Hi everybody, I wanted to make a channel to help those who are going through emotional abuse, particularly narcissistic abuse.
The goal of this channel is to arm you with knowledge you need to claim your life back from a narcissistic abuser or toxic relationship.
Im not a psychiatrist, or lawyer, or doctor - hell I’m nobody. But I’ve seen some shit, been through some shit, and had to navigate through a tremendous amount of shit. Now I want to help you through the shit. I love to study, I love to learn, and I love to share knowledge, so this seems like the best place to do that.
Thank you very much for watching! Please like, comment, or share - I always love hearing from people and sharing stories . See you in the videos!
They can one up people by using kindness. They can get someone to give them something. They will say be kind after being told no. I was fleeced once because I said no then I gave them something. And looked disappointed because I gave something away. And they said u did a nice thing. while laughing. It's best to walk away and have a rule never be short changed. Always say no and understand they are looking to get something if they know there is something to get. They love to grab I was robbed at a train station a few times right in front of the camera. That why keep things private.
They can one up people by using kindness. They can get someone giving them something. They will say be kind. I was fleeced once because I said no then I gave them something. And looked disappointed because I gave something away. And they said u did a nice thing. while laughing. It's best to walk away and have a rule never be short changed. Always say no and understand they are looking to get something if they know there is something to get.
I just send a few choice videos. I had a celebrity romance scammer contact me through social media. What a ride. Entertaining to say the least. Long story about this completely outlandish soap opera I was able to speak my mind through a few Twisted Sister videos that I grew up with on MTV back in the day. First one, We're Not Gonna Take It. Second one, I Wanna Rock. It is what it is. I was 15 years old in 10th grade when MTV first surfaced. I say that people like Dee Snyder were our role models. I may make a joke about it but I simply do what I deem to be necessary at the moment. It's my artistic integrity to get Mt point across when all else fails.
Saying goodbye on your own terms might be a good idea. Dealing with a situation like this during a funeral will probably cause you more pain and discomfort you’re trying to avoid. It could open up a can of drama worms who will try to crawl into your own personal ,individual life for a while. It’s Okay to not attend under the circumstances you described.
People also have a short attention span, if you don't engage or defend yourself, they'll forget what was said about you because they have their own lives and don't care about you.
Ive been the idiot, been trying to explain myself to these people for most of my life. Finally im starting to understand, They dont want to understand you, cause it leaves them powerless.😅
"Remember, there's no need to require evidence to justify how you feel - WE'RE CONDITIONED THAT WAY BY PEOPLE WHO DON'T DO IT THEMSELVES. If you feel that someone is shady, that's all you need to make decisions." This is master degree level of an anti-narc antidote. I've leveled up against them over the years and gone NO CONTACT. Yet this quote will hopefully keep me from oversharing on occasion. Great video, dude! [Pardon me for reposting his reply and mine in the Julie Church comment thread, but this needs a bump! Great stuff from the narrator/adviser here]
These demon possessed scumbags try to get you fired from your job,try to get your insurance company to cancel your policy,try to turn everyone against you.They team up with the flying monkeys and try to find ever sin you have ever commited and post it on all forms of social media.Hard to believe how evil they are.They completely try to destroy every aspect of your life.
It's not the smear campaign that is so hard. It's the car they destroy and chemicals and police they involve and your job they try to get you fired and your bank account they try to steal from your animals and plants and garden dead and worse
Was always terrified to be punished by my narcissistic mom because she would rain down terror and guilt onto me which would last for days at a time. She would ice me out and it formed me into a shameful person not someone who just experienced shame
My strategy is: "Do the opposite." When the narcissist speaks bad about you, speak good about them. Like: "Even though we separated, I still care for him and wish him the best.. ," that type of stuff. Nothing personal. When the narc speaks badly of you, and you're just being respectful, it actually makes the narcissist look bad. It flips the smear campaign around on the narc. It takes some discipline and a strong will. But it definitely worked for me! Great vid btw!!
Thank you!!!!!🙏🙏🙏❤ I had the same thoughts!! And my narc husband would walk out of the room if ever I even hinted that Johnny was covert and abusive, and that her abuse was REACTIVE abuse. I know you know there is a big difference.
Thank you so much! I just watched one of your early videos about not having money for an attorney and how that is the most important thing to secure. And thank you for this one as well what a wonderful tip! I know that will work… Thank you again!
Dude, you have a wealth of knowledge that is extremely helpful. I watch this kinda stuff all the damn time and your insights and tactics are freaking gold! Ty so much! ❤
had her from 8 to 10...hope she always remembers me and the special bond we had and i really hope she gets the father figure she deserves and needs as her dad wanted nothing to do with her. miss you always!!
Bro, early in the video, even before you got into the deep water, despite the dirty garage fridge😉 I subbed. I continued listening and blamo, brilliance shared! Loved the video, look forward listening to more. EDIT: "If you were a good cat, you would come in or out. And YOU KNOW IT!"
