Parents ‼️ Listen up😎 The days are long long… but the years are short ‼️ Make it count ‼️😎 It can be done. I didn’t pass with flying colors nor I’m expecting to win Mother of the year… but I want to know when I look in the mirror,I never turned my back on my little ones.When I went grocery shopping I didn’t get a bottle of my favorite wine because I knew I could buy 3 gallon of milk for them. I asked everyone to pick up my children and take them to church if I had to work… Being a single mother it’s absolutely nuts,I never thought in a million years I would have to raise 4 little ones without a partner 😅… But God sent countless Angels to help us.✝️✝️ Don’t hesitate and ask for help 😎
I have a son and he’ll be two next month and I’m a stay at home parent bc in disabled and on disability. I feel guilt for not feeling like I can truly provide for him. His mother goes to work but she doesn’t wanna lift a finger with helping raise him at all and everything seems to be about her and when I met her she had a 4 year old son and he had no structure at all. He’d draw on walls, scream when you’d sing or disciple him and when he’d actually get in trouble he’d have his tablet. I put everything into helping him but I feel like it’s a never ending battle with him sometimes. I feel like with my him he didn’t have any discipline or structure or love and empathy with him and he has a hard time with his behavior. Their mother doesn’t set a great example on how to behave and treat people and it’s hard to work with them. I taught my son thank you she teaches him mine and no to undo what I’ve done. It’s kinda frustrating man.
2:50 I Love Eating alone!!! Makes me happier & Enjoy the food better rather than thinking what to say or mouth full of food & trying to answer someone 😅 So Your Wrong There!!! Some people enjoy it better alone!!! Then get together after it 😊
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Every Inner Action with Ur Child is an Opportunity to Either Bolster Their Sphere-it r Diminish it and in doing so either support ur own expanding consciousness r hold it back
You have more than 4 years.... and every life is different.... I like peterson.... but he is wrong here.... and this is depressing and wrong to tell parents... specially these days.... if you missed any of it.... start now.... anytime you move forward.... you heal.... they heal.... just be better and know the first precious moments arent the ONLY or LAST.... they are a stage..... start today and dont miss and long gor arbitrary ideologies titles and periods of time.... people and children are dynamic and plasticity is a thing..... peterson is speaking from a personal place here.... his life is not your life.... his children are his children..... just be better than your parents even if they were great parents.... this will heal all and fix everything if sustained over time.... I never had to teach my little girl to come get a hug.... and when she hugs me as tightly as she does.... I know she feels loved.... and I know Im not as shitty as a parent as I feel at times and others will tell you all the time....
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I literally just got done watching another video of a lady who is a therapist scolding people for acting making the kids feel like they have to take care of themselves like you should be grateful I feed you and you should be grateful I give you clothes she said, isn’t that what you’re supposed to do? Now you’re sayingthose kids need to be set the dining room table they’re in worthless. They need to be useful oh Lord.
Am so grateful ive never missed a single milestone in my kids lives. I appreciate every single moment i bond with my kids. My daughter just turned 5 and the first 5 years of a child is very very important. I used to chase the father of my son to be involved in his son life but the more i kept chasing him the more i sounded like a fool and i learnt to let him go and raise my son without him because you cant change some men or make them be responsible. I focus on my son and my daughter and leave the rest to the universe to take care of.
Why do I feel the need to scream into this void I’ll never know. What a strange way to exist. The beauty I’ve found is real but fleeting. Sorrow rules this place and pain is how it maintains it’s reign. I may never know why I am here, but what an amazing place to end up. How lucky we must all be. I am truly amazed. And utterly lost……god help us all
Got it. Did everything right. Thank you daddy. Just trusted my feelings.. and didnt get a working licence, till the little one was 7... thank god... :D had so much fun.
