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Yep, instantly blame it on others, especially since people don't have a mind of their own & must fit your standards. Buddy, I had a similar mentality. Stop thinking the world is flowers & rainbows.
I’m East African. When I look at west Africans I kinda feel they same way. They are indeed loud and do have an aggressive tone. The majority of black Americans originated from west Africa.
Feeling is mutual bro. Y'all are the reason these westerners look at us and see kids with flies on their faces, it is usually videos from your end 😊@@EA-dweller
As a black man I'm going to take the liberty to speak for alot of my black brothers when I say melanin is a beautiful thing. Nothing more gorgeous than a woman of color.
She’ll be okay. That black boy will most likely end up a bum or mediocre like most. She’ll get older and realize that black males only project from their own self hate.
i fell into this trap as a young girl and it genuinely alters what you are attracted to later on in life. At 25 i have never dated a black man and can not see myself with one because of the awful things my dad would say about them growing up. mind you i’m mixed and my dad is black himself! i do feel 100% that environmental factors strongly influences dating “preferences” and it is rooted in selfhate.
You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Self hate robs you of appreciating that in yourself and in others. Remember, you are full of purpose. Don't let someone's ignorance make you feel less than you are. You are a gift.
The community will leave you traumatized, when I see girls in interracial relationships, I think, thats how she made it out, the hood is undefeated, it takes something from you period, we born in a deficit 😂
@@mujahudin if you only feel good about yourself/ validated when putting someone else down, then you need to reevaluate why you think or act that way because that's a problem.
@@Jungle337 Yeah.. there are a lot of people like that in this world. They feed on the supposed inferiority of other people and groups, to feel superior themselves. Only fooling themselves in the long run, because true self worth is from within.
Well that’s why it’s important to teach your children while they’re young, that rejection can be protection and that it’s okay to be someone who isnt liked by everyone💯 As a father of beautiful black daughters, I teach them to love themselves even when others doesn’t. Because they are deserving of love and support.
@lukebeamer9249 my father taught me the same thing he said never let anyone tell you who and what you are which helped me develop my confidence keep instilling that into your daughters
@@oneonly215so black men that don't date black girls are fake?,I don't owe you anything and you don't owe me anything, date the person you feel is right
How about y'all just quit being loud, and lead by example, since you are the original woman, and the "Queens" you claim to be. Why would we even acknowledge the Other Nations of women who are loud and belligerent? Of course we're supposed to be focused on our own women. So the argument of "they do it too" is played out.
@@C-Lyfe85 Perhaps there is a reason black men get no respect...because instead of being your own man and claiming your own, you want to follow in the white mans footprints.
Systemics. Pre-programmed, pre-conditioned thinking, speaking, acting, pre-patterned emotional responses, PERCEPTION, symbol formation & “logic,” designed & defined to structure & maintain only one (1) power system/power dynamic, worldwide. No accident. No intervention of constructive effect. Without which intervention, the child & all others also subliminally programmed will consistently fail The Doll Test in perpetuity. Whatever ELSE he is “taught” will manifest Confusion regarding HIS self-image, self-respect, self-esteem. A deeply-troubled, troubling & all-too-common neurosis, which only worsens over time. “Confused” men & women are easily-manipulated, easily-dominated within global system dynamics between people.
Bingo. You said it right! I have one of those little smart ass half raised trophy grandsons whose white mother is bitter after divorce. If only our grown ass kids would listen. Leave Becky alone.
This is why it’s so important at a young age to tell our girls that they are beautiful, and to see their own beauty. Do mirror exercises with them and have them point out features they like about themselves. The awareness of how cruel the world can be starts earlier unfortunately for black and brown kids. Start early affirming your children.
I dont think thats what its about . Ive never heard a black girl talk negatively about herself. Need to teach them not everyone is nice and you are gunna get your feelings hurt. Stop sleeping with people because they were nice to you once.
@@annelynn01 some do. Low self esteem and insecurity is having a low opinion of one’s self. But protecting children from negative opinions they are going to encounter in the world starts with affirming themselves at home. And parents can role model and teach those healthy practices.
