1- i think it would not be selfish to leave because you gotta look out for yourself and what you want 2- if she enjoys it then just let her do it, it takes like 5 minutes out of every week or so, its something she enjoys and you have to support her interests 3- i was oh your side at first because its your house and sometimes people have to give up things because of their kids but the fact that you specify said you would have caved with anyone else YTA you cant have different rules for different people 4- this is sweet 5- you shouldn't of gotten involved, like stephan was kinda dumb for doing it publicly but it had nothing to do with you
yeah for number 3 my problem is shes tryna act like everythings fair and shes unbiased but shed have changed the rules for everyone else. i'd say esh, bc while miss lady shouldn't have kids over if she can't take care of them while they're there, op is acting like they're unbiased and "rules are rules" but theyd quickly change the rules for anyone else.
