𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐔𝐩 𝐆𝐚𝐲 | 𝐄𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐁𝐚𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐑𝐨𝐨𝐭𝐬 & 𝐄𝐱-𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲

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Dr. 𝐉𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧 𝐑𝐢𝐱's journey from a devout Baptist upbringing to accepting his true self is a testament to courage. Initially seeking ex-gay therapy in college to align with his faith, he soon realized the deep conflict within.
More videos from Dr. 𝐉𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧 𝐑𝐢𝐱:
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲: • 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐂...
𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬: • 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐞...
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@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

More videos from Dr. 𝐉𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧 𝐑𝐢𝐱: (doctorrix.com/) 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-2LFDnFNzc0g.html 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-c4xt-EuPpz4.html

@jimmywhite3922 9 месяцев назад

Thank you, Thank you, and God bless you. Old well, not old..but 67) Southern Baptist here. It's such a tragedy that the church can't figure this out. ❤

@lynnhoffman90 9 месяцев назад

We have a similar life story. We may never know why God made us special but living an honest authentic life is key to happiness. Thanks for sharing your story.

@melb8606 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for your strength,, and for making this video. I think that your situation was quite common. I went through something similar in rural Alberta in the late 60s and early 70s. I ended up married for a very long time out of a sense of loyalty, and a feeling that I couldn't abandon a wife who was not well. The most liberating thing that happened to me was coming out finally, at 59.

@AZguy55 9 месяцев назад

When I was a child the word gay still meant happy. Homosexuality was not an option. Had I seen other people like me or positive examples of happy healthy queer people, the road to acceptance would have been a much easier path. Grateful for what I have been through in order to get to where I am today. ❤ Paul

@ronsmith2241 9 месяцев назад

I can so relate. I was a Baptist Pastor and missionary in Indonesia. My wife and I married and we had two great kids. I came out to her and she was very accepting. I resigned from the ministry and worked for a mining company and completed my accounting qualifications. I went through 13 years of reparative therapy including electronic shock therapy here in Australia. So abusive. It didn't work. My wife developed MS and I cared for her for almost 26 years before she passed in 2022. My kids are very accepting. I have 4 grandsons. But I am now free to be the gay man I always was. SO good. I'm not looking for a husband. Too old now. I wrote a paper on What Does the Bible Actually Say About Homosexuality. It was published on a large website in the USA and in the first month 7700 replied back to the publisher and 7000 (90%) agreed with what I wrote. The gay accepting church I am affiliated with now is very accepting.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Ron, how do I look up your work?

@gawainwoolfrey6229 9 месяцев назад

@@lgbtqarchivesif it's the same article I managed to find, go to Google Scholar. It was a great read.

@sylviamcdaniel4590 9 месяцев назад

Beautiful story. So glad you finally found your truth❤

@toomiepal 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for your thoughts music and changing how it is part of your life. I was a professional puppeteer for over 40 years but had to give it up due to health issues in 2016. This has been very hard. It was my joy and identity from age 13 and my career. I'm still trying to find my "what's next." It is wonderful that you found yours. Best wishes!

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

That's a pretty massive change after doing a job you love for 40 years. How did you even cope with that?

@toomiepal 9 месяцев назад

It's a long story... Fortunately I have always had interests outside of being a puppeteer and still do. Most recently, knitting. I've met fiber friends through zooms, etc., from over the USA and the world. But it is not a "next." A career in the arts is hard work and challenging, but I always loved performing with puppets. I joked I would die with a puppet on my hand but my body had other plans. I'm a survivor of pancreatic cancer. That's pretty good! I enjoyed seeing your photos of you and your friends. Fantastic, fun costumes! Smiles! Best wishes for your work and 2024! @@lgbtqarchives

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

@@toomiepal You've been through a lot. I'm so happy to have you here my friend. Maybe one day when the right time comes, you'll share your story with the community. We have a lot to learn from you.

@richarddamico5639 9 месяцев назад

The piano had me in a trance. It was just beautiful.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Thank you very much ❤️🎹

@billTO 9 месяцев назад

@@lgbtqarchives and the keys aren't dusty!