Such a struggle to stay home right now with my 2.5 yr old finacialy. But. I understand how fast that time goes so im not quite ready to go back to work yet. My kids saved my life for the better. Pulled up out of homelessness and addiction for my babies. People say abort if you have nothing. U shouldnt bring a kid in this world, maybe that babie will save ya both, ya never know
This is so true and fundamental. I'm on the cusp of crying because my ex countered every one of these ideas. I missed out big time. Pick a good woman to have kids with
Age has very little to do with being ready to be a good parent. Ditto for the onset of the biological urge. Before you get pregnant, if you're thinking that raising children is easy bc all you need to do is do the opposite of what your parents did; if you believe it is possible to be perfect parents; if you think naively that everyone before you just disnt get it... you're acrually a high risk parent-wannabe.
What he said about rough housing with your kids makes sense. It may be why there are so many effeminate guys in the world nowadays, among other reasons have to do with chemicals in our foods. It was a good thing I was a tomboy going up most times. I went out and explored and played in the dirt and got cut and bruised. So playing with my kids, wrestling with them, etc. I can see now that letting my kids to the saw thing has made them good people.
I’m privileged to be able to take time to watch my 8 month old grow up day to day while still being able to pay my bills. There’s times where I’m caught up with work but when there’s down time I make sure all my time goes to her & being with her.
I feel bored and anxious when I have my daughter every other weekend. It's been 1 year haven't figured it out. Any suggestions or anyone went through something similar?
So I have a 3 year old and she is very well behaved and always the life of the party. I have a new girlfriend (I tried to make it work with her mom but we just weren’t able to be around each other) and she has a 2 year old and she’s a cute little girl but also bad as hell. I’ve been around her plenty now at this point and I want to try and help her behave better without making her mom feel a type of way about it. Also I have never used physical punishment. Usually a stern voice and I don’t bluff. If I say stop or we’re leaving my daughter knows if she don’t quit we’re going to leave.
Motherhood to me means a packed of patience. I have completely changed to insight out these 2 yrs in my parenting style. I'm too patience to my child and control my hand and voice so the stress rebound back to my brain and now I'm having mental problem.
I am learning a major lesson right now. I believe I may have some emotional disorders due to losing my mother at the age of 7. When our children were born, I had my own dreams of how I wanted them to live so they had a better life than mine. The problem is, as I continued to impose my dreams upon them instead of learning who they are as humans. Fast forward to 18, my daughter decided she no longer cared what I thought and rebelled. It took letting those dreams I had die within myself so I could begin learning who she was and what her own dreams were. Letting those dreams go and begging a new journey of acceptance, it immediately turned our relationship around. My advice, don’t expect your children to live out your dreams. Stop, listen to them, let them grow and follow their own dreams and you may find they actually speak “with you” instead of speaking “to” them and only hearing “I know dad”.
My son literally saved me from my drug addiction . Being a single parent of 3 kids Is literally the best thing that has happened to me . I get to make these type of decisions on my own . God knows exactly what he is doing with my life . He knows why the kids dads are not around .
I am 35 years old with two babies one 5 and the other one 2. I play as much as I can with them because I know these years go by very quickly. I don't have all the time in the world and I feel guilty when I spend about 1 hour with them out of my 4 hours of time I have to be at home after work. I have to balance my duties as an adult and my free time but I am definitely trying to put my interests aside just to spend more time with them. I can always do my stuff when I am older and don't want to miss these years for anything in the world, as a matter of fact I don't want to miss any time with them until they leave the house when they are adults. I believe that having them is the most amazing blessing I could have and want to give them the best dad experience they can have. I am building a house and doing many things right now and have been putting off going out and doing things I know they would love just to finish faster and give them an amazing house and a better life but I realizes that I will always have an excuse to not do stuff in life so I decided to just do everything I can with them even If I got other things going on at the same time, life is short and we need to put the important things ahead of everything else. I try to take them out on trips or camping every weekend now and also spend time with them daily. Even tho I do all these things I still feel that time flies and I am not doing enough with them.
My ex wife took my girls 6 and 7 took off to Mexico I miss them so much everyday I am extremely depressed and don’t know what to do. Thought about suicide a few times.
Ok can you please tell me why every paren needed to hear this. You raise your kid the way you see fit. Dont push you beliefs on others. What makes you a better parent then anyone else.
