Thank you Michelle! As always each video offers excellent guidance, support and specific key highlights to allow each Nanny to find their dream job!

kids have many needs, all the time

Thank you somuch this was very helpful.

Hi I'm Abegail from Johannesburg. I'm a nanny. Forgive me for being out of topic . Do you place nannies in South Africa.

Thank you somuch for sharing this it's really helpful ❤

Is there a video on: Things that were on the contract BUT you realized you are getting underpaid for the tasks you agreed on?

I think it would be super hard to have someone possibly watching your every move. Where does trust come into a relationship? I could understand maybe a camera outside the entrance for security purposes but around the house would be awful. I always act very professionally and pride myself in taking very good care of the children and doing my job well but being watched is creepy. One day I needed to change to take the little one swimming and I was in the child's room. I realized the baby monitor could be on so I threw a cloth over it while I changed. I think it would just be wrong not to know about a webcam. I would quit. Just a completely weird feeling to know you could be watched. The families I have been with have thankfully become like family and I appreciate the trust extended to me and do not take it lightly.

Oooof, man... my friend who is a nanny to high net worth individuals has the worst horror stories of being exploited.

Every nanny employer should know this and practice these basic employment rules. Especially when the position calls for longevity on the job.

If asked why I left my last job should I be open and explain that the family had an unfinished bathroom and I ran into a pipe and fractured my foot? My mom said don’t say that because it might look bad.

What is your location?

I have worked as a teacher and also as a Nanny. As an authoritative nanny, children behave better with us because they trust us with who the are more. Children behave according to who is around them so there is no "better" or "worse" behabiour when it comes to children. They mirror the behaviours and tollerance of the adults that are around them, and act accordingly. Is part if their instincts. Respecting boundaries is a big part of rising children and in my 10 years working with families I have observed that parents either dont know how to enforce respect and boundaries, or have not ben taught how to do it within themselves in the mayority of times. True they like to say "my child is well behaved" when they in fact are performimg so that mommy or daddy dont get mad. But deep down they know that the nanny is the one doing most the emotional investment, boundary setting and structure creation in the child's life. It is a complex relationship because nannies are not supposed to have this role in children's lives, they are there to reimforce the parents parenting styles. Parents should be able to spend time setting boundaries no matter the time of day and I truly find unacceptable when parents say they don't have time to enforce boundaries or to read to them, spen quality time after work and create a nurturing environment where they can be themselves. I have helped many parents achieve this with authoritative parenting skills building. It is possible to create a balanced relationship with children when parents are aware of how their behaviour influences their children's. Thanks for the thought provoking video 😊

I just started a new nanny job how can l get baby used to me she's 12months old but she has been crying the whole morning mom works from home and she's clingingy to her

I'm really liking your channel. Great tips!I find that using a soft makeup brush to apply sunscreen feels really nice. Even preteens and toddlers enjoy it because it makes them feel like they're putting on makeup, just like their moms.

Hi Michelle Kelsey, I am an experienced nanny already in Canada. Can you help finding a nanny job, preferably full-time with a nice family in Whitby, Ontario? I can send you my resume if you provide me with your email. Thanks and appreciate whatever help you can provide. Regards, Rey

Im working here in cheli ma'am

I want indoor nanny because its very easy to handle your work look after the kids while your working

Howto apply here ma'am im really interested to apply

The most important being nanny is you know how to taking care ,all the family inside the house ,cooking cleaning etc,but the most important is the safety of the kids

I have worked as a professional nanny for over twenty years, and I find your scientific approach to this matter to be the most compelling and logical explanation. Your insights, grounded in scientific principles, are highly appreciated. Additionally, gaining a parental perspective on the issue was enlightening. As nannies, it is essential for us to approach parents with understanding and grace. I believe that ensuring children are well-fed, bathed, and following a structured routine at the end of the day can benefit both parents and children. This approach can promote relaxation, allowing parents to engage in enjoyable activities such as cuddling and playing with their little ones.

i am a nanny for 30’yrs 0:38 yes the children do behave better with the nanny- it’s like an authority figure

I have work experienced for Childcare and spend thousand of dollars to apply and come to Canada as a Nanny job position to work hard. Then applying to employers hiring for a Nanny job position full time employment and some employers are FAULT FINDER !!!!!!

