I cried for this woman. While the beginning was funny, this is so fucking disrespectful. For them to feel this comfortable to insult her in her home, a home that is supposed to be her safety net. How fucking dare you? In her bloody house. How is she supposed to use that kitchen again without having PTSD from this scenario? How? This man made his friends so comfortable with disrespecting her in such manner. The fact that he doesn’t recognize an insult to his wife as an insult to him is wild.
@@im26c4u5 literally. It’s makes this woman who wrote the comment sound dumb as well 😂😂 she can’t go in the kitchen now cah she’s got ptsd from being called ugly🤣
The fact that his friends can say these horrible things to him, means this is not the first time they have had this conversation. I really hope this woman finds the strength to file for divorce. No one deserves to be spoken to like this
This is sad. It’s very difficult being a woman who’s constantly told they’re not attractive especially by men who have no issue sleeping with you or even dating you. There’s something very humiliating about being a woman married to a man who isn’t physically attracted to you - you’ll never feel truly desired. I could never do it.
Soon as she says “HEEEEEYYYY!” Bullshit is coming right after that! But the thing is, it’s my same reaction!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 I love y’all!!!!! Funny as hell!!
Aw I'm glad y'all caught yourselves regarding how sad it was that she felt ugly. I've been there. It's not fun. I was lucky to grow out of that phase and now men and women compliment me regularly, but that's not what happens with everyone. It's depressing AF.
How could he continue and continue and continue. She loved him so much 😡 there’s no way he loves her. He’s just great full for what she provides for him, sex and homecare. It’s actually criminal
The shout that I shouted when I googled Charles Entertainment Cheese…. My friend… He really used Chuck E. Cheese government name to insult this women. I’m sick 🥴💀
I had an ex like that. Backhanded compliments galore. I'm now married 3 years of my best friend of 11 years and we love and respect each other flaws and all. ❤
this channel HAS to be my favorite discovery this month !! the atmosphere in here is AMAZING, i just looove the chemistry between the three of you, it almost looks like you all share the same brain somehow, love y'all
context on Charles Entertainment Cheese: Chuck E Cheese is a children's arcade and restaurant where kids have pizza parties and such and watch an animatronic band of animals play songs. Chuck E is the mascot, and he's giant a rat. some bigwig said once the E stands for Entertainment, ehich is where the Charles Entertainment Cheese joke comes from. so man was calling her the lovechild of a double door fridge and a giant gray rat
I had a man tell me to my face 😂 he said…”I use to date or have relationships with gorgeous women (an decided to go into deeper detail how drop dead gorgeous they were). A woman who looks wise perfection. (Proceeds to look at me up and down) Now I am just looking for a woman with a good personality. So I had to lower my standards for looks and that is what made me talk to you. I like your personality”.
Oh hell no. The audacity to tell someone you think they’re beautiful for YEARS to know it’s a lie is FOUL. YOU may not think they’re beautiful, but that doesn’t mean no one else will. They’re not lucky to have you, you’ve cursed them to live a lie. My partner and I were both insecure of traits we have but found each other genuinely beautiful DESPITE not being the beauty norm. Idgaf if I have a round face and soft chin or a wide nose etc, I look in the mirror and feel STUNNING and loved, and I can see how his eyes light up when he sees me and how he giggles when I laugh and scrunch up my face. Despite that, when you love someone and see them daily, over time you will grow to be used to their features and see it as normal, and if you love that person then they’ll even become charming. The sheer AUDACITY to tell someone you love their “droopy face”…. If you really loved them, you wouldn’t describe it that way. Maybe “I like your oval face” or “I like your relaxed face”, etc, but the way this man refers to his wife is so sad…
The fact he let them disrespect his wife in that manner in her home is insane. I hope she’s able to find someone whole truly loves her down! This is disgusting and disappointing
I teared up listening to this podcast 😢 how are people so cruel.. this you wife for crying out loud how can you tell her such things , if you know that she was ugly why then did you go on marry her whyyy????
Love yourself- coz nobody in this will ever be able to love you more than yourself- why? Coz giving someone the power to love everything about you- will eventually leave you powerless!!! Don’t leave him- and see what happens? You won’t be able to even trust him- so this is why you have to leave…. Also- I always remember my therapist saying to me- so do you miss him- (my ex) or is it just the idea of him that your missing? I said obvs though I do miss him- my therapist replied it’s the idea of him that you’ll miss coz if someone better came along missing him wouldn’t even be a distant memory of the past- he would just simply be forgotten!!!! But at the end of the day- even if that someone better has/had come along- just know that in that situation you are currently in now- you will be better off alone without him than with him- & don’t pack your bags and leave- he’s the one with the problem- which you now have a problem with his problem so as it’s also your house- you need the space to place your double decker fridge self down!!!!!!!!but trust me- confidence is key!!!!
