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Ed Baxter - Genuine Attraction
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Most men’s relationship advice sucks.

Hey, I’m Ed Baxter. After my wife cheated on me in 2015 and sent me into a tailspin, I realized 99% of the industry was full of generic advice. Which only made things worse. So I did something about it.

For a decade, I dedicated myself to understanding relationships. Including Masculine and Feminine dynamics. How to make her chase you. What women want (hint: they have no idea.)

→After betrayal and rebuilding my life…
→After thousands of hours of conversations…
→Years of in-the-trenches of coaching experiences…

This channel was born. What I share has been proven across 4,000+ men dealing with:

*Lies, betrayal and manipulation
*Narcissistic partners who blame them
*Nice guy syndrome and sexless marriages

Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 11am EST, you’ll discover how to set boundaries, rebuild your confidence and transform into a badass man.

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@_siegemcsheen_9401
@_siegemcsheen_9401 Час назад
It’s like she watched this video first.
@_siegemcsheen_9401
@_siegemcsheen_9401 Час назад
Remember, you have to “choose her” and no matter what you do, it’ll never be enough.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 2 часа назад
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@edbaxter
@edbaxter 6 часов назад
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@kalingakrishna2705
@kalingakrishna2705 День назад
Ed Baxter, I would like to know the things that narcissists say to empathetic men in order to idealize them.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 21 час назад
@kalingakrishna2705 that's not really my wheelhouse. But really they will be whatever you need them to be. So if you're asking me this in order to verify what happened to you, then why would my opinion matter more than what you suspect to be true? Sounds like maybe you'd be able to do this video since you've lived it.
@kalingakrishna2705
@kalingakrishna2705 День назад
Ed Baxter, my narcissistic friend, who wanted me to marry his sister, mesmerized me and manipulated me . Since different narcissistic men use different methods to idealize empathetic men, I would like to know some of the common methods of idealization. Please create a vedio to educate us on that.
@kalingakrishna2705
@kalingakrishna2705 День назад
Ed Baxter, like a male narcissist, who turns charm on a male empath and makes him become his friend or business partner, can a female narcissist turn charm on a male empath and make him become her lover or business partner?
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 21 час назад
@@kalingakrishna2705 absolutely
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@ALVISADMAN День назад
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@ALVISADMAN День назад
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@erikbudrow1255
@erikbudrow1255 День назад
Maybe the white knight is lonely af, tired of working on himself for 30 years, and doesn't know how to find anybody better
@edbaxter
@edbaxter День назад
@@erikbudrow1255 awesome. Looks like it's time to fix this area.
@ricklegendary2990
@ricklegendary2990 День назад
some women are just snippy, it's not about her being unheard,
@ninja101297
@ninja101297 День назад
My exact problem with myself right now I'm trying to learn to be independent
@Todd-gj1vr
@Todd-gj1vr 2 дня назад
I dont want partying and looking to know im feeling god enough
@stephanhirsch3350
@stephanhirsch3350 3 дня назад
What ever...
@Carl-zd3yg
@Carl-zd3yg 3 дня назад
Phuu… met many like you. You will see the light. Maybe.
@richardspence6672
@richardspence6672 3 дня назад
Bearded feminist?
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 4 дня назад
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@AnthonyManzio
@AnthonyManzio 3 дня назад
I'm from Canada. What is your advice? Same here being bullied, mobbed, gaslighting, harassed at the hospital for over 14 years. I've happened to be the top worker for 40 years and have never been suspended. These bullies are jealous haters and are very miserable people. Union, manager, HR and the police are all totally useless. Bullies are lazy bums and stupid managers are scared of the bullies. They say I'm crazy, I drink, I'm a stalker who follows women after work. All bs defamation of character. The biggest mistake since they removed disciplinary measures. They should arrest the bullies and fire the manager. Action speaks louder than nasty words. It destroys my reputation. I will never quit to make these lazy bums ever win. If I decide to transfer to another hospital and may start gaslighting, smearing and bullying me once again, I don't know all the new managers etc. like in every department like now. So best to not change hospitals. I will never let bullies try to control me from quitting. Just don't react and don't try to defend myself which will only go back and forth making me look even more guilty. Action always speaks louder than words. Just best to ignore them and let them find another easier target. Never let these low life lazy bums ever win.
