$65K Gone! How Did a Romance Scam Fool Her? 

This channel is so bad. so. so. bad.

ohh, is this woman not watching RU-vid? The picture is a gym RU-vidr....

This isn’t about the scams you investigate. Yesterday I came across your channel for the first time ever and I am already obsessed with your channel! Between yesterday and today I think I’ve already watched at least six podcasts about people being scammed. This is so different from the crime podcasts I’ve been watching for the last couple years and I am really interested. I just watched your podcast with Robert. I feel so bad for these people and I just can’t understand how they can’t figure out from the get-go that they are being scammed. These much older men and these beautiful young girls? What are these guys thinking? How could they can’t possibly believe a beautiful young woman would want an old geezer like most of them are? Same with the older women and the much younger, handsome men. I am 84 and a widow of three years. I can spot a scammer a mile away. Your podcast with Robert was so very well done and you two guys that interacted with him were so nice and kind to him, and gave him good advice. Anyway, I really like your channel and I am looking forward to watching all of your podcast. Thank you, and keep up the good work. Alexandra.

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😂😂😂😂😂😂

drive nails into my ears...

Made me want to throw up last Fridays lunch

It made my skin crawl 😭😭

Oh my God I almost hurled "Ooh my gah I want to F*** a-yew" So gross

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you are soooo funny

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Yet your nick Lol

Your comment really made me chuckle. 😀😀

Hilarious! I had to keep listening it over and over. Flipping hilarious. And so true. Take my money!

Look for people on your level. ​@@grenade8572

The delusion is strong

Agree!

Becoz of race superiority . A white woman would think a white young guy wouldn’t give a whit but this Asian guy would treat him like a goddess

When she looks in the mirror, it's 1970 ...

Because people pretend to be shocked out of politeness. 😂

😳

Yes and I can't stand when ppl do that!!!

I know so saf

I always take it with a grain of salt whenever someone claims that she "doesn't look her age." Sometimes I think that I don't look my age, but then I walk by a mirror and "WHAM", reality always punches me in the face. LOL.

Of course ;)

Probably!!!

But get grandson doesn't call her queen, have a six pack or give her amazing financial advice. Lmfao.

Maybe the grandson is done with university and had parents who could financially support :D

grandson should not even visit her.

Bingo! That is happening with 2 my aunts now. They have each given $100k plus. They both don’t like to talk about it. They both get defensive.

​@@tigrressa girl WHAT?! how long has that been going on?

Exactly right!

Omg soo right!!

@@tigrressa They gave 100k$ to who?

turned my stomach

Im trying to figure out why these woman never hear that accent that is clearly African 😂😂😂😂

I think we were *all* traumatized 😂

Agree

The thing is, if the person is universally attractive with an obviously full life including social media presence, then doesn't it stand to reason that he/she CAN meet, greet and commit in real life? And would they realistically be looking for an older woman that is in grandma stages of life? A woman has to be twice as hot at an older age to attract younger men!!!

I feel sad that those older women must be so lonely that they lose Commen sense

Me too. These women are sadly paying to be flattered by a young handsome man.

It's absolutely repulsive. The age difference. I'm 40, so it's as if I was attracted to a fetus...I'm kidding, but seriously, that's the kind of age difference we're talking about, she looks 70 and he's about 25.

You said it sister!!

muhmuhMWAH... uuuhhhnn aaahh

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!😂

0:38, 6:50, 16:00 If you want to skip it beforehand

The sloppy sounds are beyond revolting.

😂

Agree!!!

I'd laugh if a model like person would ask me out. They'd have to pursue me because I wouldn't believe it.

Delusions can make you believe alot of things.

Nothing like a good old fashioned victim blame! So refreshing…..

And a RICH man at that!

Spock was correct😂

Love has no age...

@@rodrigobonzanini8235 yeah i don't think it applies to such extreme cases

​@@rodrigobonzanini8235 Well age of consent...

I caught that too, I was like wait did she actually just say 5 foot 12?