There’s nothing more beautiful than a foxy black woman! However I can’t disagree with the other traits except for the “annoying” part of his statement. If he ain’t lying then I can’t tell him he’s wrong. I wish that our women would let the personality match the look instead of looking beautiful but having all the traits that I HAVE AS A BLACK MAN! I don’t need a strong, tough, loud and independent woman. None of that is attractive it’s repulsive. The guys who are in to all that usually play for the other team.
@@ludotoyhunter8492 The beautiful thing about there being so many different types of black women, that there is someone out there for you. We are all different and that’s a good thing. Some men love an opinionated and outgoing woman, some don’t. There’s a more soft spoken black woman for you just the way she is. Experiences shape and make people who they are, men and women. Even attributes that we personally don’t want for partners are needed in the world. Black men and women being diverse and not fitting everyone’s mold is needed and will always exist.
@@peachspirit2222That’s cool and I get what you’re saying but why is it ONLY our women who come out the gate saying they’re “strong independent and sassy”? Other races of women don’t talk like that unless it’s something that happened to them like a bad breakup or a divorce or something. It’s teenage girls in our community talking about they are “boss b’s” and they are strong and independent. Huh? You haven’t paid a bill yet nor moved out of the house you grew up in but you’re a strong independent boss b? We have to change our mentality and our values. Nothing made me sadder as a black man AND a teacher than seeing that video of the ballet teacher in her first year teaching 5 YEAR OLD BLACK GIRLS say they didn’t want to learn the classical dance and do the dance to the soft music, they wanted sexxy Redd and Cardi B and they wanted to learn twerking and how to dance like that! They are 5 years old! Why do they even know who those women are?!?! We are constantly and have been for decades now, putting the wrong things and the wrong values into our children who then grow up being detrimental to society instead of being an asset to it. That stuff is not cute and the man who wants that sassy, independent whatever woman is either hood and ghetto himself and doesn’t know any other kind of woman or he’s a softer man who likes to be told what to do or he’s got soft traits that are not seen as masculine by men and he wants his woman to pick up the slack that he should be towing. Ask a real man worth his salt who is working everyday and has his own and he will tell you: no I don’t want no flip mouth argumentative attitude type woman! I am not trying to work a full day and then come home to no food (or takeout food daily), a dirty house and an argument. It’s just not attractive to real men who know better.
Just had a conversation with my two boys last week about this. I told them that they have to protect the sisters out there because they come under all kinds of attacks like these. Let our sisters know they are beautiful and brilliant as they are. No need to change a thing!
@esauvenzen2777 so you are teaching your sons that women are always right including women who will get money out of them and use them for their own benefit. Ok, your sons can take low grade women off the market so my sons don't have to deal with them. Thanks.
As a white guy, I just like women. If they’re white, great. Black, great. Brown, mixed, wonderful. I’m basing my attraction off of many factors, their color not being one of them.
@@michael43567 That is completely wrong. Human beings are very different and not ALL are subconsciously bias to their own race. Just b/c YOU are does not mean everyone is. You do not have the slightest idea what the average man next to you is attracted to the same way you cannot guess his favorite food.
I think most black men are this way. We prefer peace and a woman with a nice and warm personality. Most of us start with only black women then branch out after a few bad relationships. That’s been my case and a lot of men I know anyways.
It's not foolishness and the fact that so many black women portray those exact attributes but because I guess you not one so it ain't true is foolish and ignorant. We see those women everyday in black community. You denying there existence is basically encouraging a bad behavior that needs to stop. Why are black women not mad at these women for even developing this image of them is a shame
Yeah, but it’s actually hurtful and bg internalize this. Chuckling can be seen as a form of agreement. Those same biracial girls wonder why there is tension between them in bg. Years ago, a biracial chick laughed at post a bm wrote about bw hair. A few bw checked him and the biracial chick told them that they were overreacting to a joke. I responded, “easy for you to say bc he’s not talking about you.” Oh, she and the bm instantly accused me of being some angry bw who didn’t like her bc she wasn’t fully black. In reality, I didn’t like her telling bw how to feel and respond to the disrespectful post. That would be akin to me telling her to pipe down when someone joke about mix people. I would never do that.
