As much as you tried to give a nonbiased account of the story but there are so many grey shades to this story. Well good or bad has nothing to do with nationality. Get to know people and date them based on who they are and what they stand for not what country they are from.
Chile where you moving to next cause my husband isn't here either and I'm ready to go 😩 lol... I've enjoyed Charlotte, but not dating wise. You guys hit so many great points
Heyyy! I’m not completely sure yet but I know for sure I’m leaving lol and I’m sorry you haven’t been having good experiences dating either .. wishing you much success in the future with dating and thank you for watching I appreciate your support 💜
5 Things You Should Know Before Dating a Nigerian Man: 1. Don’t let your guard down and keep in mind that his primary goal might be to use you. 2. Realize that he’s an angel when he has no money, but be prepared for a roller-coaster ride of womanizing when money comes into his pocket. 3. If you never plan to relocate with him to Nigeria, remember that his polygamous nature may lead him to take a second wife in Nigeria if you choose not to relocate with him. 4. Ingrain it in your mind that his love of money supersedes his love and affection for you. He will lie, cheat, and steal for money. 5. His love and romance with you are time-limited and dependent on the duration of your perpetual submissiveness.
Oh and my comme t comes with facts, i dated a yoruba guy who had a nigerian gf in secret from me. I dumped his sorry ass and to this day he still tries to cheat on her with me. These shhh dudes are just rubbish and not worth a second of attention
Shame on anyone who is using others. These types are toxic if they think they can take advantage of women of other cultures. They also cheat and take multiple wives. I have no regard for any users & abusers who do this. They see others as easy, when in fact the issue is with them. You are too kind about the reality of things these dudes get up to!
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it all boils down to your level of attractiveness. A man WILL pursue the woman he truly wants. In your other video you mentioned that you wanted to be taken out of dates which is fine. But I think a man is only going to truly do that if he actually likes you it’s kinda like an investment. It sounds like the guys you’re meeting are only looking to be friends with benefits or perhaps use you in some other way. You can’t make someone like or date you. If men in Charlotte aren’t taking the bait I would move onto a different location. There is a man who will like and pursue you.
I'm Nigerian Man but I don't fit into that traditional category. The most important thing to me is for at least, most Nigerian Women or women in general to be independent or self reliant, which unfortunately most Nigerian Women aren't. So I prefer Black American Women because they've arrived, independent, have their own sh*t together and most don't act like a man owes them something
I understand what you said about winging it. Basically setting your intention for what you want, but then not being so wedded to the desired outcome that it becomes so devastating and demoralizing when things don't go as planned. Because there is so much in life that ultimately we are not in control of. With some things the best we can do is our part. But then God has to come and do the rest. Or not, if what we are desiring is not His will for our lives. So not forcing anything. Trusting that our diligence will organically all work out as best ❤
I currently just got engaged to a Nigerian man. We are both in our Fifties. Hes so sweet. He cooks his African dishes for me, he takes me out, the sex is great. Im getting nervous reading these comments, is he going to turn on me after we get married.
Let’s keep it real, some women use men for dinner dates but not shows genuine interest with the guy. There are good men out here and we don’t mind approaching, but sometimes you black women are not always approachable. Remember it’s not about the date and where I am taking you, it’s about the connection, chemistry snd consistency
It actually is about the date. Are you looking for a wife and woman to bear your children? The least you can do is show her you have some sort of ability to provide on some level…an actual date is a nice start.
I agree, it’s not about where your taking me it’s about the connection. You never hear anyone say that anymore, which is actually more important. Especially in today’s times, with the rise of social media, and materialism. 🤷🏽♀️
I’m not sure if you really watched the video because no one ever stated anything about what kind of date or where we were going for the date … we just stated that in this city most “ men “ don’t believe in dates .. and also we don’t need to use anyone for food we take ourselves anywhere that we want to go and I don’t think either of us has been looked at as unapproachable lol but thanks for watching 😌
New subscriber, I watched the video describing reasons NOT to move to Miami, Florida and now this video. I enjoy watching your informative & honest intake on videos I know it’s nearly July now, but I hope that you are having a fantastic year so far and your plan will work out for the best. Keep up the excellent content 👌🏾👏🏾
I don’t want to move but I’ve been here 6 years and only the first 2 years dating was lit. I’m tired of going on dates, getting love bombed and then ghosted😵💫
ATQ. Virginia, Conservative? Darlin, you're incorrect on that. I think you should go and look up voting practices within Virginia's HOR / Senate / VGA and Governor, including Mayoral and City Council for the last 70 years. Virginia is highly blue when it comes to voting practices. Tim Kaine and Mark Warner have been in the US Senate nearly 20 years. Glenn Youngkin in the first Republican Governor since Bob McDonald in the early 2000s. Virginia's HOR/VGA/Mayoral/City Councils/School Boards are made up of pasty, black hating old white people. So, yeah, you got that wrong. Taxes, yes, but you know why that is? Your voting practices. The more Blue you put in charge, the more problems, you'll have. Blue politicians LOVE rapin our wallets and pocketbooks. Yet, you...continue to vote for it, so...honestly, that's your own damn fault. Me, I vote against taxation, yet, if the candidate has an R behind their name, for some reason, y'all black folk just want the elite white slave master to kick you in the chin continuously. Why is that? Why do you vote Blue? Cause you sho'nuff ain't voting red by what I'm hearing. White and Black and that Trans Politician in the VGA, oh, they hate you. But they'll take your vote without losing an ounce of sleep. Why booze? See, smart folk buy booze and store it, using what they want to use for parties and get togethers, BYOBs, and for us redneck folk, well, we have lots of booze, that we make ourselves. No. 7 Hmmm, there are still lots of watering holes, bars, and venues that have been open in Virginia for decades. You just haven't found the right ones. No. 8 struck me as odd since musically, Virginia has a bustling local/regional/nationally signed act scene. If someone wants to make it in the business, you either go all in, or you get a 9-5. Period end of story. I was in a band for 10 years, toured with and opened for national acts, played festivals, and did it all the while having a full-time job. Guess what I'm doing now? My full-time job. Why? Listen to Bryan Adam's 'Summer of 69'. That's the story of what happened to my band. What I'm hearing through most of this is short generalizations without any proof. And darlin, there is plenty to do in Virginia. You're just not trying hard enough. Best to meet all different types of people. Rednecks, Farmers, Metalheads, Hunters, Fisherman, Crabbers, etc...isntead of just. Well...pigeonholing yourself into one social group. Have a nice day. Signed, GenX
lol I really don’t know why it always starts with hooters lol it’s crazy 😂 and thank you so much for tuning in definitely check it out it was a good read 🫶🏼
Businesses here really do seem to pop up then disappear after a few months. I got hooked on the Naked Onion restaurant on Cary Street then POOF.... gone.
They want respect, but they want to give it. They want to be worshiped like your God. They become your idols. Im getting so tired of hearing about ways to date a Nigerian god, i mean, man. They are just men. They can be very draining and codependent, and they will suck the like out of you.
