I'm gonna try to control my anger by keeping these words in mind "A brave person doesn't lose temper as he can control the things with competence." Thanks a lot Dr. Sb.
Prof I really got good knowledge from your video. I never knew about these impatient route cause. May Allah bless you! You are the 1st person who clearify my confusion.
Dr sb U r right we must review ourselves. Moreover aik momin dosray momin ka aina hota hai. Unfortunately this mirror is not working well. Jaza kallah khair for delivering valuabe talks.
Sir thanks a lot for your precious words I have skipped my one habit from myself which I was trying to skip for a long but I couldn't have done now understood precisely about consternation and braveness
السلام علیکم و رحمتہ اللہ و برکاتہ. قابل صد احترام ڈاکٹر صاحب. ایک دن اچانک آپ کی ایک ویڈیو دیکھی اور پھر آپ کا ھی ھوکر رہ گیا. یوں سمجھیں کہ میرے اندر ایک مثبت تحریک شروع کرنے میں آپ کا بہت بڑا کردار ھے. دعائیں. دوسری بات. بہاولپور میں میرے ایک عزیز ھیں ڈاکٹر ذوالفقار بوبک صاحب وہ بھی سرجن ھیں.. میرا تعلق گوجرانوالہ سے ھے. اور میں ریٹائرڈ انجینیر ھوں.. جب کبھی اللہ کو منظور ھوا تو بہاولپور آیا تو آپ سے ملاقات میری خوشنصیبی ھو گی.. انشاءاللہ
Bilkul ingnr sahib bilkul aisay e mera aik beta 1year &7 month ka hsy aur aik beta 7 month ka hay to main b dr sahib k hr lactur ko sonti hn aur follow krnay ki koshash krti hn
AOA respectedsir ap ne bohat hi acha banyan Kia pls main se Baat krna chats hun main apni life ka fesla krna hen that long story hen I wanna discause u pls
Assalam o Alaikum sir, A colossal thanks for your kind efforts to improve society. I admire you a lot and you are a father-figure for me. Sir, I am a student of history and I want to share something. Actually, I am a bit confused and if possible please solve the chaos in my mind. I would be really thankful for this. almost every character I read in history has some divergence in attitude as compared to his parents. Because as it is the human nature that they want to improve upon things. When the father comes home and shouts over wife or children, the child will definitely get aversion for his dad as at the same time he observes other people around him too. Since man is a social animal, his father is not the only behavioural model before him. And he not only observes his father but his mother and other family members too. I think genes control over physical appearance much more as compared to our attitude. A healthy environment can inculcate high ideals and positive behaviour even among children facing such irresponsible and unacceptable behaviour as well. I feel children are not a replica of their parents because they are subjected to different circumstances as change is the law of nature. I request you to elaborate that If the parents of a child act in an irresponsible manner Then What is the best possible way for the self-tarbiyah of the child? And do you really think a child masters the habits and attitudes of his parents as a child below 5- year of age has no control over his environment and cannot differentiate between right and wrong. I am not familiar with such examples. Everyone's comments are wholeheartedly invited. Please do respond
Sir ma bhut pershan ho Mere shdi hoe AUR aftr 4mnth divorce ho ge without solid rsn. One year ho gya hen ma ais baht ko mind se ni nikl pah rhe plz ais bre me Mere help kre k kase ais chez ko mind se niklo
Khud ko control kaise kare sir sab jante hai kya sahi hai kya galat mgr khud pe control nh horha esa lagta hai bs humra dimag humse khel raha hai jo chahte hai wo to gota hi nahi sara din bs ghaflat me guzar jata hai....!
My son is 26 yrs. He humiliates me on petty things...does not respect even infront of servants...as being a mother pls guide me wat to do. Extremly depressed
There is a way and it is called talking with love and logic. No matter how he speaks, you should become soft spoken with everyone, even with servants. People are not ignorant. I’m sure there is a reason why he is so rude. Also depends on how he was raised. Did he see his father disrespecting you? Did he grow up looking at parents always arguing and fighting? Become humble and loving, don’t give lectures and advice. You will see the change in attitude. While doing that try to figure out the reasons for his anger and disappointments. His attitude is a reaction to something that is bothering him. Try doing 5 times namaz, sadqa, khirat and duaa. Insha’Allah things will get better.