@@Petitedelight87K so you choose to make them feel like they less black and discriminate against them and that's ok. You will say not true but you literally told them we are not on the same team
@@justinwallace451 there a difference but I embrace them. My thing is you can’t claim to be a black woman only when it’s convenient. If she really identified as a black woman she would’ve likely found the joke offensive. But some biracial people think they’re better or want no part of the black community. That’s why they can laugh at racist jokes. I will call them out. It don’t make me feel any kind of way if a biracial person calls themselves black, biracial, white, etc. Just don’t play in my face.
It doesn’t … because the bad ones are promoted more than the good ones in the media. The good ones actually need to try to stand out more. We need to start telling the truth and stop gaslighting just to sound positive.
@@mahdul8orI agree, this thing of ignoring the current glaring reality is absolutely counterproductive to the things we say we aspire to have and be. The overly promoted hoodrat and hyper sexualized culture is the bane of the black community.
@@mahdul8orUs real black men that teach our black sons the truth know not to take mainstream media seriously nor the entertainment/showbiz world. Once we get our heads back on as a people we would unite and create our own media for our people instead of relying on the enemy's media
Black women are one of the most beautiful women I know, sometimes a lot of black men don't take the time to appreciate and love black women. As a black man I appreciate everyone but I Love black women cause my mom is black , 6 sisters black , my wife black. I am all black.
@@Gcarrington820Because humans aren’t that different, so his reason is good enough and makes sense. I look forward to the day we stop trying to compare ourselves and appreciate our different races and cultures. There’s room for everyone.
These women look absolutely beautiful, no fake eye lashes, hair, nails this is what's up, natural & beautiful. They're confidant in themselves, you don't hear BS coming from them at all
You don't see them when you look in the mirror either, but we can see these women are good to go, as for you maybe you hate what you are what you look like let's start there
Or some folks just have different tastes. I know several folks who don't find black or white women attractive. It depends on the individual. Personally though I don't agree. I might have a preferences but I've seen 10's in every race.
I love that these young ladies were comfortable and non defensive in their approach to trying to understand this young man. To me, it indicates a good sense of security.
And should we ask why they love the Brothers!!!! Just like the white slave female owners enjoyed enslaving Black men----and what angers me is Black men actually think these white women truly Value them as an equal.....just sickening and pathetic.
@@trawlins396 a woman is for her man and him alone wearing clothes that show off all there body is not attractive to a real man I don’t have a problem with females that want to dress like cardi b or Nikki that’s up to them but I’ll be damn if I down respectfully woman
As a black man, when i was younger, i had this mindset not because someone told me or i heard it somewhere, it was literally the steryotype. I grew up in the hood of brooklyn and unfortunately the women i grew up with and was around, left a salty taste as i reached highschool, always going for the spanish and white women. Ill say this, every woman and man of all cultures has their own faults. I do not think the way i did as a kid, even going further, i love black women now, have a black gf at the moment. I think my mindset changed as i grew up meeting black women as the ones talking now. They are good examples of how black women should treat themselves. Social media now portray stereotypes much more frequent and makes it the norm for people to think this is how we are when its just some not all that are like that. I will not blame the child for feeling the way he feels if his only experience of women of color are almost traumatic to the point that he feels white women are better. Throughout time, white and lightskin women were looked at like the sexual preference, giving more screen time and such to them. Theres a lot that goes into this, but im just yapping
hey, listen - it’s cause you were taught to hate dark skin. that’s literally all it is. the white girls and the light skinned and spanish girls were JUST as loud. JUST as fiery. But it was when brown and darker skinned women did, that you had a special disdain and avoidance for. You seem to have overcome this mental bondage. But be honest, it was because you were taught to hate specifically DARKER Abrown skin.
I think it's awesome that your mindset had changed unfortunately some men's stay the same. It just suck that black men are stereo typed to and as a black woman that love black men we usually never give up on wanting and preferring only black men so why are they so quick to do that with us?
