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Thank you for being so open and vulnerable in sharing this painful experience with us. I am deeply sorry for your loss, my friend. We were all so excited for the baby, but it seems God had other plans. 💔 I admire your strength in staying connected to your emotions and taking the time you need to heal. 🕊️ I didn’t realize you were still grieving, and I’m sorry it’s been such a difficult journey for you. You’ve explained the medical side of things to your friends, but now we understand how you're really feeling, and we’ll be here to support you however we can. 🤍 Also, I have to say, you’re so well-spoken. RU-vid is definitely your space to shine, ke sana! 🎤✨
I’m so sorry you went through this. Unfortunately I know the pain, even though for me it was a different case..but this video has made me want to get a specialist to look at some things cause I have so many questions and because I was at a public hospital I couldn’t really get the answers I wanted. Thanks for sharing this information, it probably wasn’t easy talking about it but enkosi. I pray that you heal sisi and be able to move on ❤️❤️❤️
Oh sis. I’m so sorry that you went through this as well. I was fortunate to be at a provincial public hospital but the effects are still that. Enkosi for watching🤍.
I'm sorry for your loss. I had at different times in my 20s. I had three spontaneous miscarriages. I did not get mental help for them. I know that I was only 5 days pregnant with all of them.
I'm so sorry Yons for what you went through, God is faithful sweetheart kuzolunga...you don't have to be perfect in anything at all but your editing is top-tier honey❤ your content is clear, love to see you come back! ❤❤
Hi lovey, I'm new here I saw you from @ImLaPams post... I want to give you the biggest hug, having gone through a loss myself ,I to some degree know your pain. 🫂🤍
Oh Yonela. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. This triggers me so much but I am glad you are in a better space now. Sending you love and hugs❤
Hi Yonela a u born en bred in WC wher exactly in CPT Gugulethu, it's nice uyazazi iindawo ngok uzawuzazi izinto zase EC I like that dear congratulations 👏👏
Wait!! hold on!!! Utya inyama namasi😫 how does it taste eating it together?😮 akwazi ukuthi utye inyama kuqala then amasi after an hour or so??😂🤦🏿♀️my sensitive stomach would embarrass me phambi kwabasemzini😭💀wait what if you are milk intolerant ke??? Isn’t there any other way of doing it?
😭😭😭😂😂😂la nyama is like inqatha (I am not sure of the official name) also it is not salted 🙃🫠🫠🫠. Eating it with amasi is actually the most “tasty” way to eat it 😅😅😅
You are brave for sharing this and my step dad was stuck in the trap of that church. I know exactly how it is even though you did not mention the name.
It has been such a wonderful journey. One of the greatest blessing has been living fearlessly. Living life without fear and having to love abantu without being bound has been freeing.
It truly is one of the things that has been under diagnosed in girls shame. I hope we get to assist those who struggle and suffer in silence. Thank you so much for engaging ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Haha give your Isaac baba, what you gave was your Ishmael🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... I don't wanna get into this conversation because we would need to delve into much deeper issues ; psychological tactics, ultra manipulation, mind control etc. I'm glad you freed you fought, and still do, for yourself and wellbeing. That's your greatest asset, YOU!
@@wingingitwithyonella3663 some day we'll get into it. I'm sure it'll be one hell of a topic. One key point I will highlight is that you should always prioritize your stability, it takes actual mental strength to overcome cult habits, I'll say that much!
@@sandiletukani Definitely. It really is not easy. That is why I do my best to have grace upon myself and other people who may be experiencing what I experienced. It definitely is not easy. I think one thing I did well was leaving before I left because that makes the transition easier. I always question myself. If I want to disagree, I always will question where it comes from and even ask if it is harmful. That makes me be more accepting. I think one thing I also did inside was not judging others and not just go along with the judgement part of stuff (although I went along with everything else). The habits do take a toll on your mental wellbeing. Also very important to choose your battles.
Thanks for sharing your experience Yoni mntase. I also went to the same church and had a similar experience but the way I gaslit myself for a long time because there is a demonisation of people who leave the church. I have been deconstructing since 2021 and its a painful and lonely journey. But I have faith that I will find my feet again because my religion and the church/ churches ways was how I made sense of the world and myself.
I was born in the church and only left officially in 2021( I remember you and I told you who I was you'd remember me😂). You are so brave and you are going to accomplished so much in your life. I remember how sweet you always were, glad to see you are on youtube . All the best sis❤
Thanks for sharing Yonie,everything makes sense kengoku,and all you said is true...all I can say is that God is not the monster that's always portrayed to be...i remember the long conversation we once had😅,I thank God we had it,keep up the good work,for real you articulate yourself very well...please remain a blessing to many
Oh mntase. You are one of the people who listened to me. I felt bad because I didn’t want to be bitter. We used to discuss after service and I would be so upset. Thank you for being one of the people who allowed me to vent
I really found that ADHD explanation so helpful! ❤ so sorry you had that unpleasant experience with that psychiatrist and I'm grateful you've made strides in your mental health journey❤