I was interviewed by this agency in just 5 to 10 minutes but unfortunately the interviewer REJECTED me right there and then when they learned that I am not working presently and not pretty so frankly speaking they preferred Nanny with beautiful face!!!

Looking for a regular nanny qualifications or looking for a perfect nanny like an EXECUTIVE ?

Tip from my own experience as a full time nanny : I am writing day to day diary, chores I did and activities I did with the children, it's so helpful if parents complain Example: bedding not change or kids should be taking turns to read their favorite story book, just flip the page. I know what are you thinking I am crazy but in a way this is my excuse to get the kids to play by them self for 1 hour so I can have my peaceful lunch break. Employer know about writing the diary, I guarantee you employer just read the diary instead of calling you on your days off or in the night. All my previous employers are impress even writing the time I arrive to work and time I leave I bought myself a Planner, Its a habit to me now.

Honestly this is my weakness (How to make nanny resume)

True- being prepared is the key and less nervous you are during interview

Awesome video as I have said before I was in childcare for 20 years. Several years ago, I went on an interview that the parents wanted me to come back on weekends and do yardwork without being paid. I didn’t even accept that job.

It’s surprising to me that asking my nanny to walk my dogs is a don’t. I’m expecting my first little one and am looking into the different childcare options. I’m definitely leaning towards hiring a nanny, but it’s more intuitive to me that I would ask a nanny (during the interview) if she could walk my dogs during the day than asking her to throw birthday parties. While I think it’s should be discussed at the beginning that dog walking is a need that my family has, and I would only hire a nanny that’s comfortable with that, it’s ludicrous to me that it’s possibly a don’t to ask my nanny to walk the dogs. That would mean hiring a dog walker as well when there’s someone available to do it. I guess that’s why contracts and being upfront about what your needs are is important.

When I was a nanny and I did childcare for 20 years. When I worked in a private home, I would keep a log of the babies activities during the day how much they ate when they slept the diaper situation and activities we did throughout the day. I also had the parents fill out information about how the child tonight was how they slept and the last time they ate. That worked out great. Since I had a log of the feedings, I was never in a situation where I couldn’t remember the last time the baby was fed

Trail days are great, but a probationary period in the contract is also a great ide for both parties.

Hello Michelle, your recommendations are relevant. Grateful to you for all these vital tips. I find them truly valuable for my next interview. Thank you.

A to Z contract

Question ?do you know about NDA nondisclosure agreement ?Do we need to sign that?is there any serious matter of signing?Thank you so much for sharing all and it’s really helpful since I was watching a couple months ago .

Mam, how can I apply for a nanny job in Europe, I live in India.

When parents are around I literally can’t do anything with her, I can’t change her diaper or clothes or take her outside, the situation becomes bored and uncomfortable, they know that, and still mom sit down in the kitchen counter to work! I don’t know how to tell them anymore.

I think a lot of nannies here are bumped about changing prices because many believe their value lies on the employee, when in reality the value relies on the capabilities and the nanny herself. I charge $30/hour BMW or Nissan. My value doesn't change, it will be more next year tho.

I have been working as a nanny for 10 years, have had great parents and also really horrible ones. The one thing that seems to work across all families to keep the boundaries and respect is the respect and boundaries you create fpr yourself. When you give ypur job value, others will tell you how they feel about it, so it will be on us nannies, sadly, to choose to stay or not with employers who don't value our important job. Dont let anyone make you feel this job is not important, remember that most parents can't do whay we do ❤

I love this video, can I share it on my page?

My struggle in my nanny profession for 30 years is PARENTS set rules and they can't follow their own rules. (children and nannies) are confused to the house rules and at the end of the day the nanny is the one in trouble. Especially in dealing with teen agers,. It's not easy job if parents keep changing their house rules. Patience is the key, but it sucks!

Thank you for another amazing video . Do you think you could make a video on how a nanny can be successful during a trial ?

I just got let go from a very good nanny job. The father never communicated with me. And when I brought up a “uncomfortable situation” regarding the two kids. He didn’t even ask what it was about. He just complained to the mom that he was upset. Two days later I got an email saying I was terminated. They didn’t even offer a reason. I begged the mom to call me and she basically said that I should be handling all problems, even the problems the parents should be handling. On top of being a full time household manager and nanny. They wanted me to be the parents as well. It was too much. I gave them everything and was working 24/7 even when I was off the clock. A big red flag for parents is saying they will communicate with you and then they don’t and fire you.

