Hey from what I see you should never feel dirty or that you miss out on things because of your job. I am the complete opposite , when I was 19 I was a young gay Marine and had all kinds of offers I kick myself for not taking, for instance I was at a popular gay bar in Laguna Beach , bar closed at 0200 I wasn't done , so I notice a party going on in the hotel above, I jump the gate and let this guy my age in he was lets say chub . got to the door of party ... guy looked me up and down smiled and let me in ., the kid behind me was told NO its a pvt party, I felt so bad i left . never found the kid wanted to say sorry to him. but so on and so on opportunities missed like this over and over. but never feel bad or dirty if people look at you its prolly because you are so sexy. best of luck .
I used to frequent Steamworks in Toronto. Only had one weird dude that wouldn’t take no thank you for an answer. Otherwise, it was always fun, mainly to people watch. Some guys are very shy and others are primal.
My fiance (also gay relationship although i am transgender) is 10 years older thsn me and iblove him so much Before that ibdatet or fell for people msle and femsle ounger thsn me one femsle pllitely turned me down the other welll used me and liey to le and betrayed my trust (im demi sexusl sonit hurts alot more) and the msle guys where either begore my coming out or this one guy kept me on jold like a a burger st mc donalds thsts öaying there in the back for some minutes So my issue is thst i am demi secual so i actualy only try to dste people who i already have a bond with else i sm not interestet in them romsnticly or sexually that is how it is so loosing s potentisl partner always comes at the cost of loosing a verry good if not even best friend thats just how i tick So while this gormer friend of mine kept me warm while not being interestet i befriended this super sweet cajun and i noticed after a while thst he was interestet in me butbinstill had feelings for this other jerk and it took a while of us hanging out and tslking in vr chat (i am german wich was another concern of mine the distance) to really make up my mind And although its a long diszsnce relationship i could not be more happy he plans on mooving to germany so yay usa is just not a good place to not be rich and all By joubger people i mean of ace snd not youbger thsn 2 years difference ok?
Hey Richie. 58 here from the UK. Lovely to hear your story but sorry to hear you were treated so badly by the older guy. A learning curve for sure and hope you've moved past it! xxx
London Calling. You need to learn to get to the point. You'd attract more people if you stopped all that faffing about and tell a story and then evaluate what is means to you and how it's improved your life at the END. Those 1001 needless words in all this is a bloody pain! FFS!
Eventhough this vid is from two years ago, I have to say, that I haven‘t enjoyed to listen to somebody like you for a long time. First it confirms me in an assumption I allready have for a long long time: There are a lot more younger gay men out there, seeking for older, more mature guys to spend time with. But a lot of them are really afraid of getting judged or even banned from their peergroup in the same age, because of their feelings for older guys. It is even more sad, now that I know I was right with that. Second: It gave me back some hope. I am one of those older mature guys - yes also good looking ;-) - who loves to comfort a younger pal with his presence by sharing time with him and having an exchange about whatsoever. And my experience always was positive with those younger guys who really wanted this and seeked for it. We can give eachother so much, we just have to permit it ourselves. Thank you for sharing this with the world, it really meant a lot to me.
I don't know much about how America came to acquire Hawaii, but I would say it's safe to call it another country. We think we deserve vacations but we have pretty good and easy lives (relatively speaking) even if we have to work a lot. We have no war, famine etc.
Regarding the place you left, I don't understand why you'd get a place with so many rooms only because it must have been so much to clean! I would always recommend hiring movers. Moving is a traumatic life event after death and job loss. Enjoyed the tours and spending time with you. 😊
I'm seeing this now 2 years later. You're now at 24.5 K subscribers. I'm 47 and I can't do hook-ups. I'm a demi-sexual germaphobe so they're not for me. My heart breaks after a hook-up. I don't think we should ever detach sex from emotions. Also, with hook-ups you don't know the mental health of the person, which scares me.
Great video Richie, I particularly enjoyed the one you did on Mt. Lemmon in Tucson, if you ever come to Tucson again and would like someone to hang out with or see other sites, please get in touch with me, Mt. Lemmon is one of my favorites but at present I have no one interested in going
My first gay male experience occurred at age 26 with my 24 YO friend (this was almost 40 years ago). We became partners and lived together for close to a decade. He was always attracted to older men. After our relationship ended, he found a perfect partner for him who is 21 years his senior. They have been together since 1996 and are still going strong (we are still all friends).
Mr. West, You never cease to amaze me. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or something different. You happen to be THE right guy. THE dream partner. Cuddle buddy. Something else is true : fortunately or not; my husband and You are peculiarity similar. In all ways, and always.
Wow Richie, you are absolutely stunning. I can see why older men would find you so attractive. I am an older man who loves younger guys. Unfortunately there is so much ageism in the way community that younger guys will not even give me the time of day. Yet I have so much wisdom and love to give. Unfortunately that is life. I am pleased that you are so open minded about meeting older guys.
4:32 OK, the video is a little old, but you didn't cause the problem. You just exposed it, and that's a big difference because the guy had a problem (and may still have for years) and you just touched it. If you caused the problem, it would have been your fault, but you didn't do anything wrong. At least men take a little longer to to mature, and as an older friend once said when I was younger, “Relationships rarely work out well for men before they’re 30.” I'm not a native English speaker so the translation might differ a little. In my experience people often tend to avoid truth about themselves and therefore avoid everything what is exposing it to them. So did I loose the love of my life. While he exposed an important truth about myself, he didn't like the truth about himself. I know, I will love him forever (literally forever, because love doesn't end with death), but I won't see him ever again. I don't know if that's true or false, but I believe that when the right people come together and expose each other's truth, they can grow with it and in it.
Richie all this 76 your old man wanted was to have complete power over you Sweetheart and when he realized that he infact had absolutely No Power concerning you he simply turned on you and was having a Temper Tantrum within himself and with you... This much Older Individual was Not going into any form of Dementia or Alzhiemers whatsoever... He was right down pissed off because he had not succeeded in taking complete Control over You, your Mind, your Self Esteem and your Career... So Honey he turned on you simply because He was Pissed Off because He didn't get HIS WAY WITH YOU Richie... And Good for YOU ❤
I'm about to turn 50 in October. Except for my receding hairline and grey facial hair which isn't totally grey, I still sport my ADIDAS, clean plain t-shirts and pants. However, I feel as though...I know....I will never enjoy the company of a younger person ( 30's is best ). I feel old and depressed.
