They should have told her even before coming to the set. The worst thing is Seola found it at the last min which is even more terrifying for her. But bravo to her, she really is so brave. and i hope the company dont force her to do it again unless she is willing to try it.
You should NEVER EVER put someone with a phobia directly with the phobic stimulus!!! ESPECIALLY as spontaneously as that! Have they lost their minds?! That's horrible
Wtf, why would you force a girl that is frighten of water to shoot under a freaking pool? It breaks my heart to see her begging the manager to let her skip the shoot and he acts so cold. Anyways, she's brave enough to face her fears and she did it.
@@horacthy8577 bruh wtf she has Aquaphobia which is can cause Seola and extreme amount of anxiety when she's near any source of water. They should've atleast taken her phobia into consideration before going through with this kind of shoot.
I cried a lot. A phobia can't be gone by plunging someone right in the middle of it especially at the last minute. It's frustrating because she just CAN'T she knows too that she has to but her body and her mind just won't listen it's a involuntarily thing and has nothing to do with how "courageous" someone is. Someone may be courageous and brave the darkness but if they have a phobia of tight places you can't shove them in an elevator and tell them to "be courageous" phobias are overcome with time, effort and professional leading not by plunging someone into it when they're shaking and crying and begging to not go. That being said she was hella determined and I know it was hard and this was all levels of wrong but she deserves a lot of support after all she had to go through.
That’s right I already get over a lot of phobia but aquaphobia (fear of water) will stuck with me forever I try to get over it and I success only one time but it keep coming
i have a really terrible blood phobia, and even just the smallest bleeding cut makes it difficult for me to breath, I've even a fainted one or two times and it actually really hurts when people laugh at me bcuz they think im being ridiculous. People should really take phobias seriously and not trivialize them. Phobias are deeply rooted for some people and it's really hard to deal with them
I have a phobia of balloons and many people find it ridiculous so matter how much i tell others, they never take my phobia seriously until i breakdown :(
I have a phobia of escalator and my friends and family would look at me with disbelief . Like...I tried a lot to calm myself down and even pushed myself to use escalator in shopping malls but the phobia won't go away. Only the ones who have to face the phobia understand how it affects psychologically.
Wow, This isn’t an “I don’t like water” It’s an “I am highly afraid of water and the thought of it is frightening” Did you see how quick she got out of the pool after she did it?
what's the problem with starship? they force wonho, who has a height phobia, to bungee jump and also forced the seola who has a water phobia to get into a pool? I hate this company more than anything in this world
I know what you mean, I also have known someone with a water phobia before, during school she'd have a panic attack whenever we had swimming classes and to make things worse she knew no english and was just starting to learn it since she only just left China and we were in grade 4. Except at school your forced to do stuff and she was taken by the teachers to swimming lessons during lunch break. I feel like no one cares when you have a phobia and force you to do what you dont want to anyways which is so unfair.
oh no im not kpop trash thank you for complimenting her ♡♡ and yes she's very brave and really strong .. she literally never cries even in during emotional times she never cry so for her to cry it must really be scary to her.
This is the most sickening thing i've ever seen. How can y'all be so calm about this? A phobia is not a joke, it's a fucking anxiety disorder and he had no right to force her to do something like that. This is just fucking wrong, i got so sick at even just watching her pain. I hope that manager was fired and that he doesn't find a new job anytime soon and i'm not going to take that back. You don't toy with a person's fear like that for your own benefit.
Fear is something that one must overcome but as much as I am happy to see her triumph against her fear, I do feel like seeing her coerced, forced against her will to overcome this is kind of mean.
@@charitosuchisa4831 bruh, a phobia is not just "fear" just like depression isn't just "sadness" there are ways to get over phobias that are handled by psychological professionals not clown managers and divers
@@kimlip6624 when she was scared of the water because of her phobia the captions say 'is she really going to just give up like this?' and make it seem like its her fault and that she can simply just overcome it
I'm crying. And i'm not even a fan or something, in fact that's the first video i have ever seen of them. I saw a post about it in ig and decided to check it out. My heart hurts for her poor girl :(
I watched this before but I have to watch this again. I started crying last time and I had to stop myself from crying this time. It was so horrible to make her do something like that.
This is why Seola and Yeorum have a special relationship❤️ If you will watch all WJSN videos, Seola seems too soft and kind when it comes to Yeorum❤️ my two bias
Jayylaa Chua honestly i know exactly how she feels. I have a phobia if cockroaches and even writing the word makes me feel sick. I could see the girls desperately trying to reassure her but when u have a phobia u cant be calmed down by logic, because my definition its an irrational fear. Im so angry that her company didnt address the concept with her and when they found out they went ahead with it anyway. The fact that she found out last minute is even worse. Imagine if she had a panic attack under water, her phobia would be so much worse at least now she was able to convince herself to do it after such a traumatic experience she probably would have difficulties with even that. Phobias take years to get over with professional help, you cant force someone with a phobia to do something thats so fucking evil. Poor thing forced herself to do it because her team and her career is that important to her but I know exactly how much she was suffering. Im so pissed off it was edited in a way to make it seem like it was a good thing after all because all they did was make her upset and probably worsen her phobia. The absolute last thing do with a person with a phobia is force them to do something, thats just pure evil
Atleast I got too see SEolah wet! You know wat I'm saying! Their group by the way is WJAssN so their reality shows should show their asses. Seolah underwater wet ass was so erotic! Manager oppa is right! She should do it! It is not evil, it is a business... Starship is not running a charity okay ... we WJAssN fans need to see wet ass too.
