If she can't help US build together I don't need her. Yes she needs to pay bills also. If not, then she can pay all her bills herself and I'll pay mine. Simple. Problem solved. Fellas stop letting these mofos gaslight you into thinking we are less of a man because we want her to pay her way and do her share.
Women are natural nurtures not providers it’s a difference now yes they have been out in position where they have to provide but not natural unless your a lioness
I’m like Isham I like to eat so the date gone be $300/400 and I’m going to have real conversations to see if I’m just trying to smash or is she’s wifey material!! Now if she wants to stay the night that’s well too and I’m not judging because personally I think I’m HIM !!!
As far as first date she bet not bring me no flowers 💯💯all she needs is her presence I got the bill and has nothing to do if I’m getting anything afterwards maybe I’m old fashioned
And as far as moving inn I totally disagree with Corey why would I come in someone else house and pay ALL the bills that’s crazy !!! But if it’s our crib that’s a different story we can build together !!! Personally I like taking care of my lady she works because she likes to help and have her own money !!
As a man I can NOT let a woman take care of me financially!!! Now I have been down before and women held me down but me just not trying I’ll feel less than a man !!