Lawd 😂😂😂

This is what I came here for. I can't be the only one who heard that! 😂

Glad I found you people - what in the

Omg, doesn't she know how to measure a foot?!😂

Lol i was literally thinking the same thing .. Im young and even I would be skeptical on a guy like this talking to me

You'll be surprised how many young men actually love and marry women that are much older and may not look as good as they use to, beauty is in the eye of the beholder 😊❤

@@aprilshorty4094 No they don't. Marry maybe, love not. It is plain disgusting.

@April It looks as though you are in that same state of delusion as this lady in the video. I'm 54, and I wouldn't want a young man like this to be interested in me 🤮, it's disgusting. I have a daughter in her 30s and 19 year old son. If a young man ever goes with an older woman it is probably just out of curiosity or experimenting. In the end, they want someone young like themselves.

​@@user-vz3fh6oj7d I am 57 and couldn't agree more.

She look more older than 64, anyway 😂

Oh my gosh that's exactly right! Well said

Hahah everyone woman on this channel says the same thing even if they look a decade older than they are

The only woman I know who seriously doesn’t look her age is my mother-in-law. She’s almost 90 and looks about 75. She has a very youthful look. She’s gorgeous!!

EXACTLY!!!

She was trying to brag saying she wasn't devastated by her loss

She's gotta tell herself that

That's why I date older besides the fact that I like older men. I'm 53. My boyfriend is 71. I love him more than I can say. He's real though! Haha.

Missed her age, but i feel she looks older not younger lol

Yeah! Why would I not want to look my age? There's nothing wrong with my age. I don't care to look younger - that's overrated

True, I’ve seen real shock when they see me with my daughter who is 23…. But still they aren’t thinking I’m 23. Lol. I’m 45 so they were thinking maybe 35-38. 😂

When he said what he wanted to do to her...which was beeped out...I cringed.

So she was aware that scammers use the word Queen, but fell for princess?? And she loved that voicemail he sent? Cringe!

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Stoppp nooo 💀

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OH OK!❤ 😂😂

I mean it's okay to give a compliment to a person that's a lot older but you know it's there's a limit between reality and just bulshit yes ma'am because you do look like you're in your 60s I wish people would stop lying to people it's like literally this woman looks old enough to be this guy's grandmother I mean come on lady at 20 something year old fitness model is into you come on let's be real here not saying that it's never happened before but it's a million to one

Good morning my queen 👸. You are betty bewtifull.

@@juggalogamer8541to be polite I take off 5 years from the age I think they are.

she looks about 70 to me

SERIOUSLY!! I'm thinking there is a shortage of mirrors in this country!! I'm 71, and people tell me I look great and I say 'thank you' ....because I know they mean, "wow not bad for an old lady!!' Let's get real!

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That was worth every penny of tgat $65k to her!😫

@@Junevalentino29you forgot to add “queen” to the end of your statement 😂😂😂

I think that was a red flag that she CHOSE not to see....

And a man who calls you queen isn’t necessarily a scammer either. My boyfriend calls me his queen all the time. I think it’s cultural.

If her reasoning made any sense at all, she would have known at the first queen that he was a scammer.

@@marcilk7534 But that’s different that’s your boyfriend, you know him, this lady doesn’t even know who she’s talking to, obviously a scammer.

I disagree. Try loss, loneliness, longing. More likely.

It's got me nauseous 😂

Yeah I don't wanna hear what he wants to *bleep* do to her .

Yeah, from their damn selves

I've had obscene phone calls that didn't gross me out this much!🤣

@thissunchild, I know, I almost threw up when I heard his voice mail.

yes , I lost my breakfast , there must be something seriously wrong with this woman's hearing

Yep...projectile vomiting 🤢

I pissed myself laughing.. Litterely.. It seems my pelvic floor isn't as good as it used to be. 😂😂

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Spat out my coffee laughing, ur spot on tho, it's creepy beyond words! Got PTSD now!!

I wanna sue them for showing it to us more than once 😭

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She paid $65k for texts & creepy voicemails.

