All that matters your happy right that's it nothing else it's like if i want to wear a pair of shoes and I'm happy but the other person hates them that's tough on them
This is so sad you don't seem very happy if i understand this you are a lesbian and you got married to a woman to get a green card then divorced her to be a trans guy and now lesbian do want to date you.
I had a hysterectomy with no complications. I had to do an ultrasound before this to make sure everything was okay. I was all for the hysterectomy because I did not want that stuck inside me again it was horrible. Lol I was more worried about the ultrasound hearing than anything else and of course it did for me. Now and then I have horrible dreams about getting my menstrual cycle again even though now it is not possible. I feel so relieved after waking up meowing that it will never happen again. It was one of the worse things that ever happened to me I flooded like crazy.
Thank you for sharing your experience with healing and circus! Not so many people can share experience in that kind of movement heavy sport. I do swords fighting (HEMA) and I'm worried of getting through the wait before I can get back to it heh
I was thinking you were in your mid 20s. Thank your parents for good genes. Circumcision does the same thing that top surgery does. Reduced sensation, like you're wearing a condom all the time. That's why it's rarely done after puberty.
By the way I absolutely loved this video, and the person you're dating, I think you are a beautiful couple and I love that you were both very honest and open and I really appreciate all of your videos from your transition to now because it really is inspirational and helpful and I just love your sense of humor and being positive on everything. Thank you
I remember you were in tears because you were so scared that no one will like you the way you are. So glad to see you now genuinely happy with yourself, to be able to love and loved. :D
I'm so happy for you! I know that the fear of losing your queerness and not being recognized or desired by the people you most want to date was weighing heavily on you. Isn't it wonderful to be proved wrong?! Anyway, thank you both for your openness!
Honestly I don't understand why a pink box can cause this distress to someone non binary who is so reflected on gender norms - that's why I actually liked watching your videos. It's just a box and just a colour. Yes, it has it's implications but we decice whether we follow these implications or not. How do you feel about people assuming you're a cis guy? Does that also cause dysphoria for you? I share your criticism, I mean there are studys on lesbian women who subconsciously stay away from gynaecologists because it's all pink and baby and heterosexual there..
hey Elliot! I am almost 5 years post op double incision mastectomy with free nipple grafts, and am still getting some sensation back. I think probably most of the sensation cam back for me between 1 and 2 years if I had to guess. While they don't feel the same as pre-surgery, the nipples did recover some erotic sensation. I guess things continue to heal even years out? Your chest looks amazing! Yeah my nips also have some discoloration, I've seen some people get them tattooed, so maybe that's an option.
Your results look amazing! I'm 3.5 months post double incision with no nipple grafts. I had a small complication at 2.5 weeks post op, and my incision under my armpit opened up. It's almost (finally) healed up now. I'm waiting to start scar care until it's all healed up, so in the meantime it's still quite red. I hear you on not vibing on human reproductive organs - I'm booked for a hysterectomy at the end of September. I want it all gone. I've been on low dose T for 2.5 years and my changes have been minimal so far. It's frustrating. I get misgendered quite frequently. My pronouns are they/them, so it's rare to hear them in the wild anyway, but I most frequently get ma'am'ed and she'd. The rare time I hear sir, they "correct" themselves as soon as I speak. I'm 42, btw, but plus sized, so have a more feminine face/figure, I guess.
Elliot, I'm so happy to see you happy with your results😍 I was wondering how you feel about your gender identity nowadays? Has it changed? Does it feel more concrete? How about in regards to top surgery? I'm still living my trans life through youtube so everything feels like a what if, if that makes sense. I relate a lot to your earlier videos but i hope i can reach where you are one day!
