Yeah, not a dead person but a dead animal.. I was going crazy over a smell, I have a REALLY good sense of smell. Like really good, I once smelled a burning building before everyone did, (next to us). So I couldn’t stand the smell, I felt so sick, weak, stomach pain and horrible nausea. