thank you Marcus I really appreciate it you're very informative I really appreciate these amazing videos I've been following you for a year now keep up these videos I really enjoy them if it would be possiblethe show other people that have occasional stutter how it works to order food at restaurants and stuff like that like hide a camera or something and going to different scenarios and show people how to act in different places that will be quite interesting let's say at work.projecting confidence Etc
Sir sometimes i speak with !00% fluency and don't stutter at all but some days i stutter on simple words . Do you know what is the reason. i think i can overcome this but sometimes it feel like it is out of my control.
Hey Marcus, I have been watching your videos and they help me a lot bit recently I noticed that I have been struggling to speak, like I'm afraid to speak because I have this negative thought that every time I'm going to stutter on sentence, do you have any tips and tricks of helping me out with that ?
let me explain.this is someone that has been practicing his chores for a year straight so I can give you advice would I recommend based off Marcus says the fear is at the beginning you have to surround yourself with fluency for example.start off use a a couple of tools the more tools you usethe more fluent you will become over timehow to start you wouldn't have a choice you would have to face to fear is no other solution to tell you what you can make you can minimize the fear by limiting the intensity.how to start for example you order through a phone can you go to a drive-thru and then you order in person you see what I'm saying.you minimize the fear after start and slowly increase your resistance and tolerance but either way at the start you don't have to choice you just have to focus on what you have to say and push through the fear this is it bro this is itI wish you the best
You must not be informed of his new concise version of his big book. I suggest you got ahead and read the short version so that way you can be at least updated to his new improved methods. Come on man cherry picking one coaching video out of the hundreds he has here and thousands he has on WSSA doesn't seem fair. You know damn well you weren't joking about people giving you money and needing those luxury vacations or else you wouldn't have thrown it out there. Afterall, you do have the unnecessary passport coaching package lol
Let me show you the world coach Lee created: Imagine a community of ex-stutters, people that truly understands your pain as a stutter , felt it, been there... And they try to help you too. That's the world Lee created, a safe space where stutters, for the first time, feel free,safe, meet with other stutters. All this for almost free! My stutter reduced incredibly to almost 20% in one month! I'm a living testimony that Lee's method work! And it's almost free!
Lee’s methods have been really helping me a lot. However, you really need to be disciplined in applying the methods ❤ it is no magic pill where many speech therapy takes so much money just for a few sessions and leaves the PWS hanging after that
First of all, I've joined WSSA (Lee's coaching program) a couple weeks ago and have also had some 1-on-1 coachings with Lee too. Here's my comments on your video in regards to my experiences so far: I find it incredibly disingenuous to judge Lee's 1-on-1 coaching skills by looking at one single video. Apart from Lee just being a very passionate person, he might have just had an off day here. Have you never had one? Could he have interrupted a little less? Sure. You would be able to see that this is not how the majority of his coachings are conducted at all if you had done your research and actually looked at the library of 1-on-1 coachings more extensively. This is not his general "style". In all the coachings I've had with him for example, he's been nothing but respectful. He was of course still passionate in his responses but that's just how he is and talks. It's in no way malicious. He wants nothing more than for you to succeed in beating stuttering. 1st dislike: I agree overall, his book could be more concise, as he himself agrees and even mentions at the start of the book. Gladly, he also has a summarized version of it. Personally, I loved reading it and read it aloud as it is intended. Also, I think the repetions are definitely by choice - you're trying to change the habit after all and that requires a lot of repetions. 2nd dislike: Lee has never charged a dime for his coaching. In a world where speech therapy is insanely expensive and thus unavaible for a lot of people with lower income, I really appreciate that all the services are as affordable as they are. I don't see anything wrong with him mentioning the affordability of the services up front since a lot SLPs and programs don't and charge an arm and a leg. He coaches people from all around the world - by keeping the prices this low, he makes attainable even for people that have a low income. 3rd dislike: I strongly disagree with your analysis of his methods being mainly centered around crutches. Actually, it literally is only one third of his "1-2-3 punch" (that he mentions over and over in his book by the way... guess more thorough reading through the "fluff" wouldn't have hurt... Sorry, I don't mean to be mean but I just had to go there). Reading aloud (1) and mind training (2) are at least as important as the crutches and Lee makes it a point to bring that across in all of his work (books, coachings, SAM-Meetings). This point especially makes me think that you don't seem to be very familiar with Lee's methods. Here's some direct quotes from his book: "Our methods are holistic in part. Healing the whole man is central to the success of our methods". After watching your critique, EITHER you're purposely trying to paint Lee and his methods in a bad light (which I don't want to believe because you don't seem like a bad guy) OR you just really haven't done enough research for this video, mate. I urge you to not take this comment as hate but merely as a critique to your critique.
