Calling someone " bad people " who can stand up for themselves are not bad. They are alpha males. Alpha males are the ones who are the leaders who are those who aren't push overs, nor are they abusers. Those who are abusive are weak and can't say no. These are delta males. Betas are also ones who can stand up. Delta males are weak. There's nothing wrong with being a nerd. ( I consider being nerdy with book smarts )
This vid reminds me of strongly arguing with a people pleaser with a heart condition this week to rescind an agreement to a request from a complete stranger to shovel (yup, no snow blower) a large driveway this winter (for free, but that's neither here nor there), a deal he said yes to, because he "wanted to do something good." I dunno. That seemed pretty toxic to me. We get a lot of snow, and it's wet, so it can be pretty heavy lifting. Videos are rated a lot higher if they trigger me. 😂