson Your son is much more successful than you, you suck worthless idiot.

@Thomas Anderson lmao youre the one coming up here for attention and getting everyone pissy, snowflake

Got that right.

Yeah, definitely...

💯

Like the argument would have changed if he wasn't recording. Yeah right, oh yeah it probably would have been different he probably would have thrown the cookie jar at his son

One day, the shoe may be on the other foot. Oh what irony then.

he likes has a very good reason to most of the time, if not all

exactly

Basically.

That is absolutely true.

Crazy man realest comment I’ve ever seen

real

Thomas Anderson found the boomer guys

@Thomas Anderson Bruh you sound like your IQ is smaller than your shoe size. P.S. Please don't spank me thanks

@Thomas Anderson Oh sorry sir. I'll try to do something more respectable with my life like replying to nearly every top comment on a 5 year old video with weird spanking threats.

@Thomas Anderson Bruh I never counted your psycho ass comments, I've just been looking through the comment section and made an estimate. I don't want anything more to do with you and your creepy spanking fetish.

@Thomas Anderson Listen man I just don't want to be apart of some perverted old man's weird spanking kink. I mean, you seem really interested in slapping the asses of random kids on RU-vid. We don't need to stop talking, I just don't want to be part of this weird sexual fantasy. Also, when did I count 410?

@Zachary Sheffield I’m so sorry for that. Stay strong. U did nothing wrong and u r not alone 💖💖💖

Shoot, he's lucky his parents live there. My parents and sister all have a nice place or whatever but how many times I've been homeless , shoooooot, moved out of my mom's when I was 16. I would love to have these as my parents, LOVE

Wish I'd had a camera phone. My mother would have gone to prison for her abuse.

Mine said that to me all the time. And now they are surprised i don't visit them.

My dad always kicks me out of the house starting from 11

Growing up with a father like that i totally would not have thought that that was NOT a normal behaviour.! Thanks for pointing it out

Don't argue with Thomas trust me. Just pray 😇

@Thomas Anderson is she worse than you an ADULT kid 50+? Hypocrite 😂.

@Thomas Anderson I'm talking about you! How you put everyones opinion down to try n make yourself look better. Heard you were about 50 from some random so it's funny asf how much of a crackhead you are

@Jennifer Green holy cow that's worse than these "free inhabitants" people 😂. Thinking people must obey with the stupidest things

It's exactly like how you described too. Over such small stuff.

Fake Normality I agree, and feel so much for this guy. seems like this is a toxic living environment that has beat his self confidence down to shit when he tries to speak to his father.

Yeah

I stutter sometimes and people interrupts me allot and it makes me so frustrated.

Same

Fake Normality now I don't take that, you wait til I'm finish

Thomas Anderson fuck off you dumbass, don’t fucking say anything if don’t have anything good to say you fucking narcissistic bitch. Get a fucking grip bro.

@Thomas Anderson are you the dumbass being filmed?

@Thomas Anderson No I am the president of Russia.

@Thomas Anderson thi s grown ass man is not a kid. He needs to get his own apartment, or move in with a friend.

It's even worse when they make you feel like it's your fault and deserve it

they are so disgusting, total gaslighters.

Jay Pea yes yes yes

I noticed the stuttering immediately and I couldn’t handle it. My heart just broke because I know way too many negative reasons that causes sich talking behaviors and with a dad like that I just knew it was one of those reasons. I‘m so angry right know and I’m not even two minutes in, I really wanna punch the life out of his so called father.

Or maybe he cant think of a reasonable argument as to why he's causing so much distress to his parents by ignoring their privacy. The son is being obnoxious here, so why shouldn't we believe he was also obnoxious in the first instance. Maybe if he was spanked more as a child he wouldn't turn out like this.

Veritas Aequitas what is wrong with you

Asal L why? Is that supposed to be some kind of argument?

I agree! That is an unhealthy relationship! Get out of there and live with someone else that is WAAAAYYYYYYY better!

Yes give your parents some relief !

Bro ur old enough to move out , now move out ! Get a job! Let the old folks live there older years in PEACE ! Geez typical American Modern spoiled 20yr olds!