I kind of agree with Sharon on the friend thing because if your friend cares enough, they will work on their approach. They aren't just going to knowingly keep being hurtful toward you.
If you cant defend my honor behind my back i dont want you oooo! Lady pleaseeee leave him. Save for your new life, therapy, surgery whatever you need to get your confidence back. The devil is a lie. This makes me sad bc your partner should be your safe place. Let him be the only divorcee in his group. Leave as a surprise 😂
Thank you for adding the part about telling your friend when they’re upsetting you or rubbing you the wrong way, so they have the opportunity to change. I wish my friend had told me what I could’ve done, before she dropped me as a friend. Made me feel like years of friendship meant nothing or that I did something so bad that she never got over it bc she never told me, like dang dude. Wish I would’ve known but at this point I can just wish her the best.
The way my jaw dropped!😳😳😳 Oh hell noooooo!!!!! Throw that whole man and marriage away!!!! You deserve a lot better. I’m so sorry you went through this sis 😢❤️🫂
The first one really shocked me I have heard that men settle but to hear what this husband said to his wife. Makes me wonder what on Earth was he saying to his friends you are the company you keep and if they are calling her names in her home they are saying much worse at the tavern they frequent.
I feel like it was a double edged sword . Because before she heard these comments she felt like her husband thought the world of her because that is how he treated her. If she were to leave she will only internalize this probably won’t have the courage to date again let alone marry again. In the back of her mind she will probably always think does he actually find me attractive. I want to ask the question can you be in a loving relationship with a person that isn’t physically attractive? You genuinely love that person. You don’t step out on the relationship. You just don’t find them (of society standards) attractive.
These are the questions to actually ask because, in the long run in relationships, certain people lose the “society standards of beauty “ over time in relationships, it happens a lot and we don’t talk about it
Saw a clip on IG and came running to RU-vid. You ladies did NOT disappoint! Love your energy & personalities. Instant sub from me 🥳 Now to the actual convo - why are you with someone who you don’t find attractive? That’s not the only quality to look for because beauty fades, but I would never even admit that to them. That man has some audacity. He probably thought that she isn’t going anywhere and that knocking her esteem down even more would keep her there. May she be free of him sooner rather than later 🗣️
To add to the conversation of good friends. You might have a friend who is very blunt, so when you do something that’s wrong that friend may not be your first point of contact. You will most likely go to the friend that will sugarcoat things. But in a case when you need encouragement/motivation that blunt friend might be your 1st point of contact as opposed to the other friend that just sugarcoats things. I feel like we all have friends for different reasons and they all add unique values to us.
Yep! I have “enabler” friends who will “do it” every damn thing I say I wanna do it haha and realistic friends who will “ok well let’s consider this from all angles” and I love each and every one of them ❤
I’m the blunt friend ✋🏼😌 when my friends are being messy it sucks because they go weeks without speaking to me. I get it, live your life girl, but you’re not going to talk to me when it pleases you. I revoked someone’s best friend title because of this
This is painful because i know my dad and brother NEVER let anyone disrespect my mom or SIL. Not about their looks, especially in the house. This man would've been single that very night. This woman needs therapy and self love. Her esteem is in the TRENCHES
I love you guys so much i love seeing black women my age talking about different topics and life that I can related too ! keep doing what your doing i can’t wait for you guys to get huge ❤
FINALLY. I love you all saying what I was thinking too!! Like Leaaavvve!! Also I wonder if she’s even ugly, this is the type of situation she could very much glow up from. Not that attractiveness matters but self worth and kindness is ultimately most beautiful about a person. I just found you all today and I’m stoked
Her husband is verbally abusing her. Smh meanwhile you have men with wives who are burn victims (so severely burned that their faces look completely different) love their wives deeply. This man is trash and she deserves better. I hope she leaves him.
Just saw this on TikTok, I had to see the full episode. Y'all really started this podcast with the ugly wife story. EDIT: I don scream finish. The curse way I don curse that husband and his werey friends. Mad disrespectful. Not Chucky E. Cheese?! God punish everybody.
Sis was NOT married at all! He considered her a glorified maid in all the areas. I hope and pray she leaves him and when the time comes (and it will) she settles in with her king who thinks the Sun shines out her ass! This is a full-on abysmal and abusive situation and I hate she had to hear all that. Heal sis. Just heal pls.
I was in love with this guy and I was on the phone with my friend and he saw her on and went on and on about how beautiful she was and in that moment I never felt so ugly and repulsive. He also told me that in order to be his girlfriend I had to lose weight. Since then I fallen in love with a guy who loves me for who I am but I struggle with believing I’m beautiful 😞
I saw this clip on insta and i watched it like 20 times.. idk why but the way she starts screaming right after the confession 😭 it's just so funny, idk who y'all are but i love you guys already LMAO..
