The lady is astute, intelligent and capable, but all these attributes are not the central criteria of a successful man compatible to her age. That mismatch is unfortunately the reality that many mid aged lades fail to realize.
三三, it is similar in the US, where it is illegal for an employer to discriminate against a job applicant because of race, color, religion, sex (including gender identity, sexual orientation, and pregnancy), age, national origin, or disability. So those questions are no-no during the interview. Stick around the UK for another 10-20+ years and you will get a deeper understanding and appreciation for the system there.
我们经历非常相似！曾经也会很焦虑，留学，事业晚起步，不知道什么时候遇到对的人，更不用说婚姻。去出名的公司面试，面试官和我同龄但对方已经是director，工作里也有不少和我年纪相似但已经是高管，或者就算不是高职也有自己的房子。我才刚开始呢，我这些自以为豪的经历是不是一文不值。其实焦虑是正常的，也是不可避免的。因为我们从小就被比较，社会已经把我们的道路指挥清楚，几岁该干什么，该达成什么。我们选择冒险走少数人的路，就意味着等待在前方的永远是未知。快接近30岁的那两年我总有一股焦虑，就是自己在加倍往前冲，但是前方就是那30岁的悬崖，而我在冲的路上也没什么工具。但是现在的我却很少有这样的焦虑了，内心十分满足。过了30岁，才发现其实冲到悬崖边后不是一定会往下掉，也可能从此往上飞，比如飞机。All that matters is know who you are, know what are your values, what kind of future you want to have (either for yourself or the society). 然后不卑不亢，继续前行。一起加油！
你人都在英國了，只要你肯拋棄馬列共產思想成為一位基督徒，你的追求者會立刻出現，他同樣也是一位基督徒！ It's easy to get out of singleness , As long as you become a Christian !! Your execllent and good husband will appear in front of your eyes ......really !!
