I gave up my smartphone, I think that using only a computer is much more limited and healthy, the computer does not have the same addictive mechanism as the smartphone, but it also requires moderation, I am simply forced to go out and socialize in some way, I have more energy and focus because I do not ruin my dopamine, I use an old cell phone with mp3 to listen to music, because I feel some emotional pain for not yet having a social life and friends, especially a girlfriend.
14 days so far for me. Sounds like nothing but it's everything for me to make it this far. I'm just suffering through it and accepting that I'm gonna suffer for years since i did this to myself. I hate that I even desire it but I know its because of extreme loneliness and lack of desire from woman so I self sympathize in that way knowing that it only makes sense for how my life has gone. Im 28 and I've never known a woman in that way and it's very soul destroying accepting that. I'm doing everything to get my life together but I'm not actually even good for a woman to be honest. Even if I looked immaculate and had money I'd be just as insecure and pathetic. I'm only stopping because I doubt I have much longer to live so why not. Just wanna die with some dignity.
You can change yourself brother. Having the awareness and courage to change yourself is WAY MORE than most people have. Most people stay stuck in their dream of hell forever. YOU CAN CHANGE. You can become who you want to be. I’m on the path as well, I’m not who I want to be yet but I’ve come a long way. Keep learning and keep practicing. Read books that better yourself. Go to the gym, take care of your body and your mind and it will take care of you. I highly recommend the book The Four Agreements and many other books by Don Miguel Ruiz and his son. Read the mastery of love. Read the atomic habits. Believe in yourself. 28 years old is far from too late. The next 5 years will pass no matter what, who are you going to be in 5 years? Will you be the same or will you look back and be proud of the progress and effort you made to change yourself.
A simple man with a strong message. Im goin thru this change mentioned in the video, starting to give zero f***s for a lot of things in my life. Thanks my brother!
I’ve skipped food for 7-8 years and usually eat once a day… I work with Holistic and natural Medicine and therapies and actually feel better than ever. One time I fasted for a year and a half and it was great. (Coconut water only)
Heeey brother, thank you for sharing your vulnerability and story. A sister here who had a very similar life experience & confirms that the voice they have within is inside the rest of them. Thank you for verbalizing your mom’s story and giving it a place in your heart to share with the rest of the world.
I want to say that this is one of the best and truest things I have ever heard anyone say on youtube. I came to the same conclusion when I started practicing intermittent fasting and semen retention. Before that I had to have a sleep after breakfast. I morning fast just made me on the ball. I got stuff done. I still pass out after lunch most days if its a big lunch. If I have a tiny lunch I can get through. People who eat 3 meals a days eventually look rounded, puffed up, and fat. Humans weren't meant to be fatties, we were meant to be hunters and providers. If I ever get a girlfriend I will tell her that there will be no morning sex. I am happy to go every night but night first thing in the morning. Thank you so much for this.
Poor Girls. How many hearts you broke? 😒😔😠 But your honesty recovers your reputation. To be honest, I was a victim of such guys. But at my age of 37 … I matured and protecting my self. Getting suspicious about my guys and checking them out ppl at all. My pussy turned dry as the Sahara and wanted to have only nuns around my me as listening to your worlds. No. Simply no. P.s: STI are rising horribly. Clamydia, tripper … siphiis. … top 3 on the list. Working in a medical laboratory 🧪 🥼
Great video! Regardless of what the “shiny thing” involves, be it materialism, gluttony, substance abuse or aggression, everyone eventually comes to the realization that they are all “dead-ends”. They will never bring ultimate satisfaction. In these pursuits, we are like people trying to posses a river, believing some object or experience will fill something we think is missing.
i didnt imagine wath you where going to talk, thx!! i feel the same way, did you hear about orgams without eyaculation? i start practice a few months ago and i did it, is amazing!! you feel so much empower, it goes up to your brain.
The truth is that he wants to be put in a pedestal because he has 🍆. He’s competing with women for whatever reason- likely his looks. He thinks he’s attractive and don’t like his results
Ánimo brother! I am also leaving a beautiful place to go into the unknown. It's one thing to cultivate high energy in a high energy environment, and it's another thing to cultivate high energy in a challenging environment. But that is why some of us are here. Shine some light in that darkness 💪
Can be convienent at times especially if kept healthy . But I agree that getting up early (after intermittent fasting) then workout or cardio does more for you
I totally agree with you! I am in the same place as you (although 10 years older)… I slept with women and I used/ruined them for my ego…. I regret what I did. It is better to stay single than use women you are not totally into them.
Ever heard of a loosh farm? Our lust is programmed into us because the loosh farm constantly needs new farm animals (peope) to get energy of them. So we have a programmed massive urge to procreate, so much so that is clouds or judgment and makes our life miserable. Check out the Gnostic teachings, you'll find lot's of answers there!
We need each other more than we think. Just think of old age. Being alone with a computer might just not cut it. But also right now. Without men women have nothing that they need for their protection and comfort. No houses, infrastructure (streets, trains, planes, hospitals, schools), food, security... Everything nearly, And without women we have no life and beauty, no children, nothing to be great for. It is actually pretty simple. Respect and praise each other more..
No we just wised up that society has us taped and been using us to cost men numbers ,its a numbers game ,women care about numbers£££££ men dont give a fuck ,literally