I think both you AND Lee Lovett are not good approaches to stuttering. All you guys focus on is achieving fluency, and you equate fluency with happiness. The problem with this "fluency-shaping" approach is: 1. You are teaching yourself you can only be accepted/loved if you are fluent 2. You are teaching yourself to avoid stuttering, which doesn't help fix the iceberg emotions (shame, self-hate, low self-esteem) 3. If you track fluency as your measure of progress, you will invariably think more about stuttering and get more in your head. You will essentially become a museum of tricks and have your guard up. 4. When you reach "fluency", you will still have a fear of stuttering in high-pressure situations. People will feel your vibe is off. You may be "fluent" using tricks/crutches, but your listener will detect there is something off about you. 5. Most of the crutches that Lee Lovett teaches actually makes you sound less intelligent. Inserting "ummms" and "ahhs". And the modulation sounds super exaggerated/bizarre with some students. 6. Lots of Lee Lovett's students are just drinking the Koolaid. They think speaking in a "SAM meeting" is somehow an achievement, when it actually is a comfort zone of other stutterers (there is zero fear of judgment in a supprt group). 7. Lee Lovett rewrites the testimonials for his students. He claims he is going broke because he can't afford to pay the server fees. What a joke. He's profiting well.
Lee Lovett's methods have been incredibly beneficial for me. I've tried numerous therapies, but his approach is the only one that has truly made a difference.
I would disagree with parts of your video , especially the crutches aspect. They've helped me and sort of pushed me on to get used to fluency. As he says in the book, they're literal crutches to use so you can minimize bad incidents. This is coming from someone that was a severe stutterer.
I’ve read his much updated editions (long and short) and it’s been the only thing to help me overcome stuttering. Lee can be animated at times, but that’s just him. I’ve probably watched 300+ coaching sessions and it’s been a major help in my life. His 1-2-3 Punch is still a regimen I follow to this day. I think you were being too critical. I would love to see you and Lee feature on video together one day since you both have helped many PWS.
sir i belong a middle class family and cant afford your paid course. so please i request you to free your the self study plan please sirrrr please. i want to become a fluent speaker.
Sometimes I setting in v Class in attendancr time I dont say yes sir because of stutters and students often makes my fun because of stutters I am really sad about this may allah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ blessed me❤❤❤❤
Mr Lee keeps interupting her and it shows that he is a person who does not stutter and feel empathy for the pws. The fact that the girl is sharing her deepest insecurity and dark experience probably related to so much trauma is overwhelming for her. I'd feel honored if someone shared such deep thoughts and I would appreciate the person. I agree he is talking too much and too intimidatingly.
hi MarcusI have been following you for a year nowI really love your videos and your courses if you put write a book that would be amazing with your life story and about motivation with how to overcome a stutter how much hundreds of videos of how to stop stutteringbut no one was like you I really appreciate your work and dedicationand I highly believe if you would write a book you are definitely be a best seller no doubt
First time i'm hearing on the guy. This is my first impression of him so idk if he's always like this but it doesn't feel like he's a Stuttering coach based on the constant interrupting and the his dramatic demeanor. Even myself that enjoys to be around those types of ppl i'm not sure i would pick it for my coach
Hey Marcus. Thanks for your videos. I really enjoy watching them. I am 45, married and successful in what I am doing but I always felt that I couldn't live up to my full potential or live a life that wasn't 100% true to myself because of my stuttering. I am quite impressed by your way of speaking and would love to know how bad your stuttering really was when you started working on it. I just want to know how far you had to go to get to this stage. I assume you don't have any voice recordings of yourself from the past that you are comfortable with sharing?
Thank you for the kind words. I'm glad to hear you've been able to build a great life despite the stuttering! It definitely took time to get my speech to where it is now. Stuttering really hindered my overall confidence and I was in a constant state of feeling unable to express myself the way I wanted to. Sometimes I could hide it pretty well, but even then it was super exhausting to be so "in my head" about it and be so avoidant of situations and feared words. And I actually found a few clips where I stuttered just talking to myself with my phone - I included those clips in the video at the top of this page: www.speakyourmindmethod.com/ultimate-speech-therapy
sir i belong a middle class family and cant afford your paid course. so please i request you to free your the self study plan please sirrrr please. i want to become a fluent speaker.
Well you are doing better then me, I have difficulties with my native language and in speaking English. But that shouldn't stop you or me to become fluent speakers!
Thank you so much for sharing this method, smiling and stretching is what I need to practice most bc I am one of those strong minded who wants to force thru it.
I just wanted to say that even though you're at 5k subs, you really put in a lot of effort into making us content. You're changing lives. Keep doing what you're doing !
I can say anything I want but for some reason sometimes I fuck it up for no reason. Everyone just ignores it but new people that don't know me makes fun of it.
Thank you so much I am a French speak as mother tongue but pretty good in English I wanna improve my speech fluidity in both languages ! Are all the tips and free training programs work for French as well. I sometimes stutter but it’s quite rare in French more in English thank you so much
Thank you! I'm really gonna try this at my work meetings, nothing more terrifying than hearing "so let's all go around..." ugh I feel like my heart is going to beat out of my chest! Nice to know I'm not alone