@Bitter-Truth Pill Saves 👏👏💯 🙌 100% absolutely living with family who are narcissists will have chipped away at his soul & will definitely need wholesome therapy to rebuild his inner self and strength They never acknowledge what he is saying. I am living with the same circumstances & it is *very* difficult.

They wont be comforted because they fear becoming under attack

1 in 200 ish people are narcissists and they usually dont get along well with other narcissists. both of your parents were not narcissists. considering that you were completely wrong about this, there's a good chance neither of them were. what did you do to get them to dislike you so much?

@@MrTedMcForehead I believe those stats are incorrect. Also, even though you never met me or my parents, you assume it was me who messed our relationship, when in fact, my father was the one who caused everything. I guess I got unlucky. I can’t explain why I was put in a shitty situation and a random person on the internet should tell me what I do or don’t know about my parents.

​@@MrTedMcForehead oh, you're weird. how r u gonna say their parent's aren't narcs when you literally don't know what happened? do you think everyone has a healthy life at home??? this video and other videos abt toxic households made me realize my dad is a narcissist himself; like this is exactly what i deal with 24/7. ur disgusting and abuse is a very real thing.

​@@MrTedMcForehead Wrong. Dr. Ramani says, 1 of 6 people is a narcissist. 🎉🎉🎉

i honestly think it's a smarter thing to do to not argue with dumb people and save your energy

Exactly. if the spouse doesn't do anything she's also an enabler

The mom seems kind of sketchy though, mostly siding with the dad

omg are u sibling or smth? so relatable 😭

I go through this all the time

@@user-hr2tu5yr1i I hope you get better soon dude you sound like a really good person 👌

@Winter I promise it will get better 🎉

@@plant2188 I hope you and your sibling is okay 👏

@@ms.playboyinternational393 I'm so sorry to hear that you deserve so much better I'm sure others love you very much

@@ronnie3988 thank you, you're so kind

same as my dad

My dad

That's my soon to be ex to a T. Update: she is now my current Ex girlfriend. I AM FREE.

And my dad, codependent individuals tend to attract people just like their disordered parent, because of the childhood trauma.

How you can tell who the narcissists are is the cognitive distortions and logical fallacies and that is the wife and son.

Nobody cares .

That's NOT true!!! Alot of people do CARE!!! Many people as children grew up with this same kind of ABUSE!!! Back then WE just didn't have the language to explain what was happening to US!!!

My narc. father when he was mad at my mother was also mad at me & my brothers!! Collective anger is really a nasty/evil thing & also "irrational" & possible " dangerous"!! I had to live with it in my childhood & teen & youth years!!

yes, he said ''it's your son'' because she is literally leaving and avoiding all parental and spousal responsibilities. narcissists dont care about ''revealing themselves'', theyre unaware of their behaviour. people that say this are so ill informed

Or maybe he knows that his son will post it on the internet for 2.5 million people to see.

Pretty fucking much.

Yea.... or mabey because its a complete invasion of privacy

somehow, I doubt this would have millions of views if he wasn't emotionally abusing his son.

Luna Moone right! What an asshole!

Or maybe he’s just trying to be calm like his son was asking him to do...

Jeb Helsing calm, maybe. But he was still refusing to take blame for his behavior or apologize for calling his son obnoxious when clearly his son was trying to help him. He didn’t even thank his son for the help.

Exactly

Well his son has a roof over his head and a camera to record his life. His father isn’t doing that bad. This type of family talk shouldn’t be in the Internet. You were obnoxious and instigating the situation. He didn’t want to be filmed respect his privacy. Be thankful

it feels like ur a prison inside ur own house.

It would be the same if u paid rent prob. It’s living w a (former if adult) authority figure.

This is ridiculous! He lives there because he is his SON

Ridiculous

That's why I live in another country

Yeah...

Me 2

Yep

Ya isn't it weird that it suddenly popped up?

Me

Misogynistic prick

Bella Reese truth, you'll never hear an apology or hear them admit they were wrong.

