"When you love someone, you work it out. You don't just throw it away. You might not get a second chance." Well said ! Unlike the old days, nowadays most immature adults do not get it. They only care about the sex and whether the partner can make them happy everyday (the way they wanted). If suddenly the passion is over or they are not happy any more, they will seek divorce or affair. No one is born perfect for each other. You work it out, you talk about it and you compromise because you love him/her. You accept their short comings and you support them no matter what. Unconditional and not keeping scores. If you focus on giving and gratitude instead of taking and satisfying your own greed/agenda/desire, it will work. It is love, caring for your partner, responsibility and commitment all together. Please don't get married if you can't do it. It will hurts both persons and their families. I saw this movie. Jake Gyllenhaal's acting was fabulous. Amy's too.
I totally agree with you. Just remember the verses about Love in Bible: Love is patient, love is kind. It doesn't envy, it doesn't boast, it is not proud. It doesn't dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs. Love doesn't delight in evil but rejoices with the truth... Love never fails. Amen ! Corinthians 13 4-8