Totally agree with you. It’s a cultural difference between Asian and Westerners especially when you were brought up and submerged for years. I think the most important point is balancing. There is no absolute right or wrong indeed except for moral responsibility generally. Keep it up my friend, you’re doing great. 👍🏻
You are such a good guy … although you know this for most is the dead end but yet you try … encouragement is not just for the kid but also for yourself .., if you don’t know your child is a genius or not by the of age 6 … is an issue not with the child but of the adult … keep going … you trying your best … keep positive and encouraging!