“An unhappy home can never bring happy children” Nigerian parents please note this. Thank you so much Chude for always bringing us more wisdom through your channel🙏🏼
This is scary because this more or less me. My life, my kids, work and study. I never given it much thought what will happen when my kids are grown. It's time to start planning my life when they are grown.
It's a gift to your kids to see you have a life. They emulate what you do and repeat the cycle if you wait till they are old before you teach them how to have a life
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Fantastic reply. Even if one is still in a marriage, as parents (especially mothers because the men will always find their own escapes) we should look for ways to unwind, reclaim, rebuild our lives and LIVE, post having kids because that day will surely come when the nest will become empty.
I love and respect this woman with all my heart…. She values herself so much that she did the right thing, when dear 9ija was still asleep to reality….unhealthy marriage/ union/ relationship; does not and can never breed happy children.
I can definitely relate. We as mothers sacrifice everything to take care of our children. Some men think it’s only our responsibility ONLY. They live their lives freely without a care in the word. Meanwhile we stop everything, even friendships. Yes we SUBTRACT but we are stronger than we think! God bless this wonderful strong women 🙏🏾
I don't know why some men are just leaving their children for their wife to take care of them is either they quarrel or have a little misunderstanding; next thing is divorce. God continue to bless you (ma)and your children.
It's important for mothers to find a balance between being a mother and their own personal lives. Women make so many sacrifices for their families, and they tend to forget themselves in the process.
I remember watching a show years ago where she and Fred Amata were invited to talk about their marriage and the experiences so far,they weren't divorced as at then,then the host asked her about her husband's favorite meal,in her words she said"starch and Banga but funny enough I don't know how to cook it"... lol 😂.As at that time,they were around or close to 10yrs of marriage or so(if I'm not mistaken).I just concluded that this woman must be very tough oo for her to even come out and own it with her full chest 😂😂
This woman is telling the world that she is depressed. Please I wish her family & friends get closer to her. Fred is a happy dude and rolling out fine.
I feel you my darling ❤ 💕 💖 that feeling of loneliness will hit you once they grow up to do there own things. It's very lonely 🙁 but it's worth it been there for your children.
Put it in prayer, then be friendly because he who desires friends must show themselves friendly. Join your old association/alumni groups, religious communities, go to places or for activities that interest you & generally care about people that you meet along the way.
This is my life right now, As if you are me sef An unhappy home can never breed happy children o I have two kids too Maam I am so blessed I embrace it oo One kposa for you for this word of knowledge from you
Deep talk: unhappy home can't breed happy children! If you want to stay and endure life threatening marital abuse, pls do it for your own sake rather than blv it's for the children.
I married him or we got married. Please she should have rephrased that statement saying "I married him" because people are going to misconstrue it to mean something negative.
THIS WOMAN IS NOT AS NICE AS YOU THINK. Those who know her will tell you. Her personal life is her business BUT it will be REASONABLE to hear her ex's side of the story.
