Quinn Holliday is a prominent American RU-vid personality and filmmaker, known for his expertise in the area of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. With a deep understanding of this complex disorder, he has dedicated his career to exploring the topic and shedding light on the impact it has on individuals and society as a whole.
Quinn has been recognized for his work with numerous accolades, including multiple awards for best independent documentary film. He has also authored a best-selling book on Amazon titled "Thriving After a Narcissist," which has helped countless individuals overcome the challenges of dealing with narcissistic personalities in their lives.
Through his engaging and thought-provoking content, Quinn has built a large following of viewers and readers who appreciate his insights and expertise on this important topic. His work continues to inspire and educate, and he remains a leading voice in the conversation surrounding Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
I did reply to a 3 year hoover message last night - I’m so annoyed today as I had gone off all social media and all messaging apps for 3 years!! I blocked his number also. But I had forgotten about him! For a year at least he hasn’t even come into my head - I went back on WhatsApp and updated my picture only to get photos from a friend as still not on FB. Literally been back on it a week and got a hoover text - it was a link to help for a health condition I have - so I replied thanks - I was praying that was it. Seconds later “ping” commenting on my profile pic and fact my son has grown so much as he is in the pic with me. I haven’t replied and now I have to block and delete again. I had forgotten his number too so at least now I can block and delete - WhatsApp is very triggering for me as that is where most of our relationship happened - me waiting for him to reply to my messages and him ignoring me for anywhere up to 10 days then acting like nothing happened. Be aware people keep those points of access blocked - I honestly never thought I’d hear from him again and I’m annoyed I replied to the first message as it wasn’t a message it was a link
Thanx bro, had a 2 year hoover few days ago. She's blocked everywhere her 3 calls went to the black list. I'm angry with me that I started thinking about her again. I stoped dating for a year. Since a year I have a lot of female friends with benefits and I enjoy honesty and peace. Right after spending a long week end with a women that gets deaper to me... Bang, there is the hoover. I went out with the new girl. She is hot, 6' tall and got style. It is possible that it got to crazy 100 miles away by people cuz of the smoke show. But after I dumped her I could feel a icky soul conection. What do you think? Can they feel that you're doing good? That would be creapy.
Your videos are very helpful and informative. Continue to share content on these topics. It helps when people such as myself who are still picking up the pieces of our lives. Thank you.
Following you on a frequent basis since +2 years. I am healing from my love being covertly terribly abused by a toxic conning man. I want to thank you for learning you. To all struggeling to realize what an abusive person has done to you: it takes time. To be yourself again. Glad I am out of the FOG, and glad to learn, why I got in.Thank you yery much Quinn.
Thank you so much-I knew there was something I could not add up.The unwillingness to take the relationship to the next level and depth.What a miracle to hear this at the right time . Gratitude from me x❤
I was loyal to a narcissistic man for more than a year. The entire time he was lying to me and triangulating me with his supposed "ex" wife and others, always trying to get me jealous so as to have control over me and treat me like an object to meet his sexual needs. I was degraded, future faked, mocked, insulted and constantly put down for my appearance, personality, etc. He would lie to my face and tell me I was the only woman he was involved with yet I knew all along in my gut he was lying to me and using me, meanwhile laughing behind my back with his female co workers and others., The entire "situationship" he never once took me out on a real date nor did he want to be with me in public unless it was at a motel. I started to feel so disgusted and humiliated with myself for allowing this entitled self absorbed narcissist to insult me and exploit me. I know he was living a double life and simply using me to pun ish and exploit because he did not like my political views and way I viewed things. I even suspected that this man was sent from demons as some sort of fed agent to mock me and perhaps have me killed or die from the pressures and stress he caused me by it being my "duty" to please him. I began to even fear this man an d fear for my life and safety because I had already allowed this liar and manipulator easy access to my emotions, my honesty and loyalty. He had found me on some dating site and saw me as easy bait and the ENTIRE time he was still on that dating site and was involved with many other women, triangulating me and degrading me constantly....gaslighting ma and insulting me using cohersive abuse and other tactics oif manipulations, knowing I was always 100% honest and loyal to this jerk., He was trying to destroy my life and make me insane with his gasligthting. He would become jealous if I were to tallk to other men but he was allowed to do as he pleased because the entire time I was just his "friend": anyway but stupid me remained loyal and wasted my time on a lying player narcissistic man. These people are predators who exploiit women and others sexually for their vulnerabilities and trusting ways.
What if they get back with the person they truly loved and are “changing”? What if I was the other person that he was trying to find in the original woman yet I was still hurt by him. Now that he’s back with the lady, he’s not showing those character traits. Does karma not come now that he’s trying to do better
This really hit home for me. For years I wanted to be close with my cousin because we are close in age and we grew up together. After all these years I finally realized she doesn’t really like me and never has. It was always me initiating us hanging out, or talking. And I would always show up for her to whatever she needed me for. Only for when I get there for her to totally ignore me and act like she doesn’t care that I’m there. I would invite her to things I was having and she would never come. I remember thinking to myself hmm I don’t know if she really likes me. But I put it out of my mind and told myself she is going to eventually see that I really am here for her if I keep showing up for her. But she never did. She’s allowed her friends to mistreat me and be disrespectful. I had to learn the hard way, “go where you are celebrated and not tolerated.”