Bella Reese I had a child with one and I am always and I mean always the problem lool. I have learned to deal with it

wow, so you people think this father has a problem ? this is a spoiled brat that literally is recording his father because he called him obnoxious, and well he is! and if the father doesn't want to be recorded he shouldn't have been recorded in the home he lives in !! plus how old is this kid? looks well over 18 to me and if he doesn't like it get out. That's what I would have said. that father didn't yell, scream or holler at his son. far from abusive, if my child would have pulled that shit he would have had that phone shoved so far up hisasss and if he likes posting things online he would have a great video he could share.... his Colonoscopy ... on youtube. the problem in this family is the mother is siding with the son. and I'm sure she does all the time. he has no discipline and never has. because if he was the perfect child he is trying to make himself out to be he would have listened to his father when he asked him not to record him. That's literally what the entire recorded argument was over

maybe pay attention. the house is not his fathers... The house is his grandmothers. Maybe check your ego and realize children are human beings not just something for you to command and hit

Kenny Gentry that father did not hit his grown ass son. But number one thats not a child and number two this is all because he called him obnoxious? Lmao do you not see how spoiled this kid is. C'mon.

Same. Until i was about 27 i finally cut my narcissist family members out of my life. I was surrounded by them. My mom, her boyfriend she met we were forced to live with. A majority of my dads family. My grandma and her sister particularly. Ever since i cut them out of my life I've been a much happier person

When you argue with them they always make the excuse that you wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t them to make your argument invalid

Same here 🤦🏽‍♂️

@@ericasdollworld3886 Im not sure what it is but they definitely run in packs for some reason. Im happy to hear that getting away has helped I was starting to feel guilty for cutting them off

@@bQtea22 i kinda did at one point. A year or 2 after i cut them out, my great aunt passed away. She raised me in a way but she was very psychologically abusive. But i still went to her funeral. The dirty looks, people being cold towards me or try to make me feel guilty. That's when i realized i don't need to be around people like that. And i certainly won't be going to the next funeral. Don't care who it is.

For sure, some boomers never had to grow up. No emotional intelligence. Very bad role models

The lady in the video was trying to stay out of the conflict. She probably actually does feel physically ill when shit like this happens. This is not a healthy environment for anyone.

And when your finally a adult they still want you to “ respect the adult “

@Dakoda Fisher yup , my dad is one . It’s hard . It’s strange though he was never bad . But he’s gotten bad since 2020

That's how you build rebellion and resentment in teens

How did you just describe my Dad in one sentence-

Oh fuck don't incentivize me to write a detailed novel about me resenting my father's influence on my entire sense of self. Trauma from verbal abuse doesn't even begin to scrape the tip of the iceberg

Isabella Gonzalez that happens to me all the time too. My family is mostly dicks, two faced bunch of assholes. They do the bear minimum to help out each other. Whenever i argue with them they also cut me off. Thats when i developed panic attacks. All because i stutter...

Oh my gosh... seriously I just noticed that this might be why I always start crying if someone wants to argue with me. I don't want to cry, I am 28 I'm not a child, but it just comes out. Because my father has always spoken over me and yelled at me whenever there was something to argue about. Thanks dad

Same with me, I don't speak to my dad anymore

Isabella Gonzalez I always thought all dads did that ? Is that not normal?

Currently rethinking my whole life

I think his mom isn't insane either clearly

@@IndianAnimeBros sadly, I feel like she is… driven insane by her husband.

@@janutellet yea but she was trying to end the discussion peacefully like she knew its best to dodge a bullet from this person rather than confronting, that's how we live with narcissists

@@IndianAnimeBros totally agree with you, sir. That's how my relatives deal with my father too. It isn't easy.

@@janutellet Actually, she keeps her boundaries very solid when talking to him. And, she is calling out his behavior for what it is. She's not trying to solve or fix, she's telling her husband it's his problem, not hers. I'm pretty sure the guy who recorded it is a covert narcissist, though.

same it's a stress thing trauma response ect

You were never allowed to have a voice. When you find it, individuate, they hate you for it.

Thomas Anderson I can’t quite figure out if you’re fucking around because it’s written but I really hope you are🥴

Thomas Anderson Okay you made it clear😂 You’re fucking around

Same. My father would just agree to everything my narcisstic mother says to avoid more drama. It sucks

Yup. My dad to a T.

@Thomas Anderson My mom is fine. She is a great woman and has always veen patient with everybody. My dad however, is extremely difficult and to this day I go back and forth because as soon as I start forgiving and trying to move on he does something else to hurt me seemingly on purpose and that can make it hard. It isn't like I enjoy having those feelings so....