Média stigmatizes the madness, they show u ratchetness only from that perspective where it’s because of color, when in reality we have ratchetness in every race.
@@kingme1938 it could definitely be from his experience. As a child I had the same mindset because every negative experience it was always a black girl or boy, the girls were loud obnoxious and annoying, and disrespectful for no reason, the boys always talked trash and picked fights. I’ll say this, my mindset was from ignorance because most black people didn’t do that, I was at a predominantly black low income school, so most people were black. Once you grow up and pay attention you see it’s a minority that perpetuates that stereotype.
The problem is that they lean into that stereotype, and wear it like a badge of honor. A lot of black women also consider themselves to be above black men. That's why black men are moving on. The ironic part, is that the men are more sought after by different races than the women are.
@Al-Rudigor I don't think it's majority and saying that the black men are more sought after than the women is not saying much when you look at the majority of the men that some of the other races take, is actually doing us a favor. 😅
@@glw5166 exactly when the trash takes itself out thank it and that goes for the mixed up ones laughing. I actually believe WS hate them more. It’s Stockholm syndrome that keeps them delusional.
@@isaiahprater8325 they still talk like they haven't been totally exposed for the world to see over the last few years. Black men are done suffering in silence with no agency having to put up with how they act.
@@TheEsquireOfSportsFSU the agency is them not getting married or little kids growing up not wanting them. They talk about little boys as if they are men and have so much emotion behind it.
@@MarcusBarrett-zi8odYou all leave everyone as baby mommas, those who actually give you the time of day at least. 🥴 I have seen white, black and Latina baby mommas who have been with black males, you're the common denominator hon.
I really am trying to understand what you observed about their attire has to do with the narrative of which they are addressing. I’m like Scooby Doo, “roo roo”!?!?
The point of dressing modestly is not so that you can "SEE" they are beautiful and nicely shaped without showing their bodies. The point is to see them beyond any physical attributes. This exactly goes to the point that no matter what you wear, men like you will strip you naked any way.
These women are mixed -- not phenotypically black -- and are the kind of woman BM are always uplifting over actual BW. BM don't ever uplift actual BW with black features.
The sad part is this statement is so very common with younger black men. My daughter heard this so much in high school. She went to a school that was not diverse. She now attends an HBCU and is still working to repair her self esteem.
Right. People focusing on the fact that he’s mixed, like they know for sure it came from his white side. Nah black men always speak this way about black women.
I think we are blaming the wrong people. We need to put the blame squarely at the feet of people like Beyonce. She is the one serving this fantasy, of this lite bright and almost white black woman. She is destroying the esteem of young black girls and putting them on the wheel of hair extensions. She is the most famous of all black women, and she does all she can to embody European features. Then we wonder why black males think the way they do. We need to stop blaming white people, and black men because it's black women who are the ones playing into this vicious cycle.
Black women, please stay safe. If you have black daughters teach them self love and self worth. If you have black sons teach them not to be racist and not internalize racism.
Or, how about marry THEN have kids, and let the dad teach the son how to be a man? Women raising boys alone, is the main reason young men are so feminine now. You can't teach someone to be something that you aren't.
Problem is you say this, but then what it ends up being is black women who are hyperobsessed with their blackness and think they are the greatest thing on earth
Ohh my come to South Africa you will hear the loudest black people and very joyful as well. That's who we are. We born to laugh and make noise❤❤❤❤ sending love from Pretoria South Africa
See talking is not the problem I come from East Africa we talk over each other but our women have a sense of respect and honor I came here and my first 3 years I dated 7 black women hoping to find the values and characteristics I saw back home but all I got was women trying to prove something to you, always wanting to be right, not acknowledging when they are wrong and calling me a nigga. I dislike ppl who curse everyother sentence so that's what ticked me off now I have an Italian wife. 🤷🏽♂️
The issue is not loud is laughing and having a good time. The load is about annoying arguments and talking loud in public for no reason and being disrespectful. It is a stereotype that unfortunately is pointed at black woman but let’s not pretend that stereotype did not have some legs to stand on. Too many videos of the overweight obnoxious black woman getting in a man’s face and acting overly masculine. We need more feminine black Woman and less of the ghetto mentality.
