I'm adding this video to my favorites. Thank you for putting this in simple terms. Most of my friends these days understand time blindness, but I just lost a friend and the trouble started with them resenting my wife's absence and ended with them making passive aggressive accusations at her and crushing her feelings.
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I feel you. And thank you for sharing. A lot of my videos draw inspiration from what I'm currently going through too. I'm personally trying to respond by taking a break and having a chill, restful reprieve to try and get some energy back. Not sure what your strategy is but I hope that you find one which helps <3 You got this.
Did you choose to interpret what they said in a hurtful way? If so, that's on you. Did you choose to take it personally? If so, that's on you. For example, if I said to you "wow I hate that you have 3 eyes, that's so gross", this wouldn't affect you. You would know that it's nonsense, and you would just laugh at it and let it go. It wouldn't touch you. BUT, if I said to you something which you are sensitive about, for example - and I don't know you, but this is a common one - I made a comment about your weight, perhaps you might hear that and feel hurt. But if so, that's your fault. That means you interpreted the thing in a way that made SOMEONE ELSES WORDS a thing which HURT YOU. If you heard every word of insult or offense, for the rest of your life, as if someone was saying "lk;ajdfopijaqwef;lkajsdfiuhqwefl;kansdfiouyauwefoijasfd" (as in, utter nonsense), then you wouldn't be affected by it ever again. I'm not saying this is simple. Especially if this is new for you. But I AM saying that it's possible and ABSOLUTELY something that is WITHIN YOUR CONTROL.
@@adhdsolution2030 That was powerfully said. But if you are sensitive about what others will think who witnessed the event and they would bully you afterwards?
i really enjoyed your video <3. And yeah i too fall into this trap a lot of times, but im still trying to do better by keeping my mind occupied with daily tasks, spending time with my family, having fun with my friends, working on my goals and working out. I need to start taking care of myself, i need to move on, i need to start living again. (if i did any grammar mistakes my bad english isn't my first language)
Sounds like you're crushing it. Keep it up!! Bit by bit, things are only going to get better and better for you the longer you can maintain this. And who cares if you did any grammar mistakes. I mean: an. do w3ho c&r. es ??? if yeouuuu ded eny Grimmar mist0ke1s/ Anyone upset with your grammar can, b1te> my a.ss!?s
But if you have been wrongly taxed and the authorities stand behind each other and do not accept their mistake and reject the appeal, what do you do then? I am statement doesn't help or gratitude etc.
Obviously I don't know the full extent of this situation. All I can ask is this: 'Are you approaching the challenges you face as a victim? Or as the version of you which is empowered, strong, capable and seeing ALL the possibilities around you as opportunities?' Because you can't control these circumstances. You can't control if other people will accept their mistake. The only thing you can control is how you respond AND THE WAY YOU DO THAT is by controlling which version of you that you are. Good luck <3
great Explaination ! i have high problem with task initiation, may you please make a video explaining that? i've gone through countless article but they doesn't seem to relate the way you do. ❣from India
Hey brother, that is a great topic!! I'm very happy to make a video about that for you. It would help me if you could be a little bit more specific for me though. e.g. what are some of the issues you are having around task initiation, specifically? or perhaps could you give me an example from your own life of how this affects you? If you could manage that, then I'll be able to make a video just for you on that topic. HOWEVER: If you find it too hard to initiate on replying back to me on this (I'd completely understand if so haha), then just comment back with a smiley face :) and I'll improvise something generic on the topic for you. Don't overthink it. The first things that come to mind. And thank you for your kind words.
Thank you for making this video. I needed to hear the message you shared in this one. Applying viewing the perspective changes you share in your videos to some areas of my life has been so helpful to me ever since discovering your channel about a week or two ago. Looking forward to checking out more of your videos!
I came across a meme that said "When your most recent hyperfixation has run it's course and you are in limbo period of trying to figure out what other obscure concept will be your reason for living." Do you have any thoughts with this one? sometimes I burn myself out during long periods of hyperfixation then I crash with stress over little tasks I might have neglected. I am just putting the puzzle peices together so i am sure once I track this cycle that will help me become aware of whats happening and allow me to expect it and find solutions~
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Thank you so much, really kind of you. I'm aware, but my goal isn't channel growth at this time :) I hope you continue to enjoy the content I'm putting out :)
Your voice is so quiet it's difficult to hear you. I'll re-watch this later as I'm recently diagnosed audhd and have suffered from chronic painful leg cramps for several years and wonder if the adhd might be the cause.
Hey I really appreciate the feedback, and it's great for me to hear this. As I re-watch it now, I can hear myself quite clearly. Maybe you could try watching it again on a different device? If you do, and it's no better, please let me know and I'll try and re-upload it for you :) Also it's entirely possible that the AuDHD will be contributing. I won't make any assertions about causality at a distance, but frequently the parts of us related to Autism will affect our proprioception and interpretation of internal stimuli (what we feel), while the ADHD will make us hyperfocus & hyperfixate on them (so the things we will, we feel MORE, and they become chronic sensations because we are chronically thinking about them). Again, don't just take my word for it. I'm not your doctor. But there is likely content in here which has significant overlap. Good luck on your journey. Pain can be a powerful teacher.
Thank you for making this. I never thought about applying the technique of improvising like in theater to life. I’m a musician and this comparison of improvising being similar to being spontaneous and making it up as you go makes a lot of sense to me. I’m 29 and was only diagnosed with ADHD 2 or 3 months ago. Discovering a world of knowledge relating to ADHD and perspective changes to learn how to manage things more effectively in life, including from your videos, has been incredibly helpful. I’m so glad to have unexpectedly found your channel. Looking forward to checking out more of your videos!
AHHHH! I love your comments. Thank you for these incredible kind words. YEAH DUDE! It's nuts. SOOO effective. I was a performer/dancer for a while. It's kinda wild how many parallels exist between how we conduct ourselves as artists and how we COULD be living our lives. So few people think to apply one approach to the other. People with ADHD are the best improvisers (and artists/creatives, if I'm being honest...) haha Glad to hear you've found a framework that's finally helping you understand yourself. Gladder still that my content seems to be landing for you. Let me know if there's anything you'd like me to make a video about. It might take me a minute ( #justADHDthings) but it would be a pleasure to make something for you. Keep rocking it :)
No thank you Sojib, not at this stage. I will be in touch should I change my mind. Thank you for your persistence and your initiative. I wish you all the best in your business and throughout your life <3
When I take calls I like to go outside and walk around. It helps me better express myself. When I’m at work and I’m giving presentations, I struggle at times to find words. I don’t know if this is a cognitive decline or ADHD. Unfortunately, I can get up and start walking around. Most of the time it happens while I’m sitting.
Glad this helps. Stay present. The speed feels calmative but there IS a point at which you get diminishing returns on the calm, while the risk creeps higher and higher. And there's nothing wrong with going fast. The real danger comes when you suddenly come to a complete and unexpected stop...
Thank you. I appreciate that very much. I do try :) I'm glad this resonates. Let me know if there's anything you would be interested to hear more about. I might make a video for you on that topic!
Hi Jack, just came across your channel. Great video. Do you have any suggestions for a binge/compulsive overeater? I can “do something else” yet will still go back to the food.
