“My Stalker’s Been To Prison 3 Times But Refuses To Stop Harassing Me” | This Morning 

It’s her work phone not that easy to change it plus would be easy for him to find the new number as it is given out due to it being a work phone . And you shouldn’t have to the owness is not on the victim

She shouldn’t have to get rid of her social media. That’s like saying women shouldn’t wear dresses if they’ve been catcalled wearing them.

@@itsyourmethod This is so victim blamey…why should she have to make all these changes and live her life differently , he should be monitored closely by police , if not locked up for a lot longer , so she doesn’t have to live her life in fear

@@user-om6ss7pp2j Well I mean witness protection programs exist for a reason. It's not right a witness has to change their whole lives, but that's the only way to keep them safe

@@user-om6ss7pp2j And the police sadly absolutely do not have the resources to do that kind of monitoring, that's a huge time and personnel commitment

Ikr, this is why I don’t be overly nice anymore.

gross. Has happened to me with someone. Intensely horrible straight away and gross. (Especially them being 20+ year or so my senior, as well.) 😡 So I needed, so unwanted. Was so annoying because I had just started a new job where he started the second day, and that was it. Luckily he's an 'agency' worker, temporary position. thank goodness, Thank goodness. I haven't seen him since. 🤮

​@@RHathemomenthe's moved onto another victim.

Exactly, most people understand common courtesy but some are so deluded that they easily misconstrue kindness as interest…then proceed to think they’re entitled to something more.

@nerozero-mp7hdyou need mental health evaluation… it is beyond vile actually.

@nerozero-mp7hdfound the stalker

He p sees o

I hope you got the justice you deserve! So sorry that you had to experience that x

​@nerozero-mp7hd that's false

She's sitting down.

It actually IS stalking, because that word describes the behaviour. Erotomania is the cause.

I've had stalkers without erotomania: they're fully aware that you want them to leave you alone but they want the power/satisfaction/pleasure of interacting with you and causing you grief anyway. Erotomania sounds more like what I've had trying to meet Jim Carrey... but I left him alone as soon as I realized he wasn't giving enough green flags for me to continue. He didn't even specifically ask me to leave him alone, but I didn't want to cause him stress so that's what I did. That's why I say it "sounds like" I had erotomania, because I did follow him online before I met him, I sent him fan mail, I did reach out to one of his coworkers, and I did knock on his door, and I have wondered whether he contacted me back once, so I've exhibited all the behaviors listed when I google "erotomania" but I left him alone as soon as he didn't sound enthusiastic... but he had also given signs he was interested. Like, after he'd already met me and seemed scared, he came out of his house again a week later to hang out with me when he heard music I was playing, so, I dunno. I think we come up with a lot of names to describe what people do, but what really matters at the end of the day is whether you're present with someone enough to respect their feelings and desires. I will also add that the police told me that someone is not technically a stalker unless they've been explicitly asked to leave the other alone and they don't. They told me this after my second stalker, and that's the simplest way to understand when your attraction becomes a problem. Otherwise, how on Earth will anyone ever meet anyone? You've gotta "shoot your shot" as they say!

@@AishawithanEyeis this a joke?

@@mb2770 doesn't sound like one, I'm not laughing anyway.

Being stalked is psychological torture

It is.

@nerozero-mp7hdand that’s also stalking.

@nerozero-mp7hd it's emotional torment

​nerozero-mp7hdno it isn't goes beyond that I've been physically stalked aswell not just online & in text

Same girl!!

@@monicashah9732 though I did have one comment from him a couple months later but other than that it’s drastically improved, not had anything for 4 months since then

@@monicashah9732 like all they did was go round to where he lives, warn him what could happen if he continued and he stopped

@@ellie8263how’d uno he was stalking you

My ex husband was stalking and harassing me…police warned him and he stopped. God I got lucky there! Even then I was traumatised for a long time, this POOR woman! 😢

Thank you captain obvious

@@YG-rr6zv🤣

@@YG-rr6zv He is not Captain Obvious, he is Captain America.

Captain Connor Shield, reporting for duty!!!

I would be really interested to connect with you and work together towards changing the law? if you see this message I'd be grateful for a reply? I contacted my local MP after I was told that me trying to keep him away from me and attempting to fight to put exclusion zones in place would be a "breach of his human rights" and seen as "restricting his movements" despite the fact I was horrifically assaulted... Once I contacted my local MP I was then granted exclusion zones to ensure my safety when he came out at half time. He was then shortly put back in prison for breach of probation and still currently remains there, but I would very much like to attempt to change the current laws around this as its so outrageous that survivors have to fight for safety ... 😢

Yeah, I heard of that.

So she stayed at the same property?

So she stayed at the same property?

Maybe get a man to talk to him? Family member, friend etc? So he knows its not going to end well for him if he continues..! Also, setup cctv, etc! Take care, be very careful (learn self-defense, carry something with you etc), no one deserves to go through something like this ❤

@@sophieschoices9663 he has been arrested for it so he’s hopefully got the scare. My husband has gone to try and see him, but he watches me and only comes out when I’m on my own. If I carry deep heat for defence it is illegal and carries the same charges as a firearm so I’m literally stuck in my home until he moves. The police advised me to perhaps think about moving but not sure they would be willing to cover my stamp duty!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ just all very destroying xo

@@planethoth1238what a silly question to ask. How about because they weren’t interested, that is a valid reason to reject someone…

​@@planethoth1238seriously???

