Anoma's Kitchen godak lassanai amma oyage kathawa,mama, husband handsfree dala ahuwa,attatama e hama minutes ekakama loku knowledge ekak apita therum karala dunna, amma kenek ,wife kenek,sister kenek me hamadema aran oya api wage lamai ta karana me dewal walata oyata thanks karanna wachna ne,hamadama nirogeewa,sathutin inna oni kiyana ekai mage adaraneeya wish eka, mage th husband marry karala life start karanakota eyata ,eyage gedarin kisima deyak karanna danumak tibune ne,eth man e dewal eyata hari adaren tika tika kiyala dunna,eya e dewal ekka wenas una, ex: cooking, home cleaning,market yanna,healthy widiyata easy kama ekak hadanna,me wage hamadeyakma, eyath e dewal tika tika karanna aran,den hamadema lassanata karanava,man faculty inna welave ,eya gedara nam eyage kama eka hadaganna,man gedara enakota dinner ekata hadana de ready karanna,cleaning me hamadema lassanata karala tiyanava, mamath eya gedara netttm hamadema ready karala,eya gedara enakota kanna,extra dewal hadala,eya ekka time spend karanna time manage karagannava, eya work karanne central bank,man faculty nisa working time,lectures time eke loku different ekak ne. eth samahara dawasata time madi kiyala hithunoth man payak dekak kalin aharinava,eta passe mata dawase paya gana wedi wenava,weda karaganna time ati, me dewal ekkama puluwan hama welavema meditation,yoga exercise th karanava, attatama mage punchi family eke den ewa husband ge weda,ewa wife ge weda kiyala deyak ne,gedara tiyena hama wedakma api denna dannava,api denna hari kamatten karanava, den eya asaneepa unath,man asaneepa unath apita puluwan dennata denna help karaganna,gedara kama hadala kanna,me jiwithe hari lassanai,eka amma oya kiyanava wage widinnama oni,eka widapu kenek ta hamadama mathak wei. "mage niwana mage palpathai" song eka mama shanulii
I always tell my 10 year old son not to depend on another person for his food. I teach him simple cooking and get him to carry out simple chores. Basic life skills like cooking, looking after a house and looking after kids shouldn't be criteria for a man to choose his partner. Men and women both should be brought up learning these basic life skills and look only for a harmonious partnership in a man or a woman. Thank you for highlighting this important aspect 💗 ඉවුම්පිහුම්, ගේදොර වැඩ, දරුවන්ගේ වැඩ වගේ මූලික ජීවන කුසලතා ගැහැනු පිරිමි දෙගොල්ලම විවාහයට කලින් ඇතිකරගත යුතුයි. මේ වැදගත් මාතෘකාව ගැන කතාබහක් ඇතිකරාට ඔබතුමියට ස්තූතියි 💗
Wow.. great speech I also working woman.. but I never miss management duty for my Husband .. He also appreciates me and help me very often .. Acutely we ara living very happyly ❤️❤️thank you aunt for everything 😘
Thank you so much for your very useful and timely explanations. I cannot thank you enough for your valuable views and words. Wish you happiness and love. Please explain other things also that we, as wives, should do and also our responsibilities.
Thank you it’s a very valuable advice for mothers and children who are already married and about to get married. It’s very sad nowadays they are in a hurry to get married and in a hurry to divorce . Marriage bound is sacred and a blessing.When two individuals from different family backgrounds upbringing and values come together to make a family and home together we as elders should support and encourage them to adjust to their new life together .
Thank you aunty. Showed this to my husband too and Im happy he paid attention to this video cz of your calm voice got a good response. I'll inbox you on Facebook. May all gods bless you aunty..!
Both my son and daughter live abroad. They are both very independent I never spoilt them and taught them the hard way. I believe if they have to face a problems then they will handle them with less pressure.
I am living in Germany , I enjoy cooking with your support. We are both working, becoz Germany is very expensive. We are sharing cooking.but when we have disagreements, talk immediately and fix it. My wife also not easy, me too😅
You raised some valid points. Time has changed from back in the days with both on equal footing. Can I add one more ! Try to live a simple life, do not complicate the life style. Everyone got dreams but to achieve these should be slow, steady moving towards goal, do not rush and do not join the rat race. Then the couple will have plenty of time in hand to have a balanced lifestyle. Consider taking this advice from someone got plenty of grey hair!!
