“The Real” Ladies Talk Pre-Nups & Post-Nups 

Jeannide V what does that mean?? Lolol

I said the same thing 😂😂

Ingrid Ayarza She actually divorced haha

I was thinking the same thing!

Jeannide V I

Nasir Santana shiii I’m eating with a plastic spoon rn

@@oliviarivera490 so a wooden spoon? 👁👄👁

@@amnedits4898 maybe medal

@@kjariousmitchell1686 Metal*

@@hannahwalmer1124 omg how embarrassing😬 I promise Im smarter than that 😂🤣 it was prolly late when I typed that...hopefully

Helena best comment ever!

"You don't get pre-nuos to prepare for divorce, you get pre-nups to prevent your life from getting ruined." Wise words, friend 😌

Helena preach

Helena on this one Adrienne was VERY naive and Tamar and Tamera had to school her on what’s the REAL about relationships

Adrienne isn't naive, she wants to divorce with his money. That's why she doesn't want a prenup.

Lutendo Madzena 😁

Well this is awkward.....

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and she ended up having to pay him too 😭😭😭😭

c s she didn’t have to pay him

OMG! YES! The View is so unorganized when it comes to discussion. It's so annoying.

+PSALMSOFSONGS and they talk over each other so much. There's a nice flow to them !

jake bobs​ I love this show 😍😍😍

+joseaod15 yes the talk more about the stuff that I want to hear about on this show this is why it's my favorite talk show

exactly

ConsiderMeMaybe indeed it was!! lol

Ikr, the timing...

the Universe talks, you betta listen 😉

I CAME LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT 😂😂😂

@@cesaracuna2762 me too! 🤣

I appreciate this as well!

Sandy Montilus real refreshing! It was nice

Class!

Because they are not talking about politics... politics and religion turn people crazy

Yes! I can't stand when "some people" get loud and start screaming over the others. Today was a nice discussion.

god bless you for this insight. couldn’t have said it any better

I agree

*****

he has a lot more money than her so

Tunisia Lewis WHEN they divorce, I hope Tamar takes all his money. Tamar says Mariah should have a prenup to protect herself but didn't want Vince to get a prenup ?? LOL hypocrite

WELP! seems like they are getting divorce now

Prenup this prenup that. Just don't get married

Me 2

Which is what Jeannie learned during her divorce. People change and you have to protect what's yours. I am so happy Adrienne has changed over the years and is wiser because had she kept that same mindset I would have been worried for her

That's how I use to think as well

Dalia Ali yes Adrienne is naive asl but she still is kinda young

Ok you smart ass.

She still is IMO

She isn't naive, she thinks that divorce would bring her so much of his millions. When your husband is rich, you aren't naive if he doesn't a pre-nups. Actually she is very smart.

After seeing so many videos of this show before coming to this one, I was not at all surprised she was the one to bring that point up. It is quite a common opinion though, even from the smartest of people. It's hard to balance the stigma vs the logic behind prenups. I just knew she would be the one to verbalize it.

For people watching the first time

LadyChaos101 WTF does that even mean? "Oh, let's fake your reaction because no one saw it the first time".

senorgato70 basically lol

I said the same thing when I first saw this episode 😩😂😭

They really do have to. It's just part of the talk show set up, the producers want them to. That's why they have to re- explain things that die- hard fans are used to

I thought I was the only one who heard Loni say that!!!

She really said that! 😂 love how real loni is!

In other words, Mariah is "old" money. Maybe not old as say the Kennedy's but she didn't just come into wealth

Uhm we saw the video and heard it dumbass

+promprom u can't be talking to me. Take your anger and direct it back to whoever hurt you as a child.

It just means that Mariah has had a lot of money for a very long time...

+rudegyaloving Your comment gave me life!!!

R.T. H it was that sign that was telling her that the divorce was upon them

Damn, did Loni just clown Tamar’s marriage?

she's engaged now . 💁

Exactly. Just because you are both very much in love now, does not mean that the possibility of something bad happening doesn't exist years from now. Not saying it will happen, but it's important that both parties protect themselves for when things do turn ugly.

+Pernell Yes! Yes ! Yes! She knows good and well that she did not marry him because she truly loved him or was the most attracted to him. She married him because he had a little coin.She has love for him as a person and now she has grown to tolerate him especially because she has a child with him. But she doesn't need to keep lying about it she can fool us but not God.

