I just posted a comment to you on a video you did from over 5 years ago. IT was called "I'm Exhausted" and it was the first time you were seen wearing glasses. Yo even made a comment about the fact that you were wearing glasses to go shopping. I commented because the glasses you were wearing brought back memories for be from my days as an optician. It was a very popular frame and I fitted quite few young ladies with that very same frame. I wondered if having been pregnant at least twice may have played a role in your having to wear glasses. In looking at your current glasses the lenses don't appear to have gotten much if any stronger over the years. I'm going to assume you have likely gotten several eye exams since then. Have you been needing small increases since then or have you had no changes? By the way I like your current glasses on you. So much different from the frames from 5 years ago.
Wow! Your glasses bring back some wonderful memories for me. I was an optician for years, I'm now retired and enjoying life playing golf. I fitted and dispensed quite few pairs of that exact frame your wearing. You look good in glasses. I'm surprised you weren't wearing them more. But you didn't appear to have more than weak prescription. I wonder if your pregnancies may have contributed to you even needing glasses? So if didn't get your first glasses until after giving birth then I'm sure it was the reason. It may surprise you that approximately 50% of pregnancies will result in a change in vision for the new mother. So if things at a distance started becoming blurry in the latter months of either of your pregnancies that's the reason your wearing glasses now. This was 5 years ago. Has your eyesight changed much over the years? In some cases the eyesight doesn't change at all and in others it may change several times before becoming stable.
Be very care full that you do not get hurt again do not rush into things take your time.i wish you and you girls all the best.but beawere off the saying onece a cheat alway a cheat
im happy for you and the girls and that your trying to work things out just take it one day and one step at a time I'm sure god will help find a way for you to make it through amen 🙏
Please don’t keep your babies away from the grandparents. Whatever is going on between the adults it’s not fair to keep them from people they love and love them. Even if you have to let them go without you PLEASE let your parents keep that bond with your babies it will be so important for everyone. Whatever is going on with your marriage should not hurt your babies. Because at any point things can change and FAMILY IS EVERYTHING!
I respect your decision. Only you know what’s best for you and your girls. Maybe Caleb could have a sincere face to face talk with your family acknowledging his mistakes and offer to do whatever it takes (ie counseling etc) to gain their acceptance/peace with his return into the family? He will need to face the heat with them in order to hopefully earn back their trust in him. Wishing you all the best.
Do what's right for you and your family. Don't worry about what other people say. People can only tell you what they would do. You do you. God Bless and hope everything works out.
These comments are so stupid and I’m sorry you have to deal with it. Work on your marriage Kayla and I wish you both nothing but the best. Prayers for your little family and I hope it all works out in the end. 🙏❤️🙏❤️
I love y’all so much, and I love your mom and siblings so I hope you guys can come back together even though you guys differ in your opinions of you and Caleb getting back together. Not having a mom’s support is so hard so your very blessed to have a mother and siblings that love and care for you so much even though you won’t always agree on everything. I’m praying everything works out for you and your family because it is important for your girls to have their dad in there lives. Xoxo 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕💕. Also congratulations on your promotion 😊
You do what you need to do for your family. My 2 boys and I left my husband almost 20 years ago. It was for totally different reason than yours but after lots of prayer and counseling, we got back together after 4 months. We continued counseling for a while. Today, we are still together and my boys have thrived. So you do what is best and don't worry what people say. Work on the trust again. It's so important. ❤
Leopards never change their spots. Move on honey. When he left he didn’t support his girls. What type of scum is he. Kayla this will be the biggest regret of your life. Are you going to be a stepmother to his baby to be. THINK ABOUT THIS. THINK ABOUT YOUR GIRLS HAVING THIS SCUM AS A FATHER. HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU OR THE BABIES. MOVE ON. YOU ONLY COPED WITHOUT HIM IS BECAUSE OF YOUR MUM AND FRIENDS.Kayla don’t hold your children ransom from your family. They have been there for you.
Kayla I understand that you want your marriage to work, and I understand working on it but I really hope you didn’t let him come home until he has proven to you he has really changed. You don’t want him to come back and the girls are used to him being back and he does it again and he’s gone again. That’s not fair for the girls. It is better for the girls to be raised by two single happy parents than parents that are together and miserable. You don’t want your girls to think that is what they want in their future relationships. I’m also gathering your family aren’t okay with your decision, but for the love of God don’t punish your babies by keeping them from your family. They love you and the girls very much and just don’t want to see y’all get hurt again.
