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Hi, I'm Dahlia! I just re-launched my channel after years of never really launching in the first place.

I help make good things happen. This fun and meaningful podcast looks for the helpers and ways to help you through your day. Like this 2-part conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté on The Myth of Normal:

🎧: www.dahliakurtz.com

In the days to come, you'll also get exclusive footage from that chat.

You may get conversations with everyday people doing extraordinary things, Oscar winners who have overcome the odds, or the man who jumped off The Golden Gate Bridge to take his life, yet miraculously lived to save so many lives. And more...

You won't get inundated with information here. You already get too much of that. You need wonder and reflection. So expect lots of that.

I have been a talk show host for a decade - with a mission to spread kindness. So, let's make good things happen. Why live and let live when you can live and HELP live?
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@tb-dv1zc
@tb-dv1zc 22 часа назад
Its literally his last words that mean the most in this clip. The child that saw no way out.
@TheJ602
@TheJ602 23 часа назад
You can still have you PTSD from war even if you had a normal childhood.
@ChazAndreWhite
@ChazAndreWhite 4 дня назад
Her body language says she was ready to risk it all
@rosiefoster713
@rosiefoster713 4 дня назад
shit advice
@pepperfly984
@pepperfly984 4 дня назад
Mental Health is a business like so many other businesses.
@faithm.8958
@faithm.8958 5 дней назад
I NEEDED THIS!!!❤
@rakiraki6250
@rakiraki6250 5 дней назад
Does regular exersice help ?
@PietroColombo-em5mz
@PietroColombo-em5mz 6 дней назад
Is this a therapy? For what? Time loosing? These words are almost dangerous, not only useless.
@user-eq2ii5cl9i
@user-eq2ii5cl9i 6 дней назад
That makes since.
@rachna0367
@rachna0367 7 дней назад
am feeling suicidal my mom not talking to me because i quit job which i didnt like she cares more for society than for me i dont have friends and brothers hate me
@DIAMONDheart888
@DIAMONDheart888 12 дней назад
BEing Here NoW ❣️ Presence 🎁 Breathing into your Body 🫁❤ it's definitely Not easy, deep despair is not for the weak, only the strongest souls take on the toughest roads & roles. 🤍🤍🤍
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 12 дней назад
I've lived for so long with an old endless loop running in mind... The limiting belief has been that life is hell, and I've only come to earth, to suffer... That I have nothing going for me. I'm just suffering in misery, waiting to die... And then... Something so cool!!! I realized the enemy is a fucking LIAR! And I have so much going for me... Like: 1) I am a registered counsellor 2) I have a brilliant mind 3) I know the darkest dark. I am ready and willing, able and capable, to now step into the light! 4) In many ways, my discernment is razor sharp 5) I have a beautiful connection to God and my own spirituality 6) Because the men in my life (and particularly the most recent man), have been abusive cunts... They have forced me to go inwards, to refine myself, to strengthen myself, to awaken the Lioness/Goddess/Queen that I AM 7) Because my life has been utter hell, I know how to walk through the storm, I know how to die a million deaths, and to resurrect! 8) I see so very clearly, what others don't, it's like I (almost-constantly) have a birds-eye view of things... 9) I understand now, and am continuing to learn, about the true divine feminine and real divine masculine 10) I've had to constantly overcome. MY STRENGTH IS INSANE. 11) I've gone through the fire, I'm being refined, transformed, transmuted: into gold. I am an alchemist. I am the dragon! And guess what? 2024 is THE YEAR OF THE DRAGON! Ahoy!!
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 13 дней назад
Traumas and griefs that crush us completely are used to find a strength/evolution/healing/faith, beyond ourselves - Also, we can’t see/know/understand our value through someone else’s behavior (or actions...) *That’s the challenge!* 3 men in my life: the first - was just a very GORGEOUS young girl, with zero self esteem, and a much older, uglier, disgusting and VERY abusive man the second - was a symptom of complete and total: self loathing the third - was a result of despair and desperation I PRAY I CHANGE THIS PATTERN I PRAY I HEAL I pray the next man, will be the last one. the true one. the real one. I vibrate * I radiate * I create *
