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Marissa Lyda
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I’m Marissa! A mom to 2 boys and I’m passionate about budgeting for our family!

My husband and I got married right out of college and had $87,000 of student loan debt. We had dreams for our future which included having a house and a family and we knew we couldn't do it all with so much debt. So we decided to start a budget and make some sacrifices, and within 2.5 years, we became debt-free! Since then, we've saved for an emergency fund, upgraded our cars and bought a house all thanks to budgeting.

I love budgeting because it gives you the permission to spend on things that are important to you all while still working on your financial goals. Here on my channel I share budgeting tips to help you feel confident in your ability to balance life and money.
August 2024 Budget With Me
20:06
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What I Bought For Baby #3
14:10
2 месяца назад
Family of 4 Budget | July 2024 Budget With Me
15:58
3 месяца назад
Our Actual Budget | May 2024 Budget With Me
14:57
5 месяцев назад
How Much Our Family Spent At Disneyland
19:27
5 месяцев назад
We Got Raises! April 2024 Budget With Me
12:23
6 месяцев назад
March 2024 Budget With Me | Tax Refund Surplus
13:40
6 месяцев назад
How To Become A Bookkeeper
7:57
6 месяцев назад
How I Became A Bookkeeper
8:29
6 месяцев назад
5 Work From Home Jobs For Stay-At-Home-Moms
6:57
7 месяцев назад
How Are Millennial Parents Affording Children?
10:05
7 месяцев назад
January 2024 Budget Report | Family of 4
17:47
7 месяцев назад
Chime Bank Review 2024: Pros & Cons
4:54
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Комментарии
@jennifermitchell1730
@jennifermitchell1730 19 часов назад
Following because of your giving. I need to start that. Honestly, I need to start a budget.
@charity7273
@charity7273 День назад
All the people with no kids trying to figure out what a snoo is lol
@lindseyrybicki2438
@lindseyrybicki2438 День назад
I’m pretty sure she lent her snow out to a friend in between kids too so that family could use it with their new born.
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife День назад
Our snoo has been borrowed by 3 other babies as well! Definitely gotten good use out of it.
@tammyleins9317
@tammyleins9317 День назад
Just curious, for your "income section", you do use the money that you and your husband made in the prior month or are you basing it on your projected income? We're self-employed and I'm trying to figure out the best way to budget. Thankfully, we're personally debt-free but do have a trailer loan for our business (we own a trucking business and having a trailer is a necessity).
@ruthjustdancer3635
@ruthjustdancer3635 День назад
I get that, i am really good at saving money but bought a wipey warmer because that was going to save money on the all the laundry from him dirting😂
@jenpiccolo
@jenpiccolo День назад
What phone carrier do you have? Its impossible for us to get it down to under $160 for 2 unlimited plans :(
@ellengriffith1585
@ellengriffith1585 День назад
I loved the name you picked.
@Dragonmoon8526
@Dragonmoon8526 День назад
If you have time to "call" people out about their life style. Besed on minimal information. You have too much time on your hands and should probably invest more energy into your own life. PS Thanks for your advice.
@doriangel97
@doriangel97 День назад
What do you think now that they lowered their apy to 4.70%?
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife День назад
I knew rates would lower with the fed cutting rates. But high yield savings accounts are still going to be earning you 10x the average national rate! You’re still much better off keeping your emergency fund here than in a regular bank earning you pennies. 😊
@adeer179
@adeer179 2 дня назад
Platinum Rate is slowing going down currently 4.70%
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 2 дня назад
Yes. The rate is not locked in and is impacted by the federal funds rate which has recently been lowered. Buy a HYSA will always be paying significantly more than a standard bank account.
@hayleyblake3311
@hayleyblake3311 2 дня назад
Our electric bill is crazy high and this just made me realize that! I live in California and it’s hot in the summer but it should not be $700 a month! I need to look into this 😅
@JadeandOliverPettett
@JadeandOliverPettett 2 дня назад
12 weeks!! Men get 2 weeks here in the UK paid at £150 per week😅
@thelifeofmaryd.2494
@thelifeofmaryd.2494 2 дня назад
God first! Thats what im taking about👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾😁
@Emma-ql2lv
@Emma-ql2lv 2 дня назад
Are y’all Mormons?
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 2 дня назад
Nope! Just non denominational Christians. 😊
@Amanda-fe7zf
@Amanda-fe7zf 2 дня назад
How is everything so cheap there?! Groceries here are twice that for a family of 4 and we have cut back on everything to help.