She is so brave and doesnt deserve to be treated like this, i want to know whats the point forcing a idol down into the water with water phobia, if you think its helping them its not, its only causing damage.
I have fear of heights even though my old school has 3 levels (the bottom part the middle part and the top part) and my class was literally the top one for 3 years out of 4 years that I have been there I still don’t know how I get that fear I also have fear of water
This is so fucked up.. She was literally on her knees begging yet they still forced her, not to mention they're making it seem like it's a funny haha thing when she was begging to the manager. She could literally get trauma from this what the fuck is wrong with the team...
When the Manager doesnt give a crap... Thank god her Members are nice enough to try and calm her down love groups like this where everyone can help each other at difficult times.
I have this phobia too..and I cried watching this..she shouldn't be forced to do this..but showed it to her slowly with some days- 😭 why did they do this-
I see y'all blaming everyone thinking it would've been better for her not to do this even though it was part of her work... Before I got into college, I had this phobia to everything sharp, such as knives, saws, spikes, needles and such... However, my major required me to use a lot of tools and machines, loud, heavy and very very dangerous... And I was so afraid, I would ask any other person to use them for me... But one day I had to do it... And it took its time, and I cried and I got very anxious but I got trough it SeolA got trough her phobia, she made it, it's possible
I think this photoshoot also helps Now she knows how to fight on her fears. It was so sad to watch this again but this video gives a good lesson. Thank you Seola for facing your fears it inspire me to do my best and be ready to face all the obstacles in my life, including my fears🥺😊.
im not a huge fan of wjsn (im kinda interested with them now bc of queendom) but ive liked seola for a little time now so someone told be about this video.. and now i cried so much shes so brave and im glad the members were there for her
Seola is so precious😭😭 she is so talented and beautiful! Pls stan thid girl she need more recognitzion she ever being a trainee for 10yrs;( so sad too see her debuting and doing something she is really hate! Eventho in the end she nailed this! So proud of her😭😭 PLS STAN SEOLA STAN WJSN!
Idk this group but this is torture why would u put someone who has this phobia in a situation like this...the manager might think its ok bc its not him....i feel so bad for her omg
Awww this made me cry just imagining myself in her situation I don’t like anything deeper than 5 feet like I’m irrationally afraid something will eat me idk but watching that gave me chest pain but I’m also glad she was able to conquer that
I don't know why people are praising this. Being forced to confront a phobia in an environment that is not dedicated to her psychological safety is not ok. Yeah, she did it, but I highly doubt she's "over it" or healed in any way because of this experience. She didn't want to do it and she's surrounded by people telling her, in gentle and soft tones, that she has no choice. This whole situation is very upsetting.
When I watched her struggle to get into the water my heartbeat became faster. I know exactly what she felt. It must be very hard for her, but she did it very well 💕
Many people are afraid of going into water and that's not a bad thing maybe she doesn't have water phobia and just never learned how to swim and that is fine to have a fear of the water even though I am a lifeguard I still respect the water as a danger
Sadly I can relate to her on how she feels I start to get really anxious when I get inside a pool so I decide to just get out but she is very brave to do this❤
I have the same fear due to almost drowning twice before the age of 12. My brother and a life guard saved me the 2nd time...i can not tolerate more than 6 feet of water before I freak out. I worked my way from staying clear of pools of water to 6 feet of water on my own...it took years. If I were pushed like her I wouldn't have made it. She's brave but that could've turned out bad.
watching this makes me wanna cry not only because of seola but also because of me. I am afraid of water too because of my past and I cant get any closer to the deep water. it make me really scared
I think facing your fears can be empowering when you yourself choose to do so on your own time but personally this just felt sad to me. It shows SeolA is strong but her being forced to confront her fear and bearing the pain isn't empowering, it probably could've made the fear even worst afterward. Fears aren't always something you need to "conquer". And the way the subtitles seem to frame it as this encouraging heartwarming story of not giving up (even the shakira music is a little too much) when the poor girl deserved a break and shouldn't be pushed past her boundaries for something so trivial was just wrong. I'm sure she felt proud of herself afterward, as she should, and will always remember that she could do it, but this just wasn't necessary to make her do. Yes, face your fears- when *you* want to or don't want it to have power over you, but it's okay to have a comfort zone! Not everyone will be able to face their fear this way and that's okay. Thankfully she had a lot of support. I don't even know her but seeing her cry made my heart break.
i know everyone wants to praise her for being "brave" and going thru with it but it doesn't seem to me like she was given an actual choice or taken seriously. imo she shouldn't have had to be "brave" they should have respected her when she asked not to