@geetu1
@geetu1 13 дней назад
We ALL go through this. Even those that are surrounded with kids and family feel disconnected sometimes. It’s perfectly normal especially when you’ve been through trauma. Sooth your inner child and clear your subconscious programming, it’s like an everyday thing you need to do ❤. Tonnes or books and RU-vid videos out there as he mentioned. I know because I’m in my mid 40s and overcome depression and dealt with a lot of rejection and being made to feel like the scapegoat, gaslighted, etc. list is endless but my point is don’t let anyone take away your decision to make your life wonderful, go out there and assert yourself rather than waiting for someone to save you.
@crystalsue8118
@crystalsue8118 14 дней назад
This is my kind of person. It always goes back to childhood
@theflittingbutterfly
@theflittingbutterfly 15 дней назад
The woman's questions here are exactly how my brain and inner voices work.
@CasualPo4
@CasualPo4 15 дней назад
I will look for you even if it takes a forever of loneliness to meet you
@stxnij2248
@stxnij2248 15 дней назад
It doesn't work for me
@pamwnorowski7874
@pamwnorowski7874 15 дней назад
I would love to speak with you Gabor Mate. You hold the key of understanding that would help me fill in the blanks. You are a beautiful skilled genius who is so insightful and wise.
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 3 дня назад
O, pls, don't overstate him..he is no genius. A clever businessman, I give him that!
@RootBound505
@RootBound505 16 дней назад
This was completely useless and bordering on damaging.
@katydid6920
@katydid6920 17 дней назад
My choice is to be an emotional punching bag every fucking day or stop the pain and let them take what I have left. They have been working on me and waiting for me to do it so they can be victorious and talk shit even after I'm gone. They are having fun watching me deteriorate
@user-sb2dd7xf7j
@user-sb2dd7xf7j 17 дней назад
you need good people around to feel good.
@Fegga1955
@Fegga1955 17 дней назад
Not any who care,never there unless sth needed
@meinungabundance7696
@meinungabundance7696 17 дней назад
No, not child. You can be dasappointed as an addult, too.
@meinungabundance7696
@meinungabundance7696 17 дней назад
Useful conversation with people? Are you kidding? not everyone is surrounded by intelligent and nice people like you obviously.
@steelearmstrong9616
@steelearmstrong9616 18 дней назад
Relationships are two insecure individuals that use and tolerate each other for their own selfish needs and wants all for the fear of being alone
@davidstair9657
@davidstair9657 19 дней назад
I saw a bumper sticker, “Give ‘em all fentanyl”… the hatred towards those with certain addictions is amazing to behold! I used to think this way. I was a lying alcoholic but had such hatred for those on fent outside my 7/11. I’d go into get something to get into my stomach before I vomited from my hangover, but I’d be so indignant of the “addicts” outside of 7/11. Dear Lord!!
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 20 дней назад
Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Pema Chodron
@apachewolfscout
@apachewolfscout 20 дней назад
Love it! May more people experience joy.
@ModestNeophyte
@ModestNeophyte 21 день назад
which part of me believes that won't work for me? THE PART OF ME THAT IS DRAINED AND TIRED AND JUST SLAP WORE OUT.
@ModestNeophyte
@ModestNeophyte 21 день назад
i feel like caring about myself is selfish and unacceptable because i am my familiy's punching bag, and apparently i'm a burden to all i come into contact with. i dont' deserve help or any medical care at all.
@CJ-ft9yo
@CJ-ft9yo 21 день назад
You can do all of that, read a book, shower etc but the pleasure is not there, a complete lack of dopamine.
@angelicacroitoru4946
@angelicacroitoru4946 22 дня назад
I thaught Gabor Maté is hepfull but I see it's just superficial