+AUser0000001 no . let me tell you why what you just said is simply just NO. Tamar got her own coin. if she cant survive off that, best believe she can live off that Toni braxton coin. Tamar did not under any circumstances marry vincent for his coin. that man was there for her when she really needed a REAL man, thats why she is IN LOVE WITH HIM. dont make her out to be some gold digger.

+AUser0000001 hol up. no one knows what god can be telling anybody. that's only between god and the person who he is trying to tell something to, reither if it's a sign or not. so stop "assuming" what you think. because your thought could be wrong. be careful what you say. and you don't know how Tamar fell in love with Vince.you don't look into a crystal ball and see the past or the future. no boobooski this isnt the smurfs.this is life.and Tamar isn't a "gold digger" because that's what your low key saying. you not slick.and I could careless if you posted this comment long ago.you don't understand Tamar&Vince's relationship. if you know Tamar&Vince's full story then you call me back. and if you don't? which Ik you don't..😒 you can several.💺💺

+AUser0000001 hol up. no one knows what god can be telling anybody. that's only between god and the person who he is trying to tell something to, reither if it's a sign or not. so stop "assuming" what you think. because your thought could be wrong. be careful what you say. and you don't know how Tamar fell in love with Vince.you don't look into a crystal ball and see the past or the future. no boobooski this isnt the smurfs.this is life.and Tamar isn't a "gold digger" because that's what your low key saying. you not slick.and I could careless if you posted this comment long ago.you don't understand Tamar&Vince's relationship. if you know Tamar&Vince's full story then you call me back. and if you don't? which Ik you don't..😒 you can several.💺💺

+AUser0000001 hol up. no one knows what god can be telling anybody. that's only between god and the person who he is trying to tell something to, reither if it's a sign or not. so stop "assuming" what you think. because your thought could be wrong. be careful what you say. and you don't know how Tamar fell in love with Vince.you don't look into a crystal ball and see the past or the future. no boobooski this isnt the smurfs.this is life.and Tamar isn't a "gold digger" because that's what your low key saying. you not slick.and I could careless if you posted this comment long ago.you don't understand Tamar&Vince's relationship. if you know Tamar&Vince's full story then you call me back. and if you don't? which Ik you don't..😒 you can several.💺💺

+maz g yep it is. When you are logical and being wise, then of course you see prenup as common sense. Some people think they can predict everything about human behavior when it come to break up or the future..

maz g yes and if you live in a dream world that everything that happens in a relationship just must be romantic as opposed to common sense then I hope you didn’t get a prenup and I hope you learn a good lesson in the divorce.

Ya because unlike you and ur partner build something together than you should, because it actually takes all of the financial pressure of the marriage. Because your money and ur issues don't become your partners issues which in some cases causes one to keep screts about it to the other etc

Ale Montero 😂😂😂😂😂 i cant with Tamar.. She always got answers

I think that is easier said than done. If someone was to cheat, for example, I don't think you have to put up with that.

I think she should have signed the damn pre-nup. No-one gets married with the intention of divorcing. It just happens. I don't have old, crinkled up dollar bills but if I ever get married, best believe the little I have is going to be protected.

Kenya Baker so he cheats on you with your sister, or gives you a disease, or beats you up...youre gonna work it out? but it is true that people give up too quick but sometimes its just not possible to go on. thin line between love and hate dear.

Kenya Baker What if the person you married wants to get a divorce.

+MrThekidisback They will probably refuse to sign it because "divorce is not an option" Tamar herself said didn't say it was impossible. She specifically said it was a last resort. When means she has exceptions to her rule. Like a wise person should have.

"never say never" anyone?

Keia Love-Black now that she’s married I hope not either and I REALLY hope that she was smart enough to sign a prenup

princesss mee

princesss does she wish she had a pre up now?

I mean it's still on in reruns

Every time it airs on tv she gets a check. It still comes on to this day so she's still getting checks from it.

According to my Google searches, her current net worth is between $4-8 million

Wealth wise at this table is Tamar, Tamera, Adrian, and then the other two. 7 mil, 3 mil. 2 mil, and then the 1s

My teacher said if a show runs for a certain of time, then a cast is set for life, like the cast of friends, they are set for life. Then there also how Tia and Tamera used that money, did they save it and invested in something as they got older or did they spend it like no tomorrow.

