No one is first :) First story: he only wants the mutual friend because he likes her looks... Theres more than just looks and clearly can't appreciate op. It sounds like a relationship which will just be a waste, on op part as he knows he doesn't feel anything for op yet he still got into a relationship. Its his own fault. Story two: maybe if she hadn't threatened op then I might find them an a-hole, but its honestly her own fault and op shouldn't be expected to fix her mistakes, especially not after threatening op. Story three: no, they can find something else to eat if they are so hungry. Its unfair to op and the daughter not getting any food, they needed to learn how to leave enough food for others. Story four: why bother staying? He cheated and got a girl pregnant, its not op responsibility to allow some random kid into house. I wouldn't have bothered continuing the relationship. Story five: i agree he shouldn't have cheated, but i don't agree op should cheat back. It doesn't make op look good to future partners if they learned they cheat, revenge or not. Whats stopping them not cheating for fun? Story six: if they can't take care of there kids, then why have kids? They are just using the parents as free babysitting and don't want to take responsibility for there own kids they keep having. Feel bad for op