@@RndmMcRndmnss Shame too, because there's probably some creepy weird guy at her work who would do that for free. We had one of those before the pandemic, he'd claim he was allergic to soap whenever someone pointed out his pervasive BO and would go out of his way to tell every female coworker that they, "LoOkEd sO nICe ToDAy."

With 0.00% rate of return!

She got in on the ground floor.

You'd just be catching up to the view the rest of the world has.

​@@obanjespirit2895 True👏💯👌

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People are lonely.

@@robinferrin7505 There's lonely and then there's believing an insta-model you've never met or facetimed wants to be with you over a text. She definitely needs a chaperone when she goes 'travelling the world'.

Eeeeewwwww

Right! How can she think this guy would be into her

Exactly! in a way it makes me feel they deserve to be scammed because of how ridiculous and stupid they all are.

She is desperate for attention and very lonely. Became delusional.

She wanted some Yung Hung Dong but got BBC instead 😂

@@kcnicky2242 okay but yk what they mean .

*slurping kissing sounds*

I am always amazed at how catty Some women are

We men are very horny as they mature. She was just masturbating too much. This is the same as a guy paying a lot for a cam girl

​@@leftifornian2066😂😂😂😂😂

I am sure she is still fantasizing about him.

I thought this too. After her comment that he was close 6’, maybe like 5’12”. I thought, I hope she is not in charge of patient meds!

I don’t think she’s a registered nurse. I say I’m a registered nurse when I’m asked.

Nursing school requires critical thinking skills and pattern recognition. Maybe she's an HHA

As a fellow RN, I concur.

​@terryKessler42719 me too...big difference.

That voicemail gave me morning sickness and I'm a man.

A sugar baby would but nothing else

​@@UndeadSlayer5 she paid but never got any sugar

Okay yes this is super ridiculous and cringy and just overall AWFUL, but is the body shamming really necessary?? It’s 2023. Like stop with that already.

Her Neck gives away her Age.. He's a Model Woman!!!

Yes! PLENTY of people here felt the cringe! Read the messages that have been posted and are still coming in practically blowing up all over this site! You're not alone!🤮

Literally paused it there to look for this comment. Yuck.

I wanted to throw up. Sounded so fake and ridiculous

I definitely threw up in my mouth a little when he made those grotesque “kissing” sounds

Omg yes I about threw up... eww

Ain’t nothing common about sense (think that’s a Mark Twain quote?).

​@@lilys7431😂

Another broad never worked a day in her life pissing away all the money her late husband saved for her future

Omgoodness 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢I can't unhear that message😂😂

Why not? You only live once. YEAH. GET SOME, GRANDMA.

A 5 foot 12 trophy

People who say that usually don't. They look older. I don't try to look younger than I am (I'm 54 by the way) instead I try to look a youthful and a healthy 54!

​@@susanlett9632you look older than 54

No she don't stop being cruel....what do you look like hiding behind a NOT your picture.

@@susanlett9632I agree. I’m 52 and fine with it. Just want to look put together and fit.

I’m 84 and I don’t look my age. I’m serious !!!

62 or 63 would of been my guess

I would guess she's in her 70s. There's no way she's in her 60s unless she smoked or used sunbeds or worked outside.

She probably used an old photo , but still looked older

Omg!! For one thing it doesn't remotely sound like an Asian male, sounds Nigerian, the kissing makes me want to tape my lips shut, and I would have been laughing my head off

@@huggablecat9456 I say 75.

How can you be a Disney freak past 12 😭

@@jenna7844 You said it. Emotionally she's nowhere near twelve.

I have to agree, the belief of a fairytale ending = east target

​@@jenna7844 There's nothing wrong with loving disney at any age the point is having common sense.

Your screen name though 😂

Yes it's like they think there dreams are coming true or something IDK it's wacjy

The second clue is that they always call you "babe" or "baby".

@@ForceFreeTrainergirl06 🤣🤣 hahaha

That's exactly what I was thinking. You can pull these models in real life....why do you think you can pull them online 😏 🤔

@@mrssclarkie5474 👍🏻

I was thinking that too!