Sorry to hear that. What made your stalker stopped?

@whatever5026 my letter to him a I outed him on social media he only stopped because his face was exposed

Very true if you pass someone and they smile they just being friendly?no need to read too much in to it maybe

But as a woman if you aren’t friendly and polite to a man, that can trigger violence or hostility too. We can’t win.

I know 3 women who were stalked by men they had had NO INTERACTION WITH. The fact is that some people are sick in the head, and there is no way of preventing yourself from falling victim to them.

NO WE DONT. Your saying woman need to change their personalities so men don’t harass us. NO WE DONT!

@@user-ly4bh4nn3x no im explaining how a mans mind works

That is truly terrifying. Do you have any suspicions, maybe an ex?

i wld argue not naturally... cuz movies. religions. cultures brainwash men. b4 those existed we had simple philosophies. being nice to others is being nice to ur self. sorry but stalkers r the product toxic environments and their own traumas. a strong community/family wld fix that. 4 example. if i found out my sister was being stalked. i wld lure him into a quiet spot. then carry out the physical duties with a bro. repeated till desired results r met

Monsters like this guy maybe but not all men do. Not fair to tar everyone with the same brush.

@@jimmyhopkins3589 it's not fair to be on the receiving end of it. most men do it but they do it to varying degrees, even in ways they might not think are controlling.

@@biegebythesea6775most men?

@@biegebythesea6775 so you’ve met most men? Sorry for your experiences but at the end of the day that’s your opinion.

That sounds so scary

This depends on the stalker. Like he said, if they are willing to get help then they can be rehabilitated.

The issue is the law, because the laws arent great they legally cant keep him. If he is no longer committing an act or breaking the law it is unlawful for them to keep him in prison, and even if they can arrest him they can only hold him for so long. You also have the issue where by other than harassing someone he hasnt commit further offences so they can just send him away all the time. Really until he does something harmful to her they can only hold him for breaking any retaining order. Really shes in a literal nightmare situation, its essentially psychological torture. Im terrified for if she has kids or something. He literally studied everything about her and her life.

read this book "the gift of fear" by Gavin de Becker

Trolls are always nameless…funny that isn’t it.

Her dad could be elderly? This is clearly a dangerous individual who knows he could be carrying a weapon.

@@persephone3309 Ronnie Pickering isn’t that old. About 60 I’d say.

or male family members or male friends even?

@@rhendry5832 Ronnie Pickering is 1000 years old, he uses anti-aging cream to look around 60.

@@50ztej Yeah, her brother could've dealt with the creep...if she has a brother.

That’s quite unrealistic, not everyone can afford to move and run away.

😂😂😂😂😂

Ronnie who?

​​@@thestarshavefallen Ron Pickering!😮😅

Is tht really her uncle 😂

@@kayleighlou8483 😄 🤣

Where did she mention her hair was thinning or that it was down to stress? Did I miss something?

@@laadeedahI mean, it’s basic common sense that the poor woman will be stressed

@@JM-eg6wj Yes obviously but there is no evidence her hair has anything to do with that. Seems a bit rude to point out something physical and to diagnose the cause.

She might just naturally have hair on the thinner side. Don’t jump the gun and start commenting on her appearance because it’s rude and she might read these comments.

Just what she needs. An internet stranger commenting on her appearance.

Lol I thought the same thing 😅

Ronnie Pickering is hot, a lot of women stalk him.

Thats right make excuses for the one in the wrong.

​@@mariewalmsley6143 it's not about "excuses". What he has done is very wrong, it's awful for her, but OP is right that the guy needs psychological treatment and intensive intervention to stop this behaviour in it's tracks. Otherwise he'll do it again and again and again.

@@elliotjohnson9415 absolutely. Saying someone needs help isn’t saying “oh well they’ve got issues so it’s fine”… it’s far from that. Stalkers are far from sane, no one who’s okay mentally would do such a thing. They absolutely need help so that they can get the help they need to turn them into a better person.

I understand that offering psychological help to a stalker is out of the norm… but there’s definitely a reason why this is his pattern of behaviour. He definitely needs help so everyone is safe from this person in the future.

@@SpecialK199 you took the words right out of my mouth!

These people always find loopholes thought. You can block a stalker on anything but they still manage to pop up one way or another. Like she said he bought a phone and called her 2 hours after leaving prison

That wasn’t a question…

@@problem.skinnn True, lol!

Who? 😂

​@@Booster85RONNIE PICKERING !

@@Satsusss 😂😂😂😂

Such a shame that women have to take these measures to protect themselves

Trying Boxing, Muay Thai Kickboxing and/or Brazilian Jujitsu instead of Karate for this use case. You will send an attacker to the other realm. Great exercise, ood fun, sense of community and keep your brain learning new things. Martial arts is a treasure for all 👍🏼

All children should be taught self defense, it's more important than any sports, especially for women.

FEMINIST ALERT!!!!

Have you seen some of the terrible things women have done? can't trust yall either.