That mother is evil, its simple as that, there isn't any excuse, none. And all of the adults in her life who let her down, she could have been saved on so many occasions.... The healing journey is far from over, there is obviously a lot of denial and trauma that still needs processed. I wish her nothing but happiness and for her to be surrounded by people who actually care about her :(
The mainstream religions are all highly corrupt! Glad you got away! There's a divine creator that we can all have our own personal relationship with, pure unconditional love.
it's definitely a generational thing. not an excuse, but sadly just common and it shouldn't be. my uncle sexually abused me at a very young age and then right when i turned 18 my brother sexually assaulted me. it made me realize the second time that i had completely blocked out what happened to me as a kid and it all came back. my grandma knew about when my uncle did it because i lived with my grandma and she just made sure i was never alone with him again. but he faced no consequences. neither did my brother when he did it to me. i dont think my mom even reacted or cared when i mustered the courage to tell her what my brother did.
shes so right nobody checks on you i feel for her so strongly. when i went to my parents to tell them after years and years that i was sexually abused at 10 years old they told me they knew about it and actually could pinpoint the exact day it happened. crazy because all my life after that they blamed me for my emotional struggles and symptoms of c-ptsd . it was easier for them to be angry at me back then than to admit that they were responsible for what happened
america is a continent and peru is an america .. the og native americans the incas at that lol so she kept throwing me off when she was referring to the united states as America☠️
wait its insane that you had a NEGATIVE experience with betterhelp and yet you are still shoving that sponsorship into any video you can. what? do you have a brain? a conscious?
There’s a video circulating the internet right now of a dad punishing his daughter because she skipped math class and he completely emptied her room even the bed and posters and took all her clothes and made her wear a “I skipped math class” t shirt to school and people were really justifying it in the comments when clearly this is abuse. I think people think “well something similar happened to me so it’s ok” or “parents don’t punish their kids enough anymore this is fine” It makes me SICK.
Everyone failed her especially in dropping the charges against her family and the foster system is sooooo shitty!!!!!!!!! This was so much and I hope that she gets everything she needs to provide for her family. Whew I don't wish harm on people, but all the people involved in her abuse, may they never know PEACE!!!!!!
Your mom couldn’t get there cuz most likely she explicitly was at fault and negligent. Obviously her own trauma played a part but she essentially became a victim/ perpetrator herself. In addition to not supporting you after the fact. I almost guarantee she knew something was off along way.
This was such a heartbreaking story, my jaw dropped time after time listening to it. I hope she’s learning to love herself and appreciate the second chance at life she’s been given after it was almost stolen from her in her adolescence. She’s absolutely beautiful and worthy of everything good in life.
It blows my mind how some people in the comments say she wasn't abused... HER DAD TRIED TO COERCE HER INTO MAKING CP WITH HIM. How can you be so dedicated to defending an abuser, even when it's a p*dophile you don't know?
I got into my first relationship last year (2023) and I ended it this yr. I have pcos and have struggled trying to find a way to loose weight as early as 16 (I’m 27 now) and started seeing progress with the help I found on RU-vid, but my ex was all for making me eat more then I wanted to by going to pizza ranch an nagging me for only having one plate saying that it’s waist of money, but in the same breath complain that he’s getting fat as a fit guy. He was also 30yrs old who wanted me to basically be his sugar mama slash wife because even though he wanted an open relationship he wanted someone to come home to but ALSO didn’t want to be on the lease.
What gets me is the repetitive "i was a very perceptive kid" the word is "obervant" if u were perceptive u would have better vetted who u shared info with and who u withheld it from. Thats why mom didnt tell her she was preggo and chose to ignore her. This reminds me of the family that had to let their maid go and the kids didnt realoze this entire time that the maid (nanny) had her OWN family smh
holding over the child’s head that if they DON’T do the chores, then they won’t be fed, given water, given warmth, allowed to sleep, etc. IS abuse. denying them of their iPad if they don’t clean their room is not abuse.
Did you take anything from the story? The point was not to take away her "name brand clothes" she NEVER mentioned she had. It was to purposely publicly humiliate her by giving her awful clothes. Not just generic store bought clothes probably a lot of kids had in her school, but clothes that strayed so far from normal that it would be considered eye catching enough to target her.