@AnthonyManzio
@AnthonyManzio 3 дня назад
Low level lazy bums are 100% cowards. HR needs to be fired from removing disciplinary measures. Toxic workplace never let these bums ever win, they will always get exposed. If you are full of rage, you need to be locked up. 16 years still going for me. Today 95% at work are only the negative people then all the devils wake up. They want the money but refuse to work and today all the ones in power are pussies, even the police. Being a top worker for 40 years no one will touch me. They never win and always get themselves exposed or one day Karma will always get them. Never transfer or change departments or ever quit then they won. They will in the future transfer themselves after 95% know they have been exposed. They are cowards, gang stalking me and I've got nothing to hide. Hate = jealousy. Two years ago I stopped the security guard and told my manager and security manager and if they don't stop I will call the police for harassment. I transport patients and do anything to destroy me. One day I will have the police knocking on their door. Then they will have to stop.
@Jessersadler
@Jessersadler 4 дня назад
there's many reasons for people to say "too controlling" . . Some of which includes gas-lighting and stonewalling manipulation tactics.
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@MdRimo-x1n 4 дня назад
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@ChimpPunck
@ChimpPunck 4 дня назад
I am going to be 32 never been married never had any kids lost my V at 26 to a 39 year old fwb as we agreed because i didn't want children and she didn't want a relationship so it worked out as we agreed to have it. And i still can not find a relationship with a woman who doesn't want to have children and is not obsessed with marriage how do i now this to he true i have been looking for over 7 years and yet have not found a partner who shares my life style and yes if i have to expect the role as provider then how i would like to live is the majority rule see it how you like but that is reality
@ChimpPunck
@ChimpPunck 4 дня назад
This man is most likely in a relationship and has not struggled with finding a suitable partner to share your life with due to the fact he is already in one. Don't you just love how people who are already successfully in relationship yet they're willing to add there two cents into something that they never struggled with and act like that they have a gotcha moment opinion.
@trok90k
@trok90k 4 дня назад
Whats crazy is how people will say "she didn't know what she was doing or what was going with her."I call bull💩 she went to the streets because thats where she belongs. She knew damn well what she was doing. You dont trip and fall on a new🍆 and a whole relationship. This was calculated and planned out. Lets call a spade a spade.
@shaunasimpson8926
@shaunasimpson8926 5 дней назад
lol!!!! Bro what are you TALKING about
@kalingakrishna2705
@kalingakrishna2705 5 дней назад
Ed Baxter, are all charismatic men narcissists? I have asked you the above question because I had a narcissistic friend, who is a highly charismatic man. He manipulated me with the agenda of making me marry his sister.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 4 дня назад
@@kalingakrishna2705 you already know the answer to this. Why are you asking me for permission?
@Todd-gj1vr
@Todd-gj1vr 5 дней назад
Women arent working .a job. Getting 5050 fiduciary.
@scottgilmore8928
@scottgilmore8928 6 дней назад
So many of us since the cell phone/internet explosion have found it easier to ignore our responsibilities and sedate sitting behind the screen. this does not allow our brains to decompress and only builds the fear. What a great video and reminder for me. Much appreciated!
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 7 дней назад
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@bensonmwamba6180
@bensonmwamba6180 7 дней назад
The thumbnail 😢😅
@scottabney9603
@scottabney9603 8 дней назад
Baxter I'm on it man. no more bs , no excuses, never again will I let this shit happen
@scottabney9603
@scottabney9603 8 дней назад
dude. thank u man. I lovin all ur videos. So relevant to my situation. Great advice
@hebrewhomesteadupdatewalee8303
@hebrewhomesteadupdatewalee8303 8 дней назад
FTH!!¡
@ShawnCurcio-j5p
@ShawnCurcio-j5p 9 дней назад
Where you have to be the light house
@jackdeniston6150
@jackdeniston6150 9 дней назад
Yeah, I have some very real dissonance treating her like a child and having to pretend she is an adult.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 8 дней назад
You treat childish behavior, you treat her like an adult.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 9 дней назад
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@MikenMc