Xophieya yeah, I dont even hear it as stuttering. I can see how when he is starting to collect his thoughts he doesn't have time to speak before he is interrupted much less remember his original intent of what he wanted to share. The conversation just goes further and further away from the getting to the resolution. His dad didn't want to resolve it anyway because the best way to get your son to move out is to treat him like crap. Not really the "best" way but maybe all his dad knew of.

Xophieya I'm the same way

His dad's behavior won't change when the son moves. This isn't about the son moving. His dad's behavior will never change. My mom's never did.

Cait3 Holtzback i am sorry that you have no hope, don't believe in your parents and that you demand something from life, that you yourself, dont want give to anybody.

Nowhy very sad ... Hes not alone .

Yeah the way she starts going oh lord and starts saying I don’t feel good… Trying to manipulate the young man into feeling like he’s the rotten one at the core and he’s the crazy confrontational and aggressive one who troubles his poor lil old lady

@@MrBurgerPal it's pretty clear that the kid is a major problem. i dont understand how people are unable to recognize this.

It's a brain disorder. Trying to teach a narc to become empathetic is akin to trying to teach Quantum Mechanics to someone with Down Syndrome.

Its sad yet so true in many ways

Yep

Spot on! My son's girl friend is a narcissist, she's a energy vampire 🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇

@Thomas Anderson shut up dumbass

I know the type. My step dad is one. He will personally attack and mock you if you stand up to him. Much like this weirdo that comments on everyone freaking out

@@ratqueen3809 he's been doing this for months. He's saying stuff that has nothing to do with the convo, then leaves once he's wrong. That's how narcissistic people are online. Let us pray for him 🙏😇

@@ratqueen3809 he is the dad. There was someone on here who did a thorough search and the pic was the same as the dad in the video. It's so pathetic lol.

@Thomas Anderson you've even admitted it yourself on another comment thread. Move on with your life because your son has.

Yep!

Yes why didnt you film that secretly? Nobody wants tonbe film having an argument.

Yes he should have recorded secretly.

@Neo Anderson the name calling, and the denial. Proves that you are the dad in the video, and it proves that you are a narcissist. You are just upset that people that actually know you. Finally see the real you.

Thomas Anderson Pretty bold of you to insinuate her being weak when you basically had a tantrum after she criticised you. All it does is show how frail your ego is.

Cat Gwinn ,I just don't speak aloud that often.

Yes, and they have a way of making you doubt what you are trying to say or making you feel like your words don't make sense so you stutter and falter in the message you are trying to convey and they make it seem like you are exaggerating , being dramatic, carrying on like a child ect so speaking out and speaking up confidently to defend yourself is very hard

Zoe Frew exactly.

Zoe Frew ,but you still feel like defending them because you feel the need to care. I understand that.

I stutter a lot but my parents are kind and care about me (sometimes) the only reason I stutter is because whenever I try to talk with my parents they always cut me off, argue, or just ignore me.

@Thomas Anderson Lol bro was sitting on top the stairs while his dad shit talked him for a good 5-10 min. This guy's definitely trouble eh bud 😂

@Thomas Anderson nobodys listening to you anymore lol

@Thomas Anderson lol okay bro sounds good to me. Haha I've had fun, but shits just weird now

@Thomas Anderson the irony! 😂

@Thomas Anderson pce

MemerSchemer exactly!

MemerSchemer Same bro! 🤔

someone at youtube hq got triggered?

Same lulz

Why is it popping in the first place.

Don't be fooled. The other parent assumes the narc traits over the years. They will always choose the narc. Even over their own kids.

@@LocaButt I’m sure sometimes that’s the case, we can tell from just this video though

Last time i played the video proof to prove my point of him denying abusing us i almost ended up beaten. They're so scared of evidence, because they know the police would believe the evidence and not their empthy words.🤭

Those parents must be mentally ill on the inside, I feel bad for the camera guy.

It's because in their mind they aren't doing anything wrong🤷‍♂️

That's fucking truth 😂

Ong

Sarah H because

Ikr

Sarah H Same

Because videos in your recommendations don't have to be new.

Sarah H Same? I don’t even watch any videos that would relate to this. Weird.