Excellent video! Great insight on practical tools. Any suggestions about DIVORCE ATTORNEYS willing to work with you in Monroe or Pike County, Pennsylvania?
I blocked my whole family after they tried to smear me behind closed doors to the point my sister, dad and mother talked to me about it. things have been said about me about domestic violence (never threatening) my sister and mother shot that false smear campaign down. They also misinterpret your words and then use it against you after hearing all the smear attempts I out right blocked and went no contact so far I’m 4months strong
I did this to a narcissist i work with, there are 2 narcissist Auditors at work, one works with me. Both arent humble and wont admit they need training so both Audit giving assembly lines 100% because they dont know what to look for and dont want to fail. So, i used the other Auditors example to my coworker. I told him every bad Auditor gives 100%, the best Auditors have the most fails. That the other Auditors rankings is low because he doesnt fail. I told him that thats why "Jim" gives 100%, he doesnt know what hes doing, hes a bad Auditor, so the next time, "Devon," auditored he gave his line one wrong, a 97%. After this i started noticing he started to try to fail. I did it cause i knew Devon was doing the same as Jim, not failing anyone cause hes a narc,afraid of failure and wont ask for help. At the time I didn't realize this was actually a tactic that worked on narcs but figured it would knowing how they think. Sometimes I point out about Jim, to Devon, so Devon starts doing his job, otherwise Devon wont listen. Like I trained him on something, he kept acting like he knew it all. He even lied and said our boss had him do it once, he wouldn't listen to the training but kept saying he knew, then he did it wrong and blamed me, said I trained him wrong. I knew he lied because when I questioned him, I said, so then what option did you choose? His answer didn't line up. I knew that option wasn't on the Audit he did. I knew he didn't listen. That's when I decided no more being nice and feeling sorry, he can train himself next time if he's gonna lie and blame me. Cause now he could lie and tell my boss I trained him wrong. I tried. He just proved that I need not feel sorry anymore cause he's not going to appreciate it and get me in trouble.
Me and my ex broke up a little over 2 months ago…. She texted me this past Wednesday out of the blue with a song that I dedicated to her after 6 months of our relationship and saying she is sad with crying emojis. Me and her were only together for over 2 years. But it felt like we were together for 10 years with all the fighting and arguing that was happening. She was verbally and even physically abusive towards me. She has a really bad drinking problem. It ended the night she started calling my 9 year old daughter names and making her cry and that was the end for me. And no I didn’t text her back. I’m currently seeing a new girl now and she has a lot of qualities that I’m looking for in a women so I will continue on to see where this goes with her.
You are absolutely correct. why waste your energy on them for just focus on being happy with your life and forgiving yourself and take your anger on them to build success in your life. I know difficult to do but if you focus your mind somewhere else you will forget about them very quickly
He came back after 6 weeks texting from burner numbers while having a new gf living with him 😂 and they both harassed me for 4-5 years and I’m still getting texts from him from burner number and fake acts 🤦♀️🤦♀️they don’t go away !! stay no contact
They say that you should never correct an enemy when they are making a mistake. If you react to the smear campaign, you are the one who makes the mistake. If you ignore it then it truly becomes the mistake move that will undo the narcissist. If you don't take part then the narcissist only has two options when they start ramping it up to get your reaction 1) they either keep pounding other people with gossip about you obsessively 2) they rant to themselves about you in front of you. Either way, if they keep this up for long enough they will reveal to others how deranged and delusional they are (and they are). No one wants to be a cheerleader for an obvious nutcase as they have their own reputation to think about. The ones with integrity will either bow out quickly or will figure it out and then bow out. The ones who glue themselves to a raving lunatic, well I guess they are a good match.
Absolutely absolutely absolutely the best video on the topic thank you. Two years of agonizing and wanting to explain!! Thank you so much 🎉🎉🎉 I want to give the video more than one Like
Does it make me a bad person (usually when someone leads with that, yes it does) If I let my wife keep the house, full well knowing she can't afford it, letting it get foreclosed on, then making sure any potential buyers know the problems with house in an attempt to buy it back?
Oh how it annoys me when people say not all Narcissts are bad or they say things like there's a " healthy" Narcissism, That is total Bollocks in my opinion ! This is just one of so many videos describing these depraved and contemptuous Evil things !
There is certainly a time and place for narcissism - ie prioritizing yourself. For example, dating. If someone is not good for you, ie toxic, you need to end the relationship. Such an action is not something we often consider as “narcissistic,” but it’s certainly there. At some point you sacrifice the relationship for your own well-being, and it may be to the detriment of your partner. High-achieving individuals must often prioritize their goals, plans, and future above and ahead of others. Doctors are often narcissistic, because getting through med school requires sacrificing friendships, relationships, social events, etc. understand I’m merely suggesting there’s a difference between “narcissism,” and the label of “ah narcissist.” Trait Narcissism, in and of itself, is rather neutral. It is HOW it is applied to life that makes all the difference.
