9:40 This story pissed me off completely. YES YOU ARE TA!! You are doing the exact thing autistic people don't want you to do, and that's treat them or see them as a child. There are many adults that like Barbie dolls and toy ponies. That's just a fixation she has. She likes talking about her interests, just like any other person. Not everyone is going to have the same boring hobbies as you do. There is nothing wrong with her interest or the fact that she likes to draw. Her not making eye contact, is part of being autistic (Sometimes, I am aware that everyone is different). You are an ableist and incredibly judgemental. You literally don't want to invite her BECAUSE she is autistic. Not because you think she's a child. Your husband should call off the wedding completely, because I would not want to marry someone like you. You must be fun at parties🙄
1- yikes, not even gonna touch that 2- NTA, fuck ur family they wouldn’t leave you alone and you didn’t really come out. Sure you kinda blurted it out but only after being fed up. As well ass, you had said it to one person she spread it around and your family deadass had a meeting about it 3- ehh not really, she should do a better job at being a parent, better yet an adult, and teach her child stealing is wrong and you will go to jail. Most 6 year olds know that stealing=jail 4- NTA, that shits crazy
6:51 - Hello! I’d like to begin with saying that this is absolutely normal K-pop fan behavior. And the constant need to buy merch, albums and photo cards is a common problem shared within K-pop fandoms. As a fan of several years, simply don’t buy these things for her, or instead encourage her to make K-pop crafts and accessories. And if you do decide to purchase items like photo cards and such, I would recommend extensive research or purchasing from a trusted company/website. Because unfortunately many people sell fake duplicates for a similar price as the authentic ones. The sleep schedule and attitude, as well as neglected schoolwork: I can’t help you there unfortunately. As this is a personal issue that you might like to converse with her rather than consulting Reddit. It’s quite common in the fandoms to collect, but if she doesn’t have the money to pay for the items she desires, simply do not give her the money. Photo cards are NOT the same as books. Many fans tend to open albums just for the excitement and thrill that it presents, then cast it aside only to never look at them again. I believe that eventually she will learn to appreciate the music rather than physical albums. My final advice is; don’t fuel her purchases with providing her with money. And personally, making lists of events, comebacks, schedules and releases of my favorite groups / soloists helps me to express my adoration and love for these groups without feeling the need to constantly purchase new albums. I encourage you to chat with your sister regarding your family’s situation. Maybe this realization will finally reach her if you really strive to explain and underline the kind of situation your family is in, and maybe then will she finally understand your side of this story.
Story 1: he cheated and his friends covered it up, and yet op is cnildish for ghosting them. How does that make sense? Story 2: sure humanity has done worse but there still fking kids who were getting offed, why tf can't op cry?? Thats depressing Story 3: yta, don't promise something you don't intend to keep. And it was honestly unfair to say they can keep the dog only to turn around on your promise Story 4: honestly they sound insufferable, nta Story 5: tf?! I hope op left him, op was suffering and was drugged and he can't pay a few extra dollars?! He clearly doesn't care about op Story 6: im gonna have to say nta, she honestly needs to shut up. No one cares about her sexual preferences or sexual experiences, she sounds annoying Story 7: nta, she should've fessed up. And I've been in a kinda similar situation, i almost failed a class i needed for credits. And i actually said something and got my grade high enough to pass that class
the last and second last story i personally think the person telling the story is the actual ASSHOLE first of all if she did not like the joke she did not laugh this just shows that she has SELF RESPECT and second if you don't want to tip her then don't why want to explain and be a karen the last story BRO JUST SHUT THE DOOR ITS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.
The one with the dog was 100% his fault it's his dog that needs to be trained she's not asking for you to deal with her period but to control your dog with some training
No one is first :) First story: he only wants the mutual friend because he likes her looks... Theres more than just looks and clearly can't appreciate op. It sounds like a relationship which will just be a waste, on op part as he knows he doesn't feel anything for op yet he still got into a relationship. Its his own fault. Story two: maybe if she hadn't threatened op then I might find them an a-hole, but its honestly her own fault and op shouldn't be expected to fix her mistakes, especially not after threatening op. Story three: no, they can find something else to eat if they are so hungry. Its unfair to op and the daughter not getting any food, they needed to learn how to leave enough food for others. Story four: why bother staying? He cheated and got a girl pregnant, its not op responsibility to allow some random kid into house. I wouldn't have bothered continuing the relationship. Story five: i agree he shouldn't have cheated, but i don't agree op should cheat back. It doesn't make op look good to future partners if they learned they cheat, revenge or not. Whats stopping them not cheating for fun? Story six: if they can't take care of there kids, then why have kids? They are just using the parents as free babysitting and don't want to take responsibility for there own kids they keep having. Feel bad for op
Story 1: i would recommend therapy... That's all I got Story 2: they deserved to be charged, they need to mind there business and yelling at a 2 year old? Clearly they need to be humbled. Plus what if they said taht to an actual minor who did indeed have children but it wasn't because she wanted them to begin with, that would just be insensitive and bringing possible trauma up for the poor girl Story 3: i honestly would do the same, family or not. Hurt me or be with someone who hurt me, I'm dropping them. I don't care. Story 4: shes overdramatic, its ridiculous for op to pay for everyone. They should pay for themselves, it isn't op responsibility. Story 5: she honestly sounds annoying, and sne honestly needed to shut the fk up. No one cares who she wants to fk. Story 6: that's a perfect reason to leave him! Its a fking wedding, hes literally throwing a tantrum over not being invited. And he was overreacting, getting people to call op and claim he was in a accident?? Thats Insane. Story 7: she shouldn't be released be begin with, shes clearly danger to society. I hope op and there family go into hiding or witness protection, who knows what she'll try to do now
Story 1: I feel bad for both of them. Men are really scary and I can actually understand the girlfriend, because she didnt know if she could be hurt if she didn't go along with the guy and it's obvious she didn't want to. But she should of told him earlier. I don't see it as cheating or her being weak, just a bad and scary situation