So I am doing everything I could to follow the routine,but the kid I watch always says No to me . I do 50%housekeeping, 50% do the routine with the kid. Mom is always mostly home working downstairs. Whenever they bring the child down she goes No Nanny No nanny. I have been with them for a year now, the toddler is 2 and we still don’t have a good bonding as I am there in the house but with the mom. So it frustrates me, should I quit as I can clearly see she doesn’t like my presence at all. She won’t let me touch her when her mom is around but we are great when they are not around. She listens and follows on what I say is important. Every week is challenging for me, I keep up with the routine, I follow and do what was asked for by the mom of what she wants her to do, but then the rules are on me only.. I keep it going because I believe in consistency. I do 4 days a week. The kid wakes up at 8.30, takes a nap for 2 hours in the afternoon and stays up until 11.30pm sometimes more than that. I can see why she is always angry in the morning. Sleeping hours is less than her awake period for 2 years old. So up until Thursday I give my best working 8.30 to 3.0-4pm. After 3 days I have to redo everything again as she won’t listen and need to keep pursuing her to do the activities with me. Or do the bath or lunch or nap anything she resists. I figured the mom tells me one thing but she never follows for herself. I have a rules to follow to try to make and help the mom to carry on the routine but during the 3 days off what I do is not there it’s only them doing their own thing with no proper routine at all except to put her down for her nap. The bath time is different when I am not working. The activities are done differently which is not a problem to do during her play time . The kid is awake for 14-15 hours..and the mom complains about her child not sleeping throughout the night. I am already exhausted for them not working as a team. We did the potty training in April by now she should have nailed it but since they give her diaper mostly while taking her outside. She still has accidents. If I am the red flag because the kid sees the monster in me , should I quit? I don’t want to work at a place where I am not wanted by the kid.

I've been a Nanny for 34yrs and I've had several wonderful families that I worked for. There are also red flags for parents that I watch for. I unfortunately had a family that became distant and not communicating with me and I felt very negative energy in the household. I confronted them about it and said is my job in Jeopardy and they said no. I saw a New Nanny posting on the Nanny Agencies Website for my Nanny Position! I even let the Nanny Agency know what happened and seeked their advice. They lied to me also! I no longer am affiliated with that Nanny Agency. I was extremely hurt and angry that they lied to me. I eventually was let go. This is something that I do not stand for or tolerate. It is unfair to the Nanny. Open Communication and Honesty is my #1 Priority with a Family that I Nanny for because that is how the Relationship flourishes and stays successful!

It is frustrating, when my nanny family -the mom doesn’t work as a team. They are first time mom and dad but sometimes it just feels like she doesn’t trust me. She does her own research and gets her to her conclusions. Never puts my thoughts into action. I work 4 short hours a day with the family. I follow a routine but when I am not around for the days off, they have their own regular thing going on that days.. for instance the bath time would be different, morning brushing teeth is skipped, not reminding to go pee in the potty, constantly giving diapers to the kid while going out while she is being potty trained. So then when I am in I have to redo everything to make sure the toddler understands what we are doing today which is following a routine. It’s a struggle for me to get her back on her routine, by the time she understands I am off again and there goes the time with the family with no proper routine or not we have the same way of instructing the toddler . The toddler is thus mad all the time with me the nanny when parents are around as if I am in and taking her parents away from her. She is always sweet and does great when they are not around by listening and keeping herself focused on what’s happening next without resistance

What about Nannie’s trial being cancelled by the family. I planned for my trail availability but unfortunately got canceled and dint get my appointment back for which I have cancelled on. So I ended up making zero

Hi , I am looking to take the doula training certification. Can you advice which and where to get it done please?

Your videos are great, They serve as a crucial resource for many young nannies who might unintentionally face exploitation due to the lack of coworkers to discuss what's normal, expectations, and workload. Such good guidance and advice in navigating these challenges effectively.

I want a job has a nanny

I am a nanny and have no issues being late. Parents are constantly disrespecting my time, and tether me around like a ball. So if I’m 10 min late, y’all can deal with it, especially when I’m going above and beyond in all other aspects, far exceeding expectations . 🤷‍♀️