for the first story, absolutely not! It’s your BROTHERS wedding, and your husband won’t stay home, even tho it’s his best friends wedding, he should either stay home, or deal with a baby sitter for a couple days? Plus it’s a friend that is going to watch the kids, not a stranger..
This is exactly what I was going to put down. Like bro, it's her brother's wedding not his, so she should have the right to go and he should stay home.
that first one has me triggered. bonus: the toxic masculinity in the second story. DOUBLE BONUS: (the third story) his step mom can see the baby but HER MOM can't???
1st story: That is her brothers wedding you're asking her to skip, both of you are equally wanted by the brother at the wedding, also it sounds like she is always the one to stay home with the kids, if you are so against baby sitters then you should at least let your wife go out sometimes and you can take care of the kids since you are the reason she can't go out.
Fr. If her love language was actually gifts she would be grateful he got her that and put thought into it instead of saying she was expecting smtg more expensive
Ya i think kinda think she lied a bit saying that she's into the whole love language thing to so that she could be entitled to get expensive free things and then get upset when she don't like it, even though that's not what love language is love language is how YOU show affection so saying that "my love language is gifts" then that means that you like giving gifts to show affection
The first story: I get the fact that some babysitters aren't great, and you can be afraid to leave your kids with one but seriously, you're asking her to skip her own brother's wedding and using the 'He's my BEST FRIEND' excuse. The wife is normally always left to stay with the kids so you can skip out on one thing to let your wife see her brother get married. Both should go and just get a trusted friend to watch your kids for a few days. Suck it up husband.
Am I the a hole for letting someone else see my baby:No you are definitely not!All the step-mom was drop her home and that was it and on top of that the mom had 2 year old son!She obviously needed help and he didn't push out an entire baby.
For the 1st story- *The Husband:* That's my best friend's wedding you're asking me to skip for christ sake! Are you kidding me? *Me:* That's her brother's wedding you're asking her to skip for christ sake! Are you kidding her?!
Like seriously that’s her brother He’s is best friend but that doesn’t matter the fact that she said it’s been so long since she’s gone to a wedding is weird and the fact that it’s normal for him for her to stay home while he goes out and has fun is weird
Last his friend obv only got into it so she can tell other people about HER love language which was her way of saying get me a good gift that's expensive which makes her greedy and her way of gold-digging her friends.
Gift receiving isn’t even a love language, it’s gift giving. Love languages is about how you express love, not how you want love expressed. So yeah she’s a gold digger
okay but the last one had me so confused... Isnt someones love language the way they show their love to others? How can ur love language be receiving gifts?
I love these stories so much! I have watched tons of your vids and they are so interesting to see the food and listen to the stories. Tysm for making them!
and what type of medical conditon is that he can't be away from family, but he can go on an out-of-town business trip for two weeks. Giving me manipulator vibes
For the letting someone else see your baby, no you’re not the a-whole. First of all that’s YOUR MOM and you were alone after giving birth so obviously you’re not about to wait a few more days for your husband to get home. He wasn’t there for you and you shouldn’t have waited for a little promise. You needed the help with a newborn baby and he should have understood that. Also you’re the one who pushed the child out and had him inside of you, so you should get to decide who can see the baby.
For the first story, it was you’re bros wedding you’re NTA you should have been able to go! For the last story you friend seems like beep saying she wanted a present that was 200 bucks like you seem like you got her a pretty good gift she’s.NTA
1st you are not he's asking you to skip your brother's wedding and that's his best friend he should be the one skipping bc its not like they're related by blood and I get his paranoia but like you said a trusted friend not just a friend a trusted friend plus he's a parent too he should be the one staying home or a trusted friend should babysitter one time won't make anything bad happen.
For the first one u don’t need a sitter just a friend that’s free and if it matters so much to the husband he should stay cuz he doesn’t want a sitter so if he uses the bestie excuse for christ sake it’s her brothers marriage which probably won’t happen again
For the first story its like if your ingered you should not go to the hospital you should stay with your kids but if he gets sick he going to the hospital
Oh my god the first one it’s her brother’s wedding and your best friend of course you should let her go because it is her family that actually blood related you’re not so like maybe you shouldn’t for one sacrifice for your kids and be the equal parent do your wife as well so you definitely weren’t there he definitely was
nah, its just that sometimes the volume is different in each clip. The audio is from tiktok, so she could have just lowered her original audio or recorded the voiceover quietly.