That's what they all said to try and fool a man .

+C Ali You have your reasons and its your choice. But there a lot of women and men who ended up regretting that decision because like Tamar said, people become unrecognizable in the even of a break-up. They will turn into an alien that makes you wonder if you ever even knew them. Men can become abusive after they become married. Divorce not being an option no matter what sounds like the fantasy of a child still believing in fairy tales. There are always exceptions to every rule. I happen to subscribe to the idea of marriage not being an option except in the case of domestic violence, child abuse, i find out he's a pedophile, he cheats on me regularly(with women young enough to be his daughter, are underage, my sister/family member) is a rapist, becomes a murderer or develops an addiction that it takes over his life and ruins the family such as gambling the family's saving and money meant for the kids. I will divorce a man under those circumstances. Period. And if i had a prenup, there will be stipulations in that contract that if we divorce because of those reasons, he will get nothing from me, i will get primary custody if we have children. Obviously, i get full custody if the divorce is because he is a pedophile/rapist. A prenup is there to protect me and the family we build together. Planning for a divorce is what wise people do because they understand that things can happen and people do change. It's someone willing to deal with reality. Stubbornly refusing to divorce a man who is abusing you, abusing your children and/or financially ruining your family because you don't want to be that woman who gets a divorce and want to stay married no matter what is a sign of foolishness and a selfish mind. And sadly, there are many men and women like this. We all hope for a relationship where both parties a fully committed to the growth and nourishment of the family and marriage. You keep your end of the bargain and he keeps his and doesn't do things to ruin what you've built together. That's amazing. I wish everyone this. But simple statistics and logic dictates things can happen and smart people prepare for it.

That's like saying I plan to have an accident and kill or mame somebody so I need inaurance. Or, I'm getting house insurance because I plan on my house burning down. Insurance doesn't cause a house fire or car accident.

Well, she s getting divorce now so...

Yet she's divorced

Where can you watch the full episodes

@Jenesis J yeah she said it after their divorce that she pays spousal support

Christina Alexander I was wondering that myself

octaviakf v

Moussa Keita its funny how you are depending on Wendy's information😭 copy past baby😂

Princess Bina Chosen 4 years later, she got divorced

Awkward. 😂

She said it would be the Last last last option. I guess they reached breaking point

+JIX9ISLER1986 a legal marriage is ALWAYS an contractual agreement, with or without a prenup.

C Will nope newcreeations.org/contracts-vs-covenants-why-the-difference-matters/

JIX9ISLER1986 with or without a prenup you can have a divorce, which automatically means that you can decide to break the covenant. Covenant may sound nice, but its just a Christian way of saying contract, because also with a prenup both sides agree to keep it even if the other side fails to keep the agreement. And if you read my comment correctly I said every LEGAL marriage.

C Will nope contract has the government in your marriage covenant has God in your marriage two different things newcreeations.org/contracts-vs-covenants-why-the-difference-matters/

Sanei Spencer it WAS a sign of what was to come for Tamar and Vince.....CATCH LOL

probably. but the main reason why you shouldn't sign it the day of the wedding is bc it won't hold up in court.

kandi ...real housewife star.

Luv4Animexoxo Kandi, writer of your favorite TLC and Destiny's Child songs/albums.

Venessa W after watching the clip just now I was kinda wondering the same thing...hmmmmm 🤔🤔

+Super Girl You make a good point in that a couple has to approach a prenup with a *healthy* mindset. You can't be getting one because you value and cherish your possession more than your marriage with that person, or out of distrust. But at the same time, you need to protect EACH OTHER. You get a prenup to protect BOTH spouses. When you sign a prenup that both parties agree on, what you've really done is protect one another should a divorce occur. A prenup prevents either spouse from acting crazy and trying to sabotage the other because the prenup restricts so much of what you can or cannot lobby against one another. Without a prenup, one spouse could go berserk on the other and practically ruin that person's life. We can only pray we don't end up with someone like that, but it doesn't always happen that way. It's all love and trust until someone stops loving and trusting. Life is not in your hands, it is unpredictable, so be safe and protect each other.

Nikki M it sure was!!