From your relationship with yourself to those with friends and loved ones, Doctor Glen and Pye use a practical research-driven approach to help you create better relationships in weeks, not years. When most of the significance and meaning in our lives stems from our relationships, the last thing we need them to be is complicated.
"Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?" What are the reasons they left? You can drive a person away with unhealthy communciation and behaviour. If you realize you've messed up something good, naturally you'd want that person back.
Just breakup with my girlfriend after 4years together.. for temporary we still stay together.. everyday seeing her.. it’s heartbreaking because i still love her so much.. but she dumped me just because of she found new boyfriend.. 😢..
So is this a comedy show on how to get over a broken heart comedy show for starving comedians? It's like you both aren't taking it very seriously cause you're feeding off each other's one liners. You need to know how many of us don't need you to prove how cool & funny you are as much as we need clinical advice.
I blocked him then he send me a message i replied i thought We gonna fix it but he said he Loves me but so much difference that he needs to think first sir he wants to continue. Idk if IM hurt because i loved him or its just my ego
Good conversation. We are married 4 years and are now both 37. Before marriage we briefly discussed the topic and he said he wants 3 children i was rather like 2 and i thought the talk is done like this is part of the contract. Now we are 4 years and its this situation like really lets have a baby. I initiated 2 years ago but he said he wasnt psychologically ready. I respected his decision and now after 2 years i am REALLY ready to try. To my understanding right now is enough good health, relationship dynamic and financial situation to do that. I informed him like a year ago line ok lets start trying from approx this month. He is acting shady like the financial situation is still not good or bringing in random relationship topics. Postponing into to somewhere in the future. I dont feel like i have any time to just wait in suspence at all. Dont know what to do. Ive tried to explain all the aspects but he is just very abstrct and honestly i dont understand what am i waiting more for. Very difficult situation ive been considering just leaving as well...
I listen to this every day now, I went to rehab for alcohol, cocaine & mental health. I was the best me when I came home. The wife was standing in the driveway when I got home. thinking she was going to congratulate me... nope she wanted a divorce.. I am now learning she has been lying me and her friends been covering for her for a long time now. she has been seeing someone else for 6+ months.. my whole life is devastated. Been together for 9 years married for 6.
He kept coming back and trying. Things were getting better, but he kept picking on me all the time. My job, my hair, my weight, my grades in college, (ha ha ha, I'm 60 WHO CARES), my sons progress of college, lmao....😂. One night we were going to the grocery store and he started picking on my job. I just walked away and I had my son pick me up. It's been 30 days, thank God.
When Pye talks about how one person can view all the time spent in a relationship as bad or wasted in the dialectical thinking section, it really resonates with me. That’s exactly how I feel-I’ve painted my ex as all bad, and the time we spent together as wasted, fake, or bad. Since he cheated and betrayed my trust, I’ve been unable to see any good memories for what they were. I’m left feeling confused and uncertain, with trust issues now. I’ve even found myself questioning, ‘Was it all a lie? Which parts were honest or genuine, and which were not?
Getting òver the break up would not be the problem. Dealing with health issues and this man has tore my house all to pieces while i was in facilities. Now im home still deal😊ing with health issues and a home thats a complete mess. His attitude has gotten very abusive and i have a hard time staying away because of health issues. Or it would be a little easier. I dont even have transportation
We broke up for almost 5 months. I tried so hard and he refused to let me go fully. Not until he found someone else. Now I regret not blocking him from jump. Or unblocking him those two times. Uggh
I just had to let go of him. For 2 years he was there, through my mum's death my sister-in-law death, Family events. I was so invested in the relationship and was faithful but he just had to keep dating other women while telling me i was the main one. I told myself, enough of the disrespect. Now he tells people i've been playing god in his life by tracking and monitoring his life. Boy bye🖐🖐🖐
"Happy Wife, Happy Life" Does not mean what you think it means. It does not mean a man should prioritize his wife's happiness. It means he should choose a woman who is already happy to be his wife.
The gentleman I'm talking to said that he is 80/20 (80 % he wants a child). He doesn't have children and I have one already. I was very up front with him that I do not want any more children; and yet he's not 100 percent sure he wants one. Do I go or stay? We've been talking for 6 months.
Thank you for a very exact description of different shades of an inverse narcissist. Especially devastating is their victim mentality and how people outside buy into it.
I’ve been had struggles moving on with my ex , we had been on relationship for years, I tried my best to move on but it’s feel like addicted move on so fast from past relationship. But I lll be okey someday I might need helping to move on more not thinking of him 30days .. thank u for giving me advice. I appreciate learning from u guys
This was so good helping me to look at this divorce in such a different light. This is so hard and now trying to learn to be just an individual again after more than 20 years 😩. Day by day. Day by day.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
I don't think you two are educated enough in open relationships. Multiple times during this conversation you confused open relationships with polyamory. I'd recommend spending time and listening to people in various types of open relationships. Many gay men especially make these work and it's not always in the context of two people at the end of their relationship.
Your role play of three scenarios towards end of episode rang true- 25 years this past August and she left similar to Scenario #1… Regretful I didn’t see this pod 9 months ago. Thank you for your honest work aimed at men.