Sad to say, a lot of young brothers say this. My lil brother said the same to me when he was only like 14. I was like where the hell you gettin this from you only 14 you don't even date. He's like look how they act in the rap videos and on TV. I'm like so you letting music and TV dictate what real life is to you?
I mean I’ve dated dozens of girls and probably about a dozen black girls. I used to mostly frequent black clubs when I was young too and obvious would talk to a lot of girls then. It’s definitely different. Idk, maybe some people think all girls are exactly the same and there’s zero difference, but idk how people could acknowledge that not all races and creeds share the exact same culture, but then not see how someone could have a preference for one or another.
You all are SO right. Fully dressed, a man can STILL see you without having to see Everything you've got. These ladies look very much " ladylike" & REFRESHING. Keep up the great work ladies you look SO good, with character & morals. 👑🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️💞🕊️🙏🙏🙏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👑❤️🌹🌹🌹
He said that based off of experience bro even if you find a “good black girl” which means not loud for no reason bougie or annoying you still gotta wade through the waters to find one and let’s not even get into family and friends
Crazy to think how it catches ur attention when a woman is fully dressed and it makes u even question it. Society has made people think that everyone should be more revealing when in fact just a couple years ago being modest was the norm. EDIT- for the people commenting” it’s not about them fully dressed it’s that they’re wearing clothes from centuries ago” … i wasn’t talking about them being fully clothed either, it’s the fact that people gotta question it ….why can’t they scroll past these girls who are fully covered without questioning anything they’re wearing like they scroll pass the girls on instagram wearing thongs . Ain’t nobody comment on their posts like “ why they wearing thongs?”
For some black men in interracial relationships, the hate of black women is the biggest thing that they have in common with their nonblack partner. It is clear that this young man learned this at home.
That young man has a good head on his shoulders. Rest assured that many more will be just like him and if what he said were not true bw would be pursued more thru interracial dating and number don't support that. The numbers back what the child says. #outthemouthofbabes
I don't know these young ladies ... I just see/hear that they are articulate & covered. The optics alone is powerful. They are onto something, keep it up.
99% of black/white mixed kids are white mom/black dad. Black women and white men relationships are about as rare as a big foot sighting, especially in age of social media in modern times
@voidtales right. As a monoracial black woman, despite being light skinned, if I were retelling the story it would be jovial and full of laughter and the reason you can is because you are not black women. Your mums are white and you are mixed, the little boy is talking about loving and uplifting women that are your mothers. So while we both may get discriminated against in corporate, you are not the black woman he speaks of and thus can make light of the situation. Also the interracial relationships being on the rise comment, was that to validate his reasoning for not wanting to date black? I wasn’t sure what was being alluded to there. Also, is his mum black?
I’m a white Aussie… in a room with 100 women my eyes are drawn to the handful of black women. I find them absolutely gorgeous ❤ If I had my time again…
@@demarcusperkins2880 I didn’t say I had ‘true love’ for all black women… though I did have love for one 😢 To love someone romantically you have to know them. We can love people in general but that’s a different form of love. I’m not sure how you/we separate finding a ‘type’ the most attractive and fetishism. I looked up the definitions of fetish and didn’t feel that it applied.
My first time seeing this podcast. I love these young women's modest attire. Alot of women would never understand how pleasing this is to see. It's far more about what their attire says about their character and awareness... beautiful.
@@belafonte5519I know exactly what the topic was about. I said, what I said. The topic was about a foolish, self hating, mixed up knuckle-headed boy who refuses to date black girls... end of discussion. Your not going to change his preference just like you not going to get me to change my initial comment.