Very good explanation aunty. Nowadays most people are thinking of a grand wedding ceremony. But I have lot of experiences heard from my friends & relatives regarding their marriage life gone wrong hopelessly. It is not as easy as we think. I think love is always connected with dedication and unselfishness. And also mutual understanding to tolerate partner’s opinions. Im still learning how it would be. Im 26 years old and working.
Thank you for your valuable advice and tasty recipes Mama den inne Australia wala. Mage husband very supportive. Eth lankawe iddi udau karana welawata prashna parentslagen. Den kale godak boys la (Mama danna hemogema) kemathi wife ta help karanna eth parents la thamai e gollanta prashna ethi karala thiyenne. Parents lage mindset eka change karanna puluwan nam me prashna godak adu wei kiyala mata hithenne. ❤️
This is really a worthy program... I also graduated and worked too. Bt before the marriage i too quit the job with my consent for the success of my marriage life as my job was very responsible and stressful .. Now im a mom with two littl kids of 3 and 1...now im experiencing a great success as im doing all by myself for the success of my family. I would regret missing their each and every cute moments if i went for a job as we won't get this age again... Bt my husband has never ever told me not to work. This is all my wish... Our educational level, knowledge level will greatly help the success of our kids in every way.. So its an investment as i see.. Money is not everything, there is much we can gain specially for our kids on our sacrifice.. But every mom cannot do so due to this economic situation.. So there are pros and cons. Finally the success of the family depends on the level of commitment of both mom and dad...and its an example for kids too.. Dear anoma aunty, pls continue this for the 2nd episode...!
I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend is 20+ too. He is a medical student, he'll be a doctor in another 4 to 5 years. So... in the begining of our relationship as I understood he wanted me to be at home and take care of him. Basically because he prefers to be pampered as a baby and he loves if I cook something special for him tastily and wait at the door for him smiling 😅 so and so because mainly being a doctor is so hard. So may be he wanted to have peace at home having a sweet time with me. Because if I became busy then it'll be really hard for both of us. And Guess what I love that😅. Specially I loooove to have a beautiful family, having beautiful babies and all ,plus I really adore having good connections with my husband and kids. So in short I love to be that typical loving wife, mother to home. I TRUELY LOVE THAT. Anyway I do studies too ( now I'm waiting for my results) and was very studious and me I'm a person who doesn't like to be too much dependent even on my husband or family. So I prefer to work as well. ( Anyway may be after having kids I'd quit the job if I do one by that time) Whatever it is now due to the current conditions in the country we both think that it is a kind of must to have a job if we need a very stable comfortable life. Soo... I think now he prefers me to do a job as well. ( And now he wants to be a doctor too😅😐 - that's a big deal anyway😁). And I wanna add auntie. Although I m 20 still I love all of those advices you gave us and I took them personally as if you are my mother🤗. I watched all the 3 videos- 2 for the daughters and this one. As you said Old is Gold and that is the exact life I want to spend with my future husband as you've said - being that loving wife doing all of my husband's chores by my own hands. Actually that's something I have been dreaming since small and I know I woyld love that than nothing. No matter how busy I would be, I know that I'd always prefer to cook for my husband by my own hands. Specially because my bf is such a sweet boy😁 and he truly deserves it and I'm a sucker for his sweet compliments and admirations he offers me whenever I do something for him😉🤗. And most importantly that's my love language - the act of service and giving gifts🤗. I love you auntie . Thank you so much😊
Aunty change my life!! Love you aunty💗😘😘 api dennama marry karala pita rata jeewath wenne. Dennama job karanawa. Husband gedara inna welawata puluwan hama widihatama mata help karanawa. Eka loku nidahasak. Watinakamak ehema help karan inna 1
My parents didn't have gender based chores for us when we were brought up...so I am able to do anything and I'm also a 100% hands on dad... Thanks to my dad who set the example
Aunty, mata 37..Mama 32 do marry kala.. Api marry karala 1year rent home ekaka hitiya.. Aththatama eka ehema wenna ona.. Eka mage mathaya.. Ehema hitiye api dennatama inna demaupiyoth ekka inna gewal thiyena welawaka.. Habai api dennama ewa plan kala.. Marrigge ekata kalinnma.. Wife government school teacher kenek.. Mama private sector eke.. Ithin ekath hodai.. Mokada dennagema job experience wenas.. Ithin apata duwek innawa. Eyata dan 3years. Mama donita masa 9 Di pita rata job ekakata awa.. Dan 3rd year eka complete.. Hama year ekema December wala lankawata yanawa.. Mama nam harima asai wifege wada walata help karanna.. Mata maha gedara thibunath api denna apata a aluth gedarak haduwa.. Habai mage amma.. Appachchi hodatama dukai.. Ehema karapu nisa.. Namuth eka api dennage sathuta.. E wagema nidahasa.. Ethana waraddak thiyenawada.. Habai mama kawadawath kagewath Paththak aran katawath dos kiyanne na.. Eka hamoma purudu wenna ona deyak.. Ehema unama apata hamoma ekka sathutin inna puluwan....