@sjgavenger37
@sjgavenger37 2 дня назад
$2400 for house? What did you buy a feeaking mansion.
@ethelcampbell3317
@ethelcampbell3317 2 дня назад
Depends when they bought, could literally just be a 4bed, 3bath
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 2 дня назад
That is a super reasonable payment these days. Our house is 2,800 sq ft and cost $535k but we put $135k down.
@lolabee1825
@lolabee1825 2 дня назад
Dang imagine being rich bruh
@toysandkids1165
@toysandkids1165 2 дня назад
How is 9600 a month rich
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 2 дня назад
We’re not rich. This is middle class.
@lolabee1825
@lolabee1825 2 дня назад
@@TheBudgetingWife Definitely upper middle class like yes you’re not living in a mansion rich but having money to save for college funds vacations etc having money left over after bills I exaggerated but to me that’s “rich” you know what I mean? Especially compared to the majority of Americans these days it’s just really fortunate.
@bunnyears21
@bunnyears21 2 дня назад
960 on giving??? girl cut that down and put 800 to the vacation lol
@thelifeofmaryd.2494
@thelifeofmaryd.2494 2 дня назад
Its probably tithes.😊
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 2 дня назад
Giving will always be important to us as Christians to keep in our budget. 😊
@bunnyears21
@bunnyears21 2 дня назад
@@TheBudgetingWife your religion is the worst thing that has ever happened to humanity.
@lizzie8320
@lizzie8320 2 дня назад
Thanks Marissa! Love these! Im curious though how do you keep track of how much you have in each category and how much youre spending, especially when on the go?!
@lizzie8320
@lizzie8320 2 дня назад
Thanks Marissa! Love these! Im curious though how do you keep track of how much you have in each category and how much youre spending, especially when on the go?!
@rebeccablashock3829
@rebeccablashock3829 2 дня назад
His hair.... 😊
@monicapriyasusanjoshua4954
@monicapriyasusanjoshua4954 2 дня назад
2 miscarriages for me pls pray for me .. 7 yrs of waiting
@sophiaaudrina
@sophiaaudrina 2 дня назад
Awww
@CookbooksonRepeat
@CookbooksonRepeat 3 дня назад
May I ask where you get your life insurance from? I’m looking for a policy for myself and yours seem like a great deal. Thank you!
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
We have term life insurance through USAA!
@CookbooksonRepeat
@CookbooksonRepeat 2 дня назад
@@TheBudgetingWife thank you! Good to know!
@ScrunchyPersonalFinance
@ScrunchyPersonalFinance 3 дня назад
Great job! I’ve been following for years in my personal account and I’m so impressed with your ability to keep filming with three kids. I literally just started and I’m struggling to plan, film, edit etc during my lunch breaks and weekend naps with just one toddler. Also I saw another comment that was judgey about Christmas sinking fund, forget them. The whole point of sacrificing was so you can spend on the things you want, so go big for Christmas ❤
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
So exciting that you started your channel!! Unfortunately I'm not as active here as I used to be. I wish I could film more but it is hard to balance! Getting an hour a week to film and edit helps me so much! And thank you. I totally agree. :)
@user-vn6xo2tc9r
@user-vn6xo2tc9r 3 дня назад
Even adding in the taxes and insurance, your mortgage seems so low for your amount!!
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
It definitely fits well with our budget! Though I'm also hopeful we will be able to refinance in 2025 and bring that payment down a little bit too!
@keithredsox36
@keithredsox36 3 дня назад
Pay down that house. 200 a month for Christmas is too much ..
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
We haven't been saving for Christmas all year. So saving for just a few months here. Especially as Prime Day is in October if we find something that would be great for a Christmas gift.
@jacekgarbowicz616
@jacekgarbowicz616 3 дня назад
Dear Marissa, I have watched both your new and old videos and they are all great :) . There is one video which really touched me. That is the one from late 2022 where you were crying when your husband lost his job. Out of kindness and as a kind update I want to ask you if you are happy and smiling today 😊😊😊😊? For the same reasons, I also want to ask if your husband is doing good these days 😊😊😊😊 and if the sponsor kids in Rwanda were able to continue having funds from someone 😊😊😊😊 Being happy is what makes everybody else happy and is the healthiest thing in life 😃
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
You're so kind!! I am so grateful that we are where we are right now with our finances. That we made it through that short storm and are doing well finanically. And we still support our sweet kids in Rwanda! Thanks so much for thinking of us!