@user-ls4cw3od2u
@user-ls4cw3od2u 23 дня назад
The statement is true Learn to enjoy yourself or you’ll never enjoy the company of others Go join a book club 😂
@PetsNPatients
@PetsNPatients 23 дня назад
Yes infants and dogs, always ready to be happy, live in the moment.
@dominus6695
@dominus6695 27 дней назад
We don't know each other, only what we see/evoke/perceive in the other.
@Poetic_Justice1962
@Poetic_Justice1962 28 дней назад
Gabor Maté''s approach strongly suggests that all answers and healing depend on empathy.
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 28 дней назад
I am The Song Of the Universe! Today is a Miraculous Wonderfully Magical Day! I am in my New Earth Divine Crystalline Body!
@robertcolle2802
@robertcolle2802 Месяц назад
Thank you Dr.Mate...I suffer ...complex PTSD....your information is very helpful...thank you
@margo.3466
@margo.3466 Месяц назад
If this idiot was to read the comments....he may realise how crap he is.
@btt1038
@btt1038 Месяц назад
Pls arabic sub of this videos
@lindamullin8309
@lindamullin8309 Месяц назад
I’m seeing no way out. Yes
@michealgeorge57
@michealgeorge57 20 дней назад
You might wanna try microdosing psilocybin mushrooms. I'll refer you to a reliable source. They've got lsd, dmt, mushrooms, ketamine, mdma, edibles and more. They deliver discreetly.
@michealgeorge57
@michealgeorge57 20 дней назад
They're on Instagram...
@michealgeorge57
@michealgeorge57 20 дней назад
@jostrippy
@lindamullin8309
@lindamullin8309 Месяц назад
The scared part is talking
@gregrhodes9139
@gregrhodes9139 Месяц назад
Yes, but it's very unoptimistic to think you can't heal. You may need be extremly resoursful but it can happen. For me its been homeopathy.
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 25 дней назад
Homeopathy for what?
@Raumance
@Raumance 21 день назад
Homeopathy is mummo jumbo and even if it wasn't it doesn't in any way help deal with childhood trauma.
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 21 день назад
Placebo effect...
@robertgirard4862
@robertgirard4862 Месяц назад
Just Brilliant ! ...
@Amarideout
@Amarideout Месяц назад
Brief but accurate I found. Thank you Dahlia and Dr. Mate
@afrinakhanam4696
@afrinakhanam4696 Месяц назад
What I love about Dr. Gabor is, he can totally shut someone up with his calm voice and a gentle but trick question. This man is brilliant.
@mounirmounir5469
@mounirmounir5469 Месяц назад
Bulls*** advice! No i don't want to do anything i am tired, i am done! But thank you for the disappointment it is the only thing i get.
@michealgeorge57
@michealgeorge57 20 дней назад
You should try microdosing psilocybin mushrooms or mdma. These stuffs helped me when I was at a point where I had given up on all hope. I'll refer you to a reliable source. They've got lsd, dmt, mushrooms, ketamine, mdma, edibles and more. They deliver discreetly.
@michealgeorge57
@michealgeorge57 20 дней назад
They're on Instagram...
@michealgeorge57
@michealgeorge57 20 дней назад
@jostrippy
@Gaeliclass
@Gaeliclass Месяц назад
Dr Maté is a super empath.
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 21 день назад
Just for appearances...
@Gaeliclass
@Gaeliclass 21 день назад
@@robynhope219 No, his life work is not about appearances.
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 21 день назад
@@Gaeliclass I will not argue...I know what ik!!
@Gaeliclass
@Gaeliclass 21 день назад
@@robynhope219 You started the argument 🙄 not I.
@Carvedessence36911
@Carvedessence36911 Месяц назад
What a guy! This is what I call a qualified experienced guy! It does NOT matter how one labels, anything; anything that happens to a person leaves a mark. Marks cause residue, sometimes small sometimes large and sometimes in between! He takes, sometimes, very complicated issues and refines and simplifies them for us to understand. To me he is quite simply brilliant.
@Domiminx
@Domiminx Месяц назад
The only problem with all those things (done by themselves, as described in her scenario, where the person has no access to any other resources) is that they have to be done consistently for them to work, and if a person is depressed and alone, with no one to give that push when needed, you simply don't care...