God doesn't protect stupid. Don't forget the voice of the people is also the voice of God. I'm guessing you're an exception but some black women have to be better and stop following these negative personalities that makes them unattractive and having a child with before marriage
Stereotypes. One of my friends is black. She is an introvert, so very calm the opposite of loud. She is agreeable, she has an open mind and a good listener and she loves rock music, ghotic styles and tattoos. 😅
Yea some black girls are cool. Stereotypes are built when trends in behavior are displayed by a majority. Majority of black women are on instagram half naked rn screaming fuck my BD 😅
ask yourself what trends on the internet in terms of black women traits and that goes for all y'all blaming his parents, kids in every generation literally did everything except listen to their parents it's how western black women represent themselves. shouting at black men for calling them out if "I am the table" is not acting bougie, I don't know what is and half of y'all that trend for these stuff are overweight and tryna shame men into being physically attracted to something we arent
ask yourself what trends on the internet in terms of black women traits and that goes for all y'all blaming his parents, kids in every generation literally did everything except listen to their parents it's how western black women represent themselves. shouting at black men for calling them out if "I am the table" is not acting bougie, I don't know what is and half of y'all that trend for these stuff are overweight and tryna shame men into being physically attracted to something we arent
@@shaungarrett5291what’s wrong with being loud? Black men be loud as hell too and that’s ok because not everyone expresses themselves the same way.. have you ever heard a west African man talk? Especially in their native language? You could think he is having a fight with someone but nope that’s how they talk naturally!
Being loud is a cultural thing. Some cultures are loud some are quiet. Most Latin x cultures are loud and Filipinos are loud as heck. There you have it.
But the funny thing is white women are even louder and obnoxious too.I would say even more than black women are.Like to me, it's really weird that there is still a stereotype that black women are loud when white women can be the worse.
Niece of mine I’m so proud of you. Had me in tears. The joy of the Lord is my strength. I pray that God hands of protection over your life. We bless the messenger in the message. ❤❤❤
Statements like that don't even bother me anymore. Either he'll change his mind in the future or die on that hill. Getting bent out of shape only validates his statement. This is coming from a guy who thought like that 7 years ago.
People like that needs to be corrected, left with that mindset he can harm a b w or a bw will have to defend herself against him and he could end up on the other side if the grass. raycism is not a joke.
As a Foundational Black American man, I would only date and marry a Black-melanated woman. I love how the sun sparkles🌟off their golden bronze skin, their swag, their spirit, and their curves. 👸🏾😍
This is why mixed people cannot speak for Black people. The child should have been corrected immediately. The little boy should have been told that language like that is unacceptable in this classroom. If he said the same thing about a Jewish person or a Latino person there would have been a parent teacher conference. That same protection should be extended to young vulnerable Black girls.
This has nothing to do with him being mixed... It has everything to do with his deadbeat Dad. The Dad is telling him all of that nonsense. His Blk Dad is the problem, not him being mixed.
@@RikendyExactly, they're focused on what he said instead of why he said it.😂😂 All that matters is if what he said was true. There is no need to add our emotions into this.
I have to have a black woman.they are the most natural beautiful women in the world.if it was not for makeup alot of other women will not even come out side with out they makeup on.
That's some racist shit right there All women from different races not culture races are beautiful,now certain cultures had raised women to be ugly,weather is a white black Latina It doesn't matter ,all women are beautiful despite their race but cultures we need to talk about that,look at these beautiful girls ,they are from a mix race ,but from a beautiful culture
Real talk, I am friends with a guy (mixed race) that was raised with his White grandparents. They lived in a White neighborhood and he went to White schools. His grandparents taught him to avoid Blacks. My friend said his grandparents deprived him of his Black heritage and was taught that White women were the ideal choice when I met my friend. He began discovering his racial identity in college during the four years, during which he peeled away the racist views taught to him by his grandparents. The crazy part about the whole thing was that he was still afraid of a relationship with a Black woman (having the typical fears that a White man would have about dating a Black woman)…until my best friend (who is Black) “turned him out” 😂😂😂😂😂 So, my point is that mixed children learn that type of hate from home. I hope that child learns to debunk hate.
@@trentbell8276 Yup. My friend respects his grandparents, but will not let his children go stay with them during school breaks. My friend eventually married my best friend and their kids look more Black than he does. He says he wants his children to appreciate their ethnicity.