@jacekgarbowicz616
@jacekgarbowicz616 День назад
@@TheBudgetingWife You’re more than welcome😊 I think you are also very kind 😃 I’m so happy you and everybody is doing well 😃 This will really help me to think positive when tough moments happen and with being optimistic in life :)
@jessicatounkara8753
@jessicatounkara8753 3 дня назад
Because you are both working from home you may be eligible for low mileage discounts. Check woth your car insurance company.
@adultingtime
@adultingtime 3 дня назад
I love how you color code your high yield savings funds. I always have a hard time tracking stuff like that, after logging in and checking all my other accounts Im over it LOL. I might have to incorporate your color code method for that🥰
@Collinsv8
@Collinsv8 3 дня назад
Got this randomly recommended. As a new husband, this is great! Like how resourceful you are with your side gigs. You are creating a great foundation.
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
Awwww! Thank you!
@projectsharon6506
@projectsharon6506 3 дня назад
So glad to see a video from you. Love your budget videos
@NextToNetProfit
@NextToNetProfit 3 дня назад
Great Video! Just Subscribed... this helped me as I'm on my journey to become a bookkeeper. love your channel 🙏
@christiansailor2880
@christiansailor2880 3 дня назад
Awesome video!
@booboobear6398
@booboobear6398 3 дня назад
❤❤
@summerjoy247
@summerjoy247 3 дня назад
Wow $300 towards 529s sounds really good for me especially since you’re starting soon as they’re born. We’re investing less than $100 per month in 529s 😞
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
Doing anything is great! Maybe that will increase over the years! I'm hopeful we can do that for our boys in the future too.
@user-vn6xo2tc9r
@user-vn6xo2tc9r 3 дня назад
Miss these budget videos!!! Thanks for sharing! ✨🧡🧡
@user-vn6xo2tc9r
@user-vn6xo2tc9r 3 дня назад
Did your or Jacob’s parents move closer?!
@TheBudgetingWife
@TheBudgetingWife 3 дня назад
My parents!
@ceciliaruns72
@ceciliaruns72 4 дня назад
The yawning! 😅 ❤
@Missionaryjuampi
@Missionaryjuampi 4 дня назад
Trust me if you go waste their time they will waste yours
@major_thomasina
@major_thomasina 5 дней назад
It’s the County Recorders, they keep all the birth, death records amongst other things.
@muzduza44
@muzduza44 5 дней назад
Catalyst for interest in improving our conscious contacts as reality presents itself..ya? I'm learning.throughness lessens frustrated constant correctingness...
@lydia5164
@lydia5164 5 дней назад
I've heard people say the velcro swaddles wake the baby up too much?
@Inside_Out_6
@Inside_Out_6 6 дней назад
that’s the Same one I go to 😂
@midwestbadger2503
@midwestbadger2503 6 дней назад
Congratulations! I had mine in January this year i was there 2 days, the only one there the entire 2 days. It was so eerie but apparently that was not busy baby season lol.
@paigelane5031
@paigelane5031 6 дней назад
The same happened with us! 5 years ago.. we just stuck with the wrong date 😂.
@JacquelynRivera930
@JacquelynRivera930 2 дня назад
It'll be an issue for your child in the future when they go to collect your life insurance, retirements, get executor of your estate, etc. I just went through all of this with my two uncles and my grandmother as I inherited all three of their estates, investments, retirements, life insurance policies and unpaid compensation. They wanted the birth and death certificates of every single one of the family members and my brother's name was wrong on my uncle's death certificate and so was his relationship to my uncle. They put that he was his nephew, and in reality, he is his step nephew, so because of that, the courts kept thinking that my brother was biologically related to my dad's side of the family when he is not, and they wanted my brother's birth certificate, but it obviously didn't match my family records, so we had to get it fixed because it messed with the estate process with the court system.
@keithredsox36
@keithredsox36 8 дней назад
Debt = risk . Simple as that. Never have a rental that isn’t paid for .. Covid taught everyone that .. when they didn’t pay you be screwed !
@AK-47ISTHEWAY
@AK-47ISTHEWAY 7 дней назад
But you still have property taxes to pay and they never go away.
@noahdettmer5242
@noahdettmer5242 8 дней назад
Definitely made 4 years ago 😂 good advice though
@WaterBuizel
@WaterBuizel 8 дней назад
Please get off your ass and think
@Saturn57
@Saturn57 8 дней назад
I made alot of $$ in my 20s, wasted it all and was miserable. Quit and became a SAHM in my 30s. Did my masters and worked part time from home. Just turned 40 and I'm broke but happy. Trying to rebuild my life again.