The story got me so bad like I hate how her family cut her sister out of her own child life even though she was dead that doesn’t make it right to hide the truth for years
Exactly like they literally cut her out of the child’s life she was right to tell the child the truth the aunt and father are the ones at fault y’all should’ve told her
You are NTA for all of them! 1st story: this is why people need to tell their children the truth and not wait years to inform them or they find out. 2nd story: technically, you didn’t propose at the wedding, more like after, towards the end of the day. 3rd story: you are a bridesmaid, not a cleaner/mover. 4th story: YOU bought most of the house and for him to say that makes you look like your selfish. People would forever think that he bought the house and most likely won’t believe you if said otherwise. 5th story: your father is abusive and that is not normal! You should cut contact.
Personally, I don’t think it would be normal for it to be regular punishment but if someone does something horrible, I’m not sure I could say the same. Some parents have different discipline methods. Hitting a child for discipline is not very common in parents nowadays but there are parents who still do. I don’t think the dad in this story is really abusing his daughter because from my point of view it sounds like he still really cares for her. Maybe it’s just his way of parenting 🤷♀️
that first story was so messed up. and just to say Ur not the asshole! and she deserves to know who her real mother is and you telling her was the right thing otherwise she would have gone through years of not knowing then finally maybe loads of years later finally knowing and it hurting even more to know they were lying for so long. so no not the ass.
1 - It’s so disgusting how Laura’s parents were being so disrespectful to Kim, they didn’t even keep the name she chose. 2 - If I’m understanding correctly, you’re not the a-hole. It’s not like something bad happened as a result of you proposing during the wedding, even though you technically didn’t proposing during their wedding. 3 - If they’re being able to relax before the big day, then why shouldn’t you be able to do the same? It’s not fair, they should all work together to get the wedding ready, and then relax for a bit. It’s weird, but at least it isn’t unfair. Your duty as a bridesmaid isn’t to move everything around, if the day was really special, they wouldn’t have a problem paying the money after you worked for the entire beginning. If they didn’t have the money, that’s their problem, they should’ve expected this and been prepared since this was possible outcome because not everything turns out the way they want. 4 - I have nothing to say about this. It’s so disgusting and gross that he’d do this to his dead wife. 5 - You made that decision to spend a lot of money on the house because you love him and he wants to be rude and ignorant towards that sacrifice you made just because he wants to look good? That’s messed up and he was still thinking of saying it in his speech after you talked about how uncomfortable it made you feel. 6 - I feel like he shouldn’t hit you on your face, maybe like hit on the hand, wrist, leg, idk. If you’re an adult, bad decisions you make should be his fault for not using the 18 years of your life trying to teach you better. I’m also pretty sure a lot of the things he’s doing is illegal, you should’ve called CPS when he started to take away food from you. Bless your fiance for showing you that what he is doing isn’t normal.
The thing I don’t get if someone proposed in secret no one is paying attention to it. It’s not taking away from whoever’s getting married so why does it matter. Now if he got on stage and did it the pop off but he didn’t so what’s the problem
If you’re any ethnicity that isn’t white lol jk, yes, all races beat their kids, but it’s not normal that he was starving her or hitting her in the FACE.
The story when the “is it normal to be hit as an adult”:I’m assuming the girl is Asian and the boy is American Lol and ye it’s actually extremely not Normal
Lol, I get how it’s easy to think the girl is Asian, but a lot of races beat their kids. White people don’t really beat their children though, which I honestly think they should.
For the 2 one, my uncle proposed to his gf at my aunties wedding, and she was happy for him, so i don't get why the people in that got so worked up about it 🤔
Nta in the first one a child should know who there real mother is instead of calling her aunt mommy bc that's how she grew a knowing her real mother would want her to know
2nd story NTA I think what they don't know don't hurt them they only had a problem after they announced they proposed if they didn't know I don't think that argument wouldn't happen I'm not an adult but I don't understand why people get mad at proposing at another's wedding if they didn't announce it to anyone else till like a week later just my opinion no hate pls 😅
right, they didn’t do it with the intention of stealing the spotlight from the married people, they did it in private where the wedding wasn’t going on.