Rabbi, good lecture. But I think that there is a way of saying something and not lying. For example, regarding the bride with a limp, well, why focus on the limp? You can look at the beauty of the eyes, and say how beautiful they are. I think, regarding thinking before speaking, it's important to know when not to say something to someone, maybe that person cannot accept it now. That's not lying though. Still requires thinking, but lying, I do not like lying.
