I can relate to the “what about me?” Part and sh¡t like that, the reason why is because when I was a little baby my parents never even took care of me, my grandparents did, and when my little sister was born, they gave her all the attention you can imagine, but now, they yell at me when I do stuff wrong, but for my sister, they just say “oh it’s okay! Just never do that again!” And when I have to do chore, I always say “hey what about my little sister?” And they yell at me saying “you never did chores when you were 6!” When I have a clear memory of me getting put in my room because I didn’t do my chores, and when I get good grades they always look at the baddest part, never proud of me and my little sister is always the best one (sorry for venting)
I hate when the father said " what happened to are little girl " you guys fault you guys ever care of him when she need you guys the most you guys not Dare there for him l hate that parents so much 😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
I suddenly realized why my brother hates me so much ( a few years before not now my parents realized why my brother hates me nd now we r a happy family ) Becuase after I was born I can't even talk I just laugh and it's wasn't my fault my brother tripped and I laughed I didn't even know I was a baby if I laughed it doesn't mean I'm teasing him and his friends laughed then he hated me and when I watch this video I realized why he hates me it's also because He thinks my parent don't care about him because of me
I can relate to what about me and the reason is so I’m an only child so I often have company over but when we have company over my mom gives all her attention to the company and get mad at me when I say stuff like when I have sleepovers she only tucks in the other person and not me and just says I’m being disrespectful and when I’m not letting the other person go first or,doing everything for the she gets mad but no one does anything like that to me sorry for venting this is just the only place I can talk about this cause I have no friends :,(
Me identifico le cuento mi historia yo era un niño muy feliz y mi hermana mayor de 25años en ese entonces tuvo un hijo pero mi padres le dieron demasiada atencion yo me senti triste por si hacia algo mla me regañaban y si el hacia algo mal no le decian nada 1año despues le ocurrio lo mismo que ami y nacio su hermano menor y la atencion se le fue y otro año despues a al pequeño le paso lo mismo y ahora cada vez que vienen mi atencion se va al infinito
Tbh I relate my sister was born less than a a yr and a half la8er than me and I’m the oldest so I never got attention when I do chores I ask abt my siblings my parents yell at me saying I’m old enough to do it myself and when I do smth wrong then they will torment me abt it like oh u can’t have this last month u did this wrong I just can’t with them anymore-
Yk my mom always adored my sis over everything like everything i own she would give it to her even if it shit as long as my sis wants it she gets it and she has been ignoring me
as the youngest i see what happens to my elder siblings. i understand them but because of that they think of me as a brat even though i did nothing. sure i want my siblings to be loved as much as me but because i am loved more (no offence to them) i’m just the annoying bratty spoiled little sister. they never cared to talk to me and when we got in fights my parents would my side which made them hate me more. they call me dumb and stupid when we’re in fights and they just try and act superior over me. i’m also “ the little scaredy-cat who doesn’t care about others” but i do care i do but they hate me so i have to hate them back. as a kid i had a fear of the dentist until 10 and just because of my bad teeth they blamed me for my bad teeth. and looking at elders points of view are younger siblings really that bad in your eyes?
My siblings could get away with everything I basically have a chance to say so do anything since I’m the oldest if I fall and get hurt “your ur oldest deal with it” my siblings they don’t have to do anything for weeks I sit In my room crying everyday knowing not loved as much as the others and what hurts the most is when the parents say they don’t have favorites when it’s obvious who they like more it’s always the oldest that’s gets left out the most bc they r the oldest the younger one is like a baby to the parents they can baby them and do more “fun” stuff they feel like the oldest have to do more responsibility then the youngest I love my siblings to death but sometimes I hate them bc of that so it’s like mixed feelings i don’t think ur siblings hate u I think they r jealous bc that’s not older siblings jealous bc of how much love they show u and they don’t get any
The youngest eyes r different bc they the one that r getting the love behind close doors u can never really feel how an older child feel unless ur in there shoes
I don’t understand why people think of the younger sibling bratty! I’m the youngest and one of my classes were filled with the oldest in there family kids.. they would always complain how “lucky” I was for being the youngest- even tho IM NOT THE FAVORITE CHILD! My parent treat me and my sibling equally and not love anyone more then the other or the other doesn’t get more treatment, ALL PARENTS ARE DIFFERENT! People have to understand that not all younger siblings are brats
@@bananarocket4491 we never said y’all youngest was like that we was telling our side of the opinion u might think that but u really don’t know how hard it is for the oldest but ur right all parents r different 💙
Some parents spoil the young child and the young child thinks I have the world in my hand and when the parents give some attention to the older child it thinks no I don’t like this so it gets it’s self hurt so it can have attention. It would do anything for attention
Omg I remember that I had a friend named Chicago and I signed up for basketball and that's when I first met him and 2 other people too. One named was vants and the other name was tomis and we all bonded up as a team to be basketball stars. Chicago asked me if I was using him for the basketball trophy. I said " no of course not your my best friend." Until we won the trophy and we were still friends. Until things changed. I gave him a friendship necklace and he said "why don't give yours to vants?." I didn't want to do that. Until the next day he said he lost the necklace charm. I gave my second necklace to vants. Until I went to 4th grade and Chicago went to 5th grade and vants went to 7th grade and tomis went to 5 grade too. But Chicago changed and he will not talk to me and wave to me. I feel so broken and sad because he was not wearing the necklace anymore. Pls put your comment in of what you think my sad story was? And no this it real life story to me.
warning.... this is very long. i can relate so much since im that older sister (im actually the middle but my older one moved to california). my younger sister is 6 years older and when she was born my parents paid more attention to her than me. my mom had time to play with my younger sister, but when i asked her to play when i was younger she was busy or not paying attention. when i was trying to do stuff (like drawing) my younger sister would sing so loud (and horrible not gonna lie) i would tell her to stop but my dad would tell me to leave her alone and told me i was the loud one. then when ive had a long and hard day my mum asked me to do something but i wanted to draw so when she finally yelled at me so i came then i told her that my younger sister to do it (she was soooo lazy and watching cartoons on my mums phone) could do it but then she said no and wanted ME to do it so (because im i was so irritated) i stuck my tongue out and went to do it. but before i could do it, she slapped me. and guess what? she never apologized. during dinner, she made my sister cry, and she keeps telling me not to do that. and guess what she said to her? she apologized. right in front of me, the person she didnt apologize to. man, i felt like hitting the wall with my hand until my knuckles bled. and whenever i did something, she would act as if i could do better. my sister also keeps acting nice and adorable in front of my friends. they say she does no harm, but look what state im in now. all my aunts and uncles and cousins all say hi to her when they come to my house. well, they notice me too, but im no show off, unlike miss ickle perfect. whenever i think of those memories (should i call them that?) i just cry. i wish i wasnt such a cry baby. also, whenever i did something (say, get one of her toys,) she would cry as if she'd been hit by a million cars. and ofc, i would get in trouble. whenever she did that to me, i would slap her arm and she'd cry and my mum or dad would tell me to give it to her. i was dumb. i though being older was fun. also, she is slowly becoming "best friends" with MY best friend. its not fair. my mum made promises to me she couldnt keep. she made promises to her she could keep. there are many things my sister has done, which i will not put in here.
What happened to your little girl was that ever since you're a perfect little second child was born was that she became the favorite and then you neglected your first child that's what happened to your little girl 😡