Thank you!! I’m sad to see people siding with the parents yikes!!

Yeah, he did the most brilliant thing, and I love this went viral.

@webskri You obviously don’t know wtf gaslighting is then

@webskri lol Ignorant bottom-feeders who gain their self worth through comments go brrrr

Sorry to hear your mom's a narcissist. It's been 10yrs since I last spoke to mine. Though my life is so much calmer now, the lasting impact of a narcissist isn't so easy to remove.

@webskri yeah we don’t do racist here 🤚

@webskri made up that word has been around since like the 60s.It's a form of manipulation/mind control.

SpecialDietCoke Xx it is wrong to record ypur family and put it on utube. If someone video taped u u would be upset

Mary Preston well for the sake of exposing a narcissist, it's worth it. This man can't hurt anyone else because he's exposed and people will avoid him

SpecialDietCoke Xx the father was not a narcissistic. The father was volated in his own home. If u saw someone videotaped u while u were in an argument u would protest as well. Narcs are very controlling and will try to demonize u and make u feel like the perpetrator. The father was being a father

However father might have narc tendencies

Mary Preston girl what kinda bullshit are you pulling out of ur ass This is an abusive family relationship, and he’s emotionally broken from it. Plus this video is four years ago, so drop it. He’s a narcissist dad and I would love to expose any abusive person to the world. Serves them right.

jordache141 mine just said “you wanna keep having a car to drive?”

i heard this from both of my parents.... today I can recognize all this for what it is

He's a grown ass man!! He shouldn't be living there!!

yep my mum

bluemoon thank you!!! I was about to say the same thing. I don’t have my license, a car, or college. My parents never taught me and it was always empty excuses. Then my parents chose their house loan over my school. I knew it was their house and their rules but I couldn’t but feel like I had no where to go if I couldn’t even get education.

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@Thomas Anderson Maybe you, I'd have snatched the camera by then, or left.

incorrect

@Thomas Anderson wait aren't you the crazy old man in the comments bashing everyone who thinks the guy is crazy?

@Thomas Anderson "Haven't bashed anyone" - yet he says "just fighting fire with fire" - An immature idiot will never be as downright stupid and hungry for attention as you. Fighting fire with fire is an inefficient strategy because it doesn't prove your point, it merely shows that you are just as bad as the emitter of the fire. Analyze what you are saying, moron. We do not need a wakeup call to know that you have absolutely no knowledge or experience in psychology. So please, get off this video. If your children are successful (I highly doubt it seeing how delusional and egoistical you are) then just honestly, stop wasting your time on giving "wakeup calls" - This is the internet. Everyone is immature in a certain aspect. You can't change that, nor will your pointless flames.

@@noonenooo2843 Do not bother. Thomas Anderson is the same idiot who is subscribed to 5-minute-crafts.

@Thomas Anderson lmao you are the true definition of moronic

@Thomas Anderson ok boomer

Bob Didlboc _"I want it. I want it now."_ muh german unification

Are you the new Justin Y.? I see you everywhere

nama hecc Wow I’ve finally gotten noticed

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Exactly. He’s reflecting his bad characteristics onto him because he is feeding off of that.

He's making a video and thrown because his dad isn't going according to script.

Yes it's weakness.

The wife did this. Emasculated him.

Dad doesn't want to have a video of bullying on the internet. He tries to talk it through. Mom and son have a completely different agenda. It's dads fault and we aren't talking it through. Both speak in feminine politics, psychological warfare, lies, distortions, evasions, diversions and deflections. It's the women's movement and the boys are psychotic, emasculated fiends. It's reversal of cause and effect. Both men and women have a part in this.

He is not in reality.

right ive experienced that feeling before

that honestly makes a lot of sense and makes me so sad

Exactly what I thought. Poor dude.

It's sad that we recognize how he feels

Yeah , I talk really fast because I try to get my words out before anyone cuts me off because I’m so used to it

Yes they are

Yes, the are they masters of low blows and pettiness.

Nicole and they end up in government

someone on here comments..thats why you set up 2nd and 3rd cameras, to collect evidence". Are you kidding me?! look what this has come to! outfuckingrageous!! And for what? For what end? to benefit.....? To help.....?

could be mental disorder