@@ItsKaylaVictoriayour mother has comment filters in her video, so it’s only supporting her viewpoint. I’m so sorry people on coming here to scold you. Kayla, you do what’s best for you.
Sweet heart I never said you did, and I didn’t think you were that kind of woman. I just know from experience some women do that to hurt their family and it only hurts the kids in the long run.
Kay, u know that I love you. But I just want you to pray. Please pray and ask God to show you the way. I promise he will he will, so pray pray pray 🙏 and don't be mad at your mother she just cares about yall. Please make peace. You only have one mother. I love you and my princesses.❤❤
Do what you feel is right. I'm very proud that you want God in your life. I was a very upset momma with my daughter but they have been married now 30 years. It is not up to even mom to decide what you need to do. God can fix anything and i finally gave it all to God and i know he will do the right thing. ❤
Praying for your marriage and I truly hope all works out for you guys. You can't just disregard the feelings of all of those ride or die people that were there for you through all of this. I'm sure they are just scared and nervous for you and he needs to earn all of their trust back as well. I am rooting for you guys. Be blessed.
Kayla God does not want your marriage to fail, so even though people have their opinions, the only opinions that matter are what you and your your family decide that’s totally up to you. I pray that everything goes well for you and just know that I’ll be praying.
Hope it works out as I've been there said all right things to me. But sadly it was not good idea but hope it's ok and know children have a new sibling so it's important for everone, we don't know mum is not speaking to Kayla they will sort it all out because can't believe Kayla can do without her mum. But I do hope this is not how it is. Just do cheats ever change in general but Kayla a adult and she will wAnt her mum they so close it will work iut.
Sweetheart, I would love seeing your vlogs versus the family 5. What ever. You are beautiful and a wonderful mother. Please don't ever let anyone tell you different, family or otherwise. You are awesome. Love you girl. You go with your heart.
I am happy to hear you and Caleb are working through things. You are no doubt an amazing mom and strong woman. It is no one’s business and you know what is best for you and your family. Stay strong Kayla!
I'm praying it works out for you, and i dont know what happened with your family, but i am hoping it works out cause i miss seeing you and your girls on your mums channel, but praying it work out with you and calab ❤
Y’all are so super nice family. I’m so glad you’re giving another chance again with your girls. We had the same problem with our family. My sister had nothing to do with us. We went to my grandpa. She didn’t say a word to us at all. It’s been like that for five years. We’re super sweet and she is mean. And be strong.
Kayla. My husband did almost the same when our second daughter was 5 months old. We also had underlying issues in our marriage. He unexpectedly left for a few months and in that time he was with another woman and got her pregnant. Now it’s almost 20 years later and we’re still happily married. We see his other daughter still and all is well. My family who I was also close with got over it after a few months because they loved me and our children. I know your family loves you and will support you regardless of your decisions eventually. People make mistakes and shouldn’t suffer for the rest of their lives because of it. All Love to you, your girls and your husband. The heart can’t change what the heart wants.
I'm very happy you're trying to make your Marriage work. You two are so cute together. However, he has to follow through with what he says he'd like to do to help not only himself but the marriage. And I'm sure your family is just concerned. Like everything else give it time. Things have a way of working out. God has a plan. Love and hugs from MN. Been watching you all since the beginning! ❤😊
Kayla if it makes you happy than make that marriage work! As for your family they will come around but Caleb will have to prove to them he has changed and will NEVER hurt you and the girls again!
I miss seeing you and the babies on your mom’s channel. I hope you will update here as much as you can. I’m happy your family is back together and pray for Caleb to get back to a good place and for your heart to heal Kayla. ❤️
Kayla, you have to do what is best for you and the girls. You definitely should not live with him while working this out. Don't make it easy for him to come back. Remember, he did do you and the girls wrong. I know people can change, but make him prove it to you first. Just be cautious and careful. If you have put it in God's hands, he is leading you in the right direction. He would never put you on the wrong path. Keep the faith and stay strong and positive 🙏.
