As a man I can NOT let a woman take care of me financially!!! Now I have been down before and women held me down but me just not trying I’ll feel less than a man !!
If she can't help US build together I don't need her. Yes she needs to pay bills also. If not, then she can pay all her bills herself and I'll pay mine. Simple. Problem solved. Fellas stop letting these mofos gaslight you into thinking we are less of a man because we want her to pay her way and do her share.
As far as first date she bet not bring me no flowers 💯💯all she needs is her presence I got the bill and has nothing to do if I’m getting anything afterwards maybe I’m old fashioned
And as far as moving inn I totally disagree with Corey why would I come in someone else house and pay ALL the bills that’s crazy !!! But if it’s our crib that’s a different story we can build together !!! Personally I like taking care of my lady she works because she likes to help and have her own money !!
Women are natural nurtures not providers it’s a difference now yes they have been out in position where they have to provide but not natural unless your a lioness