I was long distance from my EX NARC….. I also wasn’t on social media, so basically I was in my own world. I had a key to his apartment, we went on dates every time we saw each other and he took me on several trips. I discarded him two weeks before my 40th. Birthday trip to Belize, that he paid for. Once the trip was paid for, I saw a WHOLE different side to him. I guess bc he thought that I wouldn’t go anywhere bc I was so excited about the trip, trick was on him!! I saw subtle red flags but I called him out on them and changed his behavior. It probably wouldn’t have lasted that long if we were in the same city. I found out he had been sleeping around the whole time SMH
Man! I’ll never forget when I dated my ex Narc. I wasn’t aware of what Narcissism was. I just know he broke up with me out the absolute clear blue! We were going out and having date night often, having fun with friends …. the relationship was great! Or so I thought. One morning, this man literally woke up and said he wanted out. He said he was bored and felt no spark for the relationship. I was totally blindsided. We had just went out the night before and had drinks and danced with friends! I cried and asked if it was something I did. He said no, he just didn’t feel fulfilled in the relationship anymore and wanted out. I got a traveling bag and packed all the things he had at my place and handed him the bag. I told him to go on and there would be no coming back since he was so bored. And he left! I was so upset, I had to call out for work. I spent the day in bed, crying! I got myself together and returned to work the next day. I threw myself into my work and concentrated on that to help keep my mind from things as best I could. Months went by. I got a promotion at work and bought myself a newer BMW. Each day was getting easier and lie was rolling along. Then I get this long text from him, asking can he please come back, that he was missing me so much and was lost without me. I thought he finally came to his senses …. that he realized what he had! I let him come back, only to go thru the same bs again. Folks, I didn’t know what Narcissism was. I just knew his behavior was odd and childish. Never mistake re-idealization for reaknowledgement.
Also them being treated the way they did you DOES NOT TEACH THEM.. they just get worse... They dont lesn their lessons they ARE NOT TEACHABLE.... That I will disagree with I was being stalked by one and then someone did it to them and then this Narcissist stalked me again just did it with Gang Stalking so this is a lie sir I'm sorry
So factual Q - they say a leopard never changes it's spots... once a snake, always a snake...and that we know know all too well...I think the worst thing to do is believe what they say... with everyone we meet today, there needs to be an aspect of discernment practised. I believe in being authentic and staying true to yourself and have come to realise that just in some conversation and a few questions, they expose who they truly are... Thanks again Quinn for keeping us in check.
SOMEONE NARCISSIST'S , GEATEST TREPIDATION IS :---- THE MAN OF INTEGRITY , WHO , POSSESS NONDUALITY , & HAVE AN UNCOMPROMISING , PERSONALITY OF HIMSELF , HIS LIFELONG . 💥 .
Yeah she could accuse me of looking or being with other girls but if I saw something that looked like why are you talking so close to other men...I got called jealous and controlling.
The boogie man was my new coworker. Even though he was tall and handsome he gave me an erie feeling. We’re truck drivers and had to spend considerable time together in the truck. First day he insisted we exchange numbers, in case he needed to ask me about the job. He immediately called me. I guess he wanted to make sure I had his number. I didn’t lock it in because I knew I would never need to use it. During conversation I learned he had been married and divorced 3xs and had 8 kids by multiple women. He talked bad about his ex’s and kids. Bragged that he never been at any of his kids births. While at the same time he is opening doors for me, trying to buy me lunch and being excessively nice. I mentioned casually after work on Fridays I go straight to my weekend job and sleep in my car til my shift starts because it’s too much to go home. He offers me to come sleep at his house. I tell him no thanks… wtf. This was Thursday next day, Friday he brought up his offer to sleep at his house. Once again I said no. He said I’m just trying to be a good person, just call me. I ignored him I wasn’t coming to no strangers house to sleep. Next morning while I’m at my other job he sent a text saying be safe. We have never text or called each other. I honestly had to figure out who was texting by going back to the day he called me after requesting my number. Before I could reply he sent another text. This time it was a bible verse. For the wages of sin is death👀. I got creeped out. It seems he was being passive aggressive because I didn’t call him to come sleep at his house. I decided to distance myself and not even have conversations with him at work next week. When we didn’t have any trailers to move I would sit in my personal vehicle to keep my distance. This man started cleaning my windows. I got out and told him please stop I don’t need him to do that. He aggressively said let me be a gentleman and continued wiping my windows. He then stepped towards me and put his arm around me asking did I need a hug. I was so furious inside but I’m not a confrontational person. I just got back in my car. This I believe made him think I was weak and he was going to see what else he could do to me. Later this same day he asked me if I had boots . I said for what? He wanted to come pick me up from my home on his motorcycle and take me out to eat. In my mind Im like is this fool for real. He couldn’t pick up I was actively distancing myself and not even talking to him anymore. I said no. Went to my car and he came up to my car and I rolled the window down he once again said we can take my car if you don’t want to get on the bike. I told him I don’t want to go nowhere with you period. That passive aggression popped back up in his tone he said, I was only trying to be nice. It was obvious he was trying to get access to me outside of work. Next day I show up for work he had brought me food and a valentine card. This pissed me off because he was not accepting my boundaries. I yelled at him to leave me alone. He started gas lighting me. He said he doesn’t date coworkers, he was only trying to be my brother in Christ 😩. I reported him that day because he was not going to leave me alone. If I didn’t stick to my boundaries I would have for sure became a victim of this predator acting like a nice man. His lack of boundaries for himself wanting a stranger, me, to come to his house let me know my boundaries meant nothing. He took it as a challenge. I’m sure his looks made all them women from his past fall for his shenanigans but I was having none of it.