She's so naive ☺️

I think adults obsessed with Disney are nutty

She was also on Christian Mingle, which is just another fantasy world.

Too funny!

Hahahahaha.. l thought 17 and she is what…. 65 ?

Yup. Especially since regular folks cant get dates n relationships due to most suitable would be partners are occupied with sending their retirement funds to nigerian men posing as 10p hot stuff.🙄

Exactly I question in my head all the time! Very rare my guard is down.

She is desperately lonely and grieving. That robs people of all sense.

well many people are racist against asians

Right! The scammer could easily have turned down the fake, perfect body photos, and aged his hair or skin a tiny bit via photo editing to look more believable but didn’t even have to!

@@thisperson5294 Sadly I think this is true in a lot of these cases. It's like they will fall for anything that mimics kindness, attention, or love.

20? Try 40-50 years younger. And you're focusing too much on looks

No they aren’t focusing to much on looks. No one good looking is going to be interested in her. It’s that simple. When your a 3 you go after a 3. You stay in your league. That’s life

@@DebbiePotter-xh7kv . Absolutely. And for the record, what’s wrong with dating average or in your league? The majority of us are average. I’m probably much older than you but in my youth I was cute at best. I’ve had two incredible marriages (first one passed) and have been loved... I wouldn’t trade my life for money. Please take care

Omg.. the guy is obviously very very very attractive, I think Angelina jolie would doubt his intentions. COME ON PPL

@@grudge0132 . Absolutely! Do better people... lol

You're right. They voluntarily gave money. That is why law enforcement can't arrest them.

You mean looney tunes. Not really dated. There are comps for kids on youtube.

*Pépe LePew

Lol with the slurp sounds.

They were & the voice did not even match up with the picture. My mom us 85. She said if someone did that to her. She get rid of them. She called it totally disgusting & disrespectful.

Not to her 😏

😂😂😂😂😂😂

I wanted to vomit!!

Disgusting in my opinion. Barf! I'd tell him keep the damned money just don't ever call me again.

Mmmmwahhh! 💋 😂😂😂

A computer programmed voice- its a software

​@@susanlett9632 😂

​@@grenade8572maybe she tryna speedrun the 2nd r/s cuz not much time left 😂

She looks really young tho🙃

Frankly, her dead husband even looked out of her league. Likely stayed w/ her only out of loyalty.

She even said that she didn't want to be called Queen, as its associated to scammers! Hello? If you know romance scammers are a thing then WHY are you not instantly suspicious and instantly cutting ties when he starts suggesting that you invest?

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Geez, all you had to do was see the intro to know how this was going to go. Studly young man falls madly in love with a 70 year old woman - yeah, right. I'm sorry but it's hard to feel any sympathy for anyone as delusional as the senior citizens (both men and women) who are far past their prime yet believe that some hot, young person is in love with THEM because they can't find a partner in their real life. PUH-leeze!

I know someone who is now 29, he is pretty hot 6'1, cowboy model type, gorgeous blue eyes, amazing body, gentleman, a bit of an alcoholic but that's it, and he was in a relationship with a 56 yo fat and saggy, they ended things bc she thought it was the best BC he deserved a family, previous to that he used to bang a 57 yo neighbor

It's no wonder people her age feel the need to believe scammers online when there are people like you walking around shaming them.

"When you're wearing rose-tinted glasses, all the red flags just look like flags"

​@@bln8285 Brilliantly put!

​@@bln8285 so true :/

@@warriorqueen8235 it's from the show Bojack Horseman! so many good lines to make you think.

@@bln8285 Isn't that the show that had that beautifully poignant poem, "The View from Halfway Down?" I've never seen the show but I saw the poem online and was so impressed with it. So tragically beautiful. I hope it helped someone somewhere reconsider their decision to end their own life

Agree! These people are all old enough to realize that beautiful young people, do not seek out wrinkled retirees for romance. If they do, it's all about the $$$. I have very little pity for these folks. As the saying goes, A fool and his money are soon parted.

as a 1999 baby, the “same century” rule might not apply 🧐🧐 but i definitely agree about the big age gaps

@@Cindy-cj8bw Yes, It's simply unbelievable that she. and others like her think these young good-looking guy's would actually want to be with them. I say, dream on. PLEASE!!!!

