Hi I am Tierra Haas! If you don’t know me, I air all my personal business on social to help me and to help you! This is where I go deeper into the topics YOU have asked me about, learn more about mental health, physical health, and of course accepting yourself for exactly who you are even if you desire change. 💖 I’m here to let you know you are NEVER alone no matter who you are!
i have bpd n every time i dye my hair i feel like a whole new person😭 i am naturally brunette n had been dyeing my hair black for years, but a few months ago i decided to bleach my whole head n go ginger LOL such a drastic change but it’s made me feel so confident in myself n i absolutely love how it looks on me, the red looks so gorgeous on you girlyy I love your videos so much<3
I don't take medication 😢and I can say it's relatable but difficult at the same time. Because I can have weeks where I feel great then it just has that one hard time. We all just gotta look for the good times
see i’ve learned this, but nobody around me has. i’ve had to stop seeing therapists because they try to convince me that im doing better just because i had a few okay days. like bitch ive been doing this my whole ass life this is what always happens i do okay for a bit for whatever reason but it always inevitably comes back. like last time this happened i was having multiple episodes daily because of this guy i was talking to, and then i split on him and dropped him, and i told my therapist that i fully believe this period where i seem to be better will be temporary and is only this way because i just got rid of a huge stressor, but she just didn’t believe me? they always think im just being sooo negative. fucking weirdos. sorry lol i’m in a bad mood
loved the video bestie it really helped me start my day as they are getting harder and harder to find a purpose to go on when I am the person I am and if you get that ?? fact cool if not I hope to tell you one day but as it stands right now I still feel like I am in a completely different universe from you life death rebirth my wife and anything and then people say I am not alone when objectively I am in every conceivable way and inconceivable way to you and others as well
I hate whatever I have at this point it's like I have everything in that book and I'm trying to get my shit together but ya know hard to do that when every breath is mental agony but "I am fine" right I mean random ethereal strangers and people that view me as a higher power figure around me do so much to help me think I am normal I hate this life I am living right now
My wife has bpd iv been with her for 16 years. The early years were ROUGH. But the last 10 haven't been horrible. I wasn't beening azz. Don't take me thay way.
I feel bad for anyone suffering from mental breakdowns. That being said this type of video does nothing for you except make it look like your looking for sympathy. Which I do hope you can feel better about yourself. You need to get off social media though it's part of your problem guaranteed
did you even check channel at all??💀💀"mental breakdowns" no Jeremy, she makes BPD content for educational purposes, and those struggling with bpd relate and feel understood and seen. also note that BPD is more than just mental breakdowns. "you need to get off social media though" what a weird thing to say to someone who is trying to help others through her content.
@@carynblair8066 i did in the caption. i believe it applies to both 🤍 i apologize for the misunderstanding! a lot of the time the name is so long it distracts from the video with all the words. again my apologies but i truly hope it does help both disorders 🤍
BPD is actually the correct short term for boderline personality disorder (3 words, 3 letters). On the other hand, BD is the correct one for bipolar disorder (2 words, 2 letters). Source: I'm a psych major.
i hate going to the psychiatrist in a good mood and tell her i’m fine and the next day i feel like my current med dosage is doing nothing for me and im horrible
I have recently reflected on how beautiful it is that i am able to love people so profoundly even when people are emotionally complicated and unavailable. I have the ability to love someone even when i am killing myself to try to. I have learned better than to pour my whole heart into people who wont do half as much for me but i still think that people that have bpd even being able to love so much and so deeply to the extent of not fully ever being able to express how you feel is just, astounding. Humans are so beautiful
I genuinely LOATHE how many people have way less emotional problems than we do bestie and they just make these horrific problems on top of your lives I can't wait to see the fates they have sown for themselves you know I don't let anything go ;3
This popped up in my feed while I was having the literal worst most confusing day ever, at my whits end in tears. I just want to say thank you for being vulnerable and real with us 💚💚💚 you are helping many in more ways than you realize!
I find it very brave that you made this video while feeling bad. I know people who have BPD as well (probably why RU-vid recommended me this video) and they express it in their own ways. Having exciting plans for a day and than suddenly feeling bad is something I recognize. From personal experience, being in a relationship with someone with BDP (romantically or not) requires two crucial things: take them bloody serious from the get go, and know that how they are feeling is not their choice. From my experience this is important to form a support person for the person who has BPD.
I see a lot of people on here saying "don't use your mental illness as an excuse" but I don't at all think that's what this is about! This reads more as the people who you've gone through the actions with of apologizing, being forgiven, and moving on, but they always hold previous experiences over your head in an unhealthy manner. As a personal example, I've had people who fully acknowledged and say they forgave me for what can be summarized as bad wording on my part when bringing up an issue (I like to cuss and be sarcastic to relieve stress, and confrontation is very stressful, but it was 100% on me to be clear in the line between my stress relief and the topic at hand which I didn't do), then use that same mistake against me every time literally anything else came up that they didn't like. Not even unhealthy stuff I was doing, either! For example I asked one of them to stop making sexualized comments about me because it was becoming less funny, more upsetting, and their reply was that I "just needed to learn how to handle my emotions better before it ends up like (x time I cussed at them)." Of course mental illness should never excuse unhealthy actions. But if you're going to forgive a person and try to work towards a healthier relationship, you can't continually use those events against them either every time you don't like something that they say.