It is actually more common for someone who had a racst upbringing as a kid to end up with that very same race they taught that kid to hate, than the kid following into the racst footsteps
When you say they "deprived him of his black heritage", what do you mean? The heritage he supposedly descends from in Africa, or American black culture? Because looking around at what constitutes black culture in America - degeneracy, no nuclear family, hood culture, edification of criminals, low emphasis on education, etc - I can see why his grandparents would want to steer him clear of that.
Because they can compare.. men want peace more than love which is always conditional with a modern day woman . My happinesss blabla... stupid no zich thing when children are involved anymore
Don't forget the different classes of people. Liberal mixed races kids are completely different from conservative mixed race kids. Libs held up all the negative black American stereotypes. Conservatives were completely different and didn't pick a side. Most were black and white but some were other mixes and it always boiled down to the class of the family.
It really depends how you are raised. My biracial family members were raised in a large Black family, with strong roots and familial pride. Yes some married non Black people and some married Black people but irr coupling is normal in California since the black population is so small but my mixed cousins are anti Black people. It's the family's responsibility especially your parents to instill racial/cultural/heritage pride into their children.
Hmmm are you talking about before they put on their weaves/wigs, tons of fake up and contouring, butterfly eyelashes, waist trainers or clean face straight out of the shower...because those will be COMPLETELY different women. Also, where did the little kid tell a lie. BW are loud AF, rude AF, masculine AF....where is the beauty???
@damonnomad6220 you're 110% correct. Most black women are so wigged/weaved up, tons of caked on fakeup, stupid butterfly eyelashes, and a lot of cosmetic surgeries...because they're TOO LAZY to actually work out.
One, they're teachers who have to find humor in some of what the children say/do sometimes. Second, they're also laughing at their own responses, too. Also, obviously they helped steer his mind to correction. However, how/why would they be outraged by the false and incorrect statements from a child? He's not grown, doesn't impact them or their self-esteem. He's not a man. Children say wild things in classrooms everyday. Gotta laugh to keep from crying sometimes.
Yall listening comprehension can’t be this bad…smh. They were laughing recalling how mad each of them were for him making a statement that was so wild and brash. Thats not the same as laughing at the statement. There’s PLENTY of 100% black women that I’ve seen react similar in the same context. There’s battles to be fought. This ain’t one of those. There’s real enemies out there. That’s not them…at least based on this clip.
Here's the thing date who you want, have prefrences, love who you want. What hurts me is when people feel the need to degrade one group to validate their choice but it seems to me that they feel like they're doing something wrong so they have to give excuses❤❤❤
How do you think people develop their “preferences”. It’s not just based on appearance. Never ceases to amaze me how many women--especially BW-are unable to handle negative feedback. But yet dish it out so casually and thoughtlessly to men. (We’ll say whatever we want, however we want to, but you better be nice to us!!) Please…
@@sherondaness7505 No. FEELING that someone is calling you ugly whenever they point out something about you that is imperfect is your own sense of shame…and shamelessness. In DARING to think that you are perfect and demanding that the rest of the Universe join you in that delusion. It is the first sin: Pride. …and it is the reason why so many find dealing with BW who refuse to see themselves in truth to be insufferable. We don’t hate you. The problem is that you hate yourselves and you can’t face it. So you project it onto everyone else.
I feel this so deeply 😂. Sometimes I want to date but human interaction outside of family and friends is a chore. I much rather be alone than have someone ‘disturb’ my peace
@@blackspiderman1887Hun, they can get loud too. Trust. I’ve seen and heard them. My brother in law is Filipino and he had a lot of sisters that weren’t necessarily the silent/quiet type🫤
@@blackspiderman1887 and not all black women are loud so what are you saying to make that statement? You will have to know every black woman in the world and not every black woman is like that.
@@bunnydimples1283 in general. There is always exceptions to the rule and I've met rude Filipinos. But as a while they are very chill. About 85% of them
Whoa! The ugly part hit me the most. Like what, from a kid?? It's horrible for him to even have this view point of us when he is partial of that. He already chose what side to be on, but also, that was embedded in him. Had to be!