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

@@billTO ha ha ha, no they’re not. I do play a lot 🎹

@MegaPodcaster 9 месяцев назад

Thank you thank you for telling your story. I was captive in the church for far too long. Music ironically kept me there. Your story of letting go sooner is so cathartic. Hugs.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

I'd like to know more. If you're interested in contributing to these archives, please do let me know. Thanks

@jeffwatkins352 9 месяцев назад

You bring to the fore a question I've always wrestled with. Why didn't I have the same struggles you did? I grew up in if anything a more suppressively right-wing environment than you did, yet never suffered the kind of repression you did. I suppose one answer is I never came out as completely as you, while never suffering as you did. Thank yyou for your honest heartfelt story. You're a beautiful man. Wish I'd known you. Wish I could have been like you.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

There's more footage to his story that will be published soon. It's the 'coming out' to his parents part. I believe he came out to them right after college. There was a meltdown, and he almost lost them. Obviously, if he hadn't come out and had let things be, none of that would have happened... at least not on that level. It would have been a matter of internal struggle, I guess. But by then, he had already moved out. Nonetheless, he was still heavily connected to the church, and that changes everything. Like he says in another video, we all live in tight bubbles.

@jeffwatkins352 9 месяцев назад

@@lgbtqarchives What a roller coaster of emotions and personal alliances he had to endure! My heart goes out to him, and thank you so much for highlighting and clarifying. So dear and gifted a person should never have to suffer such pain. How wonderfully heroic he should come though it with his gleaming joy undimmed.

@RT3319 9 месяцев назад

Ooooo, was hoping to hear him on the piano - beautiful..! Thanks for including that in the video.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Unfortunately, he didn't have much time, so I wasn't able to record him playing after the interview. However, when I meet a guest who is musically inclined, I usually record a fresh piano arrangement that incorporates elements from their songs. That's exactly what I did for this video. I believe Jallen's songs are still available online. It would be nice to record the guest playing nonetheless.

@juanrodino4219 9 месяцев назад

Excelente enfoque y, GRACIAS por ser tan claro con tus palabras.

@SpuktasticAudio 9 месяцев назад

I love these vids. Thank you.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Appreciate your support. ❤

@manoelcamillio9268 9 месяцев назад

This was an incredible story to listen to. I’m a little confused about that piano music towards the end. So that song came from Jallen’s album? I really appreciate these stories.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Thanks a lot. Ok, so years ago when Jallen was an active musician/singer/songwriter, he produced a number of albums. I wanted to end his video with a music that was inspired by one of his melodies. So I recorded this fresh new arrangement that loosely uses a theme/melody from one of his songs called "I Would Choose You". So this exact piano piece did not come from his album, but the general idea or melody did. Not sure if I was able to answer your question.

@rhodes1948 9 месяцев назад

👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️

@andrewaway 9 месяцев назад

You are amazing.❤

@yannis2058 5 месяцев назад

Lovely personality ❤

@1aikane 9 месяцев назад

I could add a chapter to this topic!!

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

You are invited my friend! My e-mail is in my RU-vid profile.

@tvmasterc Месяц назад

My best friend killed himself 40 years ago. We were fourteen. We never had sex but he was my first love. This event alone messed me up bad. To rub salt in the wound, my stepmother said he was in hell. Southern Baptists were like that. No sympathy at all. David was the son of a Baptist minister and ran a suicide help line (just not for gays). I walked away from religion and God for a very long time, blaming Him for the bad actions of religious people.

@lgbtqarchives Месяц назад

What an EVIL EVIL EVIL religion! Shame on everybody who contributed to his death. They're all guilty. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this experience. I would've loved to do an episode and honor your best friend's legacy. I feel terrible for both of you.

@tvmasterc Месяц назад

@@lgbtqarchives ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-HX7gayzaODE.html

@tvmasterc Месяц назад

@@lgbtqarchives I am down for it! I longer care who knows, because I have been through too much!

@peterduncan1519 8 месяцев назад

sounds too familiar

@Markyrob 9 месяцев назад

Where are your credentials???

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Are you asking for medical credentials? For that you would have to contact Jallen Rix directly through his own website or social media.

@tihgger7466 9 месяцев назад

Duh... we all have are own story of growing up gay... why should yours be any more important than anyone else's.

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

When did he exactly say his story was any more important that someone else's?

@Shakebeforyoudrink 9 месяцев назад

@tihgger7466 What a dumb Karen! Why would you even say something like that?

@lgbtqarchives 9 месяцев назад

Yeah, that was a weird comment! Telling stories is what humans do! Even Cavemen did it through paintings like 50000 years ago, and this guy is throwing a tantrum because people are sharing their stories! lol

@jamesrobiscoe1174 4 месяца назад

I'm sure guys would be interested if you told yours. Give it a try. Write it on paper first, though, so you can review it before it's read. You just might find you have more understanding with guys who have been through the gantlet of social pressures and emerged stronger, and the victor. I always remembered someone telling me that I had to love myself before I could expect anyone else to.