Aunty, man auntyge videos balanawa, godak dewal man igena gatta, Thank you so much. Aunty e wagema mechcharakal kala wage tawath meetath wada important deyak tiyenawa aunty api wage duwala wenuwen karanna. Pls aunty oya mage amma wage, alutha marry karapu api wage couples walata elagata tiyena most important de tamai, pregnancy. Pls aunty puluwan nam pregnancy kaledi kanna hoda kama, taniyen inna api ewa hadaganne kohomada? Job ekath ekka ewa manage karaganne kohomada? Husbandge wada karaganne kohomada wage godak important dewaluth kiya dennako aunty pls. I’m Malithi. Thank you so much aunty and love you so much. I always listen to your voice and try to imagine that I live with my mother.
Miss mama vivaha wenna pera rakiyawak kara dan mama rakiyawen iwath wela gedara inne mage husband rajaye rakiyawak karanne eyanam mata kawadawath bala kare naha rakiyawen iwath wenna kiyala eunata eyage job eke thiyana karya bahulathwayath ekka eyage wada karala denna kawuruth nathi nisa mama rakiyawen iwath una eya gedara inna welawata mata gewal athu gala dennawa redi hodala denawa mamath eyage wada walata mata puluwan wediyata sahayogaya dakwanawa mama oba thumige videos bala kama eyata hadala denawa eya oba thumige videoswala thiyana kama jathi kanna kamathi mata man gana loku sathutak dannenawa mokada gedara hitapu dawaswalath mama kama bima hadapu kenek newei eth ada wenakota mama edewala jayagena thiyanawa obathumita pin me wage watina dewal gana api wage tharuna aya danuwath karanawata budusaranai
Mata podi prashnyk tiynwa... Danna aya uththara denna... Mge bf ta kisima prashnyk nehe marry ktata passe job ekk nokra inna eka.. Mama asa marry krta passe gedra hema dema krla lssnata hema dema bla gena inna.. Eth mage bf ge amma eya kemthi job ekk krna kenek ta... Me prashne nisa tma tirnyk ganna behe apita... Marry krta passe job ekakata ynna mama asa nehe.. Mta ona gedara weda kran piliwelak ta inna Mokkda wisaduma
Topic isnt very timely. Its in this part of the world since sometime. Culture, sinhala novels and literature, sinhala tele dramas and mainly dominance influence of parents and grandparents have put the woman tagged to a glorified house wife. Thanks to the inflation the thinking pattern of the man has compromised a bit. According to my opinion there's no set of rules but this attitude comes thru the dependency a child has towards its parents. In west and most of the other countries this dependency is dropped once the child has become a major. But in here that dependency doesn't end. As a senior citizen i do not intend coming into an interaction. I thought of dropping a few lines since i follow your clips as and when time permits. In whole its a good topic to discuss and put some disarrayed young ones into the correct path, which i believe is more difficult than marinating a chunk of meat. Regards Bernard.
Mr. Bernard, Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful opinions. I always appreciate and highly value the comments you post as a senior citizen in my videos. Let us, as the older generation, change this traditional thinking pattern together.
Mage husbandge naraka abbahivimak thiyenawa aka mata hada ganda vidihak na mata enne amma vitharai.amma kamathi na ayage waradda mn hadagena essarahata yanawata.dn api divorce wenda hadanne😢😢😢
@@agasiarts9294 ane dr mata ammawa dala yanda ba ayata pressure aka thiyenawa.akai methana prashne.husband kiyanawa rent akata yamu kiyala ath.mata amma dala yanda bari gathiyak thiyenawa.aye amma gawata anda apalu giyoth.oyata godak pin.mn loku pidanayakin enne.thanks oyata