Tell that to 40+ year old men!

I cannot tell you how many 70+ year old socially inept old men come to southeast Asia to find a wife under 25 on purpose. Of course full of complaints of the "perils" of being with western women. As if they have been with them all. 🤣

Poor grandma 🙁

Hes beautiful for sure

Why would she even be attracted to someone that young?

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I'm a grandma and this grandma lost her damned mind!

Lol, me too!

subtle ableism but I’m sure you don’t have to worry about that ever happening

@@mewmewsalem yeah I think I'm safe 🤣

⁠@@mewmewsalemthere is nothing wrong with not wanting to be in a relationship with a person with a mental illness, speaking as someone who has multiple mental health diagnoses myself. It’s good to know your boundaries and what you can/can’t handle in a relationship.

@@Katie-mw7pd nobody said anything about not wanting to be a in a relationship with a mentally ill person but if you’re unable to see how that was subtle ableism then yes i can definitely see your elevator doesn’t go all the way up

Exactly. She looks about 70, so why does she think a beautiful hunky model would want her?!

She looked a lot older than that!

Yes, Mike...I'm over 70 myself and I would guess she is at least 65 or more. You don't get those "puppet lines" around the mouth going down toward the chin until then. And that's when you start to get the double-chin situation, too. Lolol, I know that because I have them myself and that's when most all women get them!

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Filters fooling the very folks using them 🤦‍♀️ she couldn’t do that on ft though 😬

And not via voicemail 😂😂😂

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😂😂😂 Same

I'd block him. Tell him knock that 💩 off!

​@@susanlett9632 😂😂😂

Crazy

You can choose to dream

SO SO many parts made me yell out loud.

She sorted it by asking him to not call her queen anymore 😂😂

"He treated me so nice, always concerned about me" and all the guy does is ask her How's your day. What more do you need to know to understand no matter what he says she's gonna invent her own movie romance story.

She IS old enough to be his grandmother!

I also found that to be hilarious lol

I'd want to puke at the word babe even if someone from England, America, or anywhere called me that. I hated hearing that from decades ago (to others).

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Princess is a red flag too

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Replace “you” with “your money”

Disgusting. Horrible to hear this.

Same 😂😂

I would have laughed, too, but I felt WAY TOO NAUSEATED BY HIS RIDICULOUS TALK!!

6:50 eeeeeew 🤮 hahahaha hahahaha 🤣

Fetish

I got to the "I want to (bleep)" bit and I started laughing so hard I couldn't hear the rest of it. ...both times (I'm halfway through the video)

😂😂😂

Amber hurt him bad. No more model types for him 😂

Best comment ever. Made me laugh so hard.

that's next week

lol comment gold

:)

He could literally be her grandson!

Exactly, me too!!

Haha 😂 muah muah muah!

“Mmmmm”

Revolting.

Horrifying

i screamed

as an asian the american name + asian pfp combo isnt really much of a red flag, a lot of asian ppl have western names combined with that accent however………..

Maybe 4 or 5 years younger. I've seen people like that. But in an infinite number of universe's she doesn't look 45 in any of them!

She looks more like early-mid 70's.

I'm 53 and not bad looking. I'd be horrified if a kid like him hit on me

She's not unattractive at all but what do you have in common with some one your grandson's age. It's delusional, not open minded

Young and shiny. Lol

​@@sookie4195 😂

Without the money issue the age difference is a nightmare. I already raised my kids

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😂😂 seriously…poor lady.

Perhaps she was using an old photo !

@@gillmiller3702 Perhaps 🤷🏽‍♀️

These people need to get rid of their computers. Period. They can do everything on a good smartphone. And stay put of a lot of trouble.

​​@@lizziesangi1602 I think a scam can be conducted via smartphone. But you're right, people who can't handle themselves should get off line.

Nailed it.

Exactly 😂