Timecodesss: 0:00 - What is Shame? 0:23 - Experiencing Shame 1:10 - Shame vs Guilt 1:53 - 4 different categories of Shame 2:32 - What is the ‘’solution’’ of Shame? 3:08 - And in conclusion (my own opinion)
Well but i could also argue, that i suffer pain now, to maximize the Joy throughout my life in the Future, wouldnt that also bei hedonism? Take the girl as example, she might have calculated how much Joy a good Job and good pay will give her in the Future and through this, studying hard now would be the Most hedonistic Thing, to maximize Joy in the end. Hedonism doesnt have to be short sighted
You either suffer the pain of discipline or regret you cannot know what actions will cause the most happiness what may cause you happiness now could cause strife due lack of options in the future self improvement will open up many options in the future
True.but "no pain no gain" is too simple of an idea . in my opinion. There has to be a way to gain pleasures and health simultaneously. Safety and fun.
@@cold485 your right you can suffer both pain simultaneously as well as feeling happy is all about having someone to love something to do and something to hope for.dopamine is a motivation chemical not just the chemical of pleasure you can do anything you want to find happiness although you should always properly educate yourself and find a balance of pleasure and growth like you said. Watch after skools video on Immanuel kant if you want it may be a beautiful learning experience
While it makes sense, it can be a flawed concept in modern times. In the past, yes, picking the difficult option in life could lead to more success, but in modern times there are far more external factors that can prevent this notion from being true. Take the student example. Student A studies hard, gets good grades, and goes to a respectable college. Student B does the bare minimum. Student A goes to college, does well, and then enters the job market, but only to struggle in getting hired or has to take a low-income job just to survive. Student B gets Daddy money and company. Student A has done all of this and is not repping the benefits of all the hard work because of the economy or job market. Student B lives an easier life having never experienced hardship. Sometimes making sacrifices, for long-term gain can be painful, you'll close your eyes put the work in, and then boom you're in your thirties. REAL-LIFE EXPERIENCE.
Oh, and other minor ways to decrease intrusive / negative thought patterns are: - Sleep well = A lack of sleep makes it harder to think clearly, + Tired people tend to be more irritable or on edge in general. - Progressive muscle relaxation = The idea is that by tightening and relaxing your body, piece by piece, it calms the nervous system and brings on mental relaxation, too. - Deep breathing, yoga and meditation = Stress is a major culprit for intrusive thoughts. So calming activities can help center you and keep your mind from racing. Source: www.today.com/health/mind-body/how-to-stop-intrusive-thoughts-rcna148189
I actually like class clowns, they make an otherwise dull boring day entertaining, it help the time pass by. It's true that they sometimes, including myself being guilty of this, cause troubles, but most of these are relatively harmless. They're like the school's prankster, and jokester. It's partially like attention-seeking, and copping, there's some psychology to it. I personally think it's at the subconscious level, we're not even aware of the reasoning behind our own behaviors. Part of the fun is making people laugh, entertaining people, kind of like people-pleaser at a subconscious level. It's like a class clown could easily make an other tense day cheery, a moody person all happy. That's the purpose of class clowning. There are some class clown that 'takes it too far.' By that I mean really disruptive, and generally yeah you know. You have to remember most of them are teenagers, bored to death at school. It's surprising if they have ADHD, it could be a sign of it.
I am a class clown but i have a form of autism that instead of making me dumb, makes me hyperactive and I easily learn new stuff. so i still get good grades but also distract myself form anxiety/depression by making funny jokes and gaining social acceptence.
There is one God, who created Heaven and Earth. He made us in His image and likeness. He made us to worship and we chose to rebel against God. As a result we are seperated from God but God didn’t leave us. Instead God sent His one and only Son, His Son is Jesus. He was born of a virgin and lived a life without sin, though He was tempted in every way as we are. He went on the cross and He willingly took our sins past, present and future. Jesus died in my place for my sins, paying my debt to God and purchasing my salvation. Jesus died but He rose on the third day victory over satan, sin, demons and hell. Jesus tells us to share this story of the Good News and there’s a God that lovingly pursues us. Jesus is coming to judge the living and the dead and those who trust in God will forever be with Him in His Kingdom and those who do not will suffer forever in hell.
Your dad who went out to buy milk and never came back has a higher likelihood of coming back than Jesus. He has been gone for 20 years, while Jesus has been gone for 2 millennia (and that is with the generous assumption that he ever even existed, let alone as a god and not just one popular loony).
I've always been confused about self love, and now I've come to a conclusion: self love is basically taking care of yourself as if you would of your loved one (yes very very meaningful)
As a little class clown (little jokes) I gotta say you just read me, I use humor to make social connections since I'm very bad at them but I still want to be social, I thought this was a very big channel cause of how nicely and simply everything was explained!