@MikenMc 9 дней назад
Unfortunately none of this works on a dismissive-avoidant partner. They avoid conflict and resolution like the plague.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 9 дней назад
@@MikenMc then I'll ask you this. Are you actually in a relationship?
@Apbt-rv7zw
@Apbt-rv7zw 8 дней назад
Yes, true. DAs become triggered know matter how bad ass you are. Dismissive Avoidants can't sustain relationships no matter what you do or don't do. Their attachment style prevents anything intimate long-term.
@chocomason
@chocomason 8 дней назад
@@Apbt-rv7zw I live in this nightmare myself and I’m clueless on what to do and I’m no simp. Just a dude wanting a healthy marriage with my wife who has crazy hormonal issues. I’d trade her in but she’s got it to good, wtf
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 11 дней назад
📲Schedule a FREE call with my team to get instant clarity: 👉🏻ads.genuineattraction.com/red... 📚Get your FREE copy of my Betrayed to Badass book here: 👉🏻www.betrayedtobadass.com/book... Subscribe today and make sure you don’t miss any video! Timestamps 00:00:00 INTRO 01:50:29 ACKNOWLEDGE THE PROBLEM 02:31:11 STOP OVER-GIVING 03:58:21 YOUR TIME AND ATTENTION ARE VALUABLE 06:07:24 SPEAK UP WHEN YOU FEEL UNAPPRECIATED 08:30:19 BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY 12:10:15 CONCLUSION
@raymondcarson3114
@raymondcarson3114 9 дней назад
Thank you 🙏🏽
@alinelson2129
@alinelson2129 11 дней назад
Thank you 🙏🏾
@JB-wj5ye
@JB-wj5ye 12 дней назад
!!!
@theh3adcas3
@theh3adcas3 12 дней назад
She is Bipolar, to clarify.
@theh3adcas3
@theh3adcas3 12 дней назад
What do you do when the cause is mental illness, like severe bipolar disorder?
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 12 дней назад
@theh3adcas3 leverage a psychologist and rethink what you what you truly want in a equal partnership. Because it's not that.
@MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
@MGTOWmademeMillionaire777 12 дней назад
Why the f would you like to stay married, DTB and study mgtow Mgtow is ruining the bussiness? 😂
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 12 дней назад
@@MGTOWmademeMillionaire777 the opposite. Men are looking for harmony not divisiveness. But I'm glad it's working for you and you're happy with it.
@dulceninomalo
@dulceninomalo 13 дней назад
women go for money long before they go for emotional safety
@garylundberg2906
@garylundberg2906 13 дней назад
The only thing that I want is peace.
@ZakTheRipper18
@ZakTheRipper18 13 дней назад
This guy is a huckster, and people will believe it because there are a few grains of truth to some of this spiel.
@carlhouseofoliver345
@carlhouseofoliver345 14 дней назад
Amazing video. Im so stoked ive got myself to the decision point before discovering your videos. The hard internal work and honesty of what i have done & allowed to happen to myself is paying off! I have never felt so at peace within, in my 49 yrs.
@ajlister89
@ajlister89 14 дней назад
What if I did these things already? Lol. It's been 6 months
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 14 дней назад
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@juangarcia-sz8pl
@juangarcia-sz8pl 15 дней назад
You always need to have at least 3 women in your rotation to keep them on their toes
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 15 дней назад
@juangarcia-sz8pl you can, but just realize if you're using manipulative ego tweaks, then you're just like the women who would use you. And the good ones will never appear to you, further perpetuating this game of power and control vs love amd connection. Amd it will send you down this road of all women are users.
@juangarcia-sz8pl
@juangarcia-sz8pl 15 дней назад
@@edbaxter women want a man who is in demand, they prefer them
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 15 дней назад
@@juangarcia-sz8pl that's not what you said. You said keep 3 women so they stay in their toes. Just because you're in demand, you don't have to manipulate.
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 15 дней назад
@juangarcia-sz8pl in fact if you have to keep 3 women around and rely in ego tweaks to keep at least one interested... maybe you're not that great of a catch to begin with.
@AnthonyMonte-w5u
@AnthonyMonte-w5u 16 дней назад
I need this guy
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 16 дней назад
📲Schedule a FREE call with my team to get instant clarity: 👉🏻ads.genuineattraction.com/red... 📚Get your FREE copy of my Betrayed to Badass book here: 👉🏻www.betrayedtobadass.com/book... Subscribe today and make sure you don’t miss any video! Timestamps 00:00:00 INTRO 00:59:18 STOP CHASING HER 03:02:13 STOP TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING 04:04:12 STOP DENYING THE SITUATION 06:01:06 STOP NEGLECTING YOURSELF 07:40:09 START YOUR SEDUCTIVE LIFE 11:24:25 CONCLUSION
@edbaxter
@edbaxter 16 дней назад
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