Ever considered taking accountability? Or is your first instinct to just discount and dismiss the young man’s experience! Maybe he has firmed that view from informed experience!
I’m sure if you had a certain view point about white men and someone just dismissed it a second hand opinion your parroting, you’d scream at them and claim that it was your “lived experience” and how dare they dismiss it ! That hypocrisy and lack of self awareness from you Types is startling !
@@McStrokeAvision people should change when they choose to, not because someone else says so. If you want a black woman (especially dark skinned) to behave like a white woman (who is mostly at ease) let her have the same societal privileges.
@@nicolesprocess has to be some of the most nonsensical crap I’ve ever heard. What do white women have to do with Black women behaving like decent human beings? If people should change when they want to why are people all through these comments whining about what this boy said? It’s wild that some Black peoplr associate intelligence and decency with being White.
@@McStrokeAvision There are plenty of educated black women and men and that's an argument that's null and void that education and descency has to do with white people. Lots of African countries has highly educated people and royalty and no white people in them. America is screwed because they keep perpetrating the negative and false stereotypes about black women. An "angry black woman" is a narrative that a lot of young black girls see in media. Same with the promiscuity of black female artists and thugs for black men. That's all they are seeing and they think it's okay to be like that. And other races are watching too and viewing and treating black women in the same lens as what the media shows. White people have many privileges, but the biggest one is how they're positively portrayed in the media.
@@nicolesprocessAdvising people not to change is not only refusing to recognise or address the very serious issues with many black women it’s glorifying those behaviours. That’s crazy!
As a bw, I don't let this kind of talk get to me. I know people are programmed, out of touch with humanity, and seek to conform and comply. I just see it as something that comes with my existence, which helps me feel numb. Numbness is helpful to get through life and accomplish what I want personally and professionally. If you get caught up try to change people and being sensitive, then you will not want to do anything in this world. My life is too valuable for me to waste it on fools.
Real black women are collectively the most beautiful women on planet earth. We pity the envious and we’re so unbothered.💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾 Biracials speaking on black women as if they have the authority to. Meanwhile laughing, even the way they’re expressing the subject matter speaks volume 👀
Exactly. There was nothing funny about his responses, the laughing threw me off. If black women were telling this story the tone would be A LOT more different & serious.
We need to take him seriously. This is a growing perception of black men toward black women and it has real life consequences. Black women are “good enough for sex” but not marriage. The stats bear this out. We need to really examine this as it is affecting the culture in negative ways…
@violetrooster7080 you don't have to think so, but I'm entitled to my own opinion. Acceptable would have to come from a much deeper place than a glance. I made my observation only from what my eyes have seen. Beauty comes in many different forms. Acceptance is all about personality and character...
You gals are queens. I hate how everyone disrespects us but still wanna BE OUR Culture, or at the very least "experience" us bc they have no morals. This world has been doomed but change needs & will come.
What's sad is people have no empathy for the lasting effect that these words have on young black girls. I want my daughter and any other black girls that come across this comment to know that you are valuable. You are priceless. You can do anything you put your mind to regardless of the obstacles that this world so adamantly places in your way. You are one of a kind. No matter what anyone says to you, the same things they try to make you be ashamed of are the same things they WISH they had. You have character, you have definition, you have substance. Those are things they try their best to steal from us. We are the blueprint for so many amazing expressions in this world. Art, music, dance, fashion, etc. We are the personality they wish they had. When you look around you will see yourself in everything they do. You may angry be about it at first but, be proud of that; Not to show them you are better than they believe but to show them that it is DESPITE what they believe. If we don't find a path for ourselves and stand up for ourselves, nobody else will. We want protection but judging by the way society is going, we may never have it. So fight your own battles, love yourself unconditionally, and if you have a daughter, instill that in her as well.
Your parents must be so proud of y’all, I waited to and prayed to have friends such as y’all in my life. If I ever had children I’d want them to be like y’all.. in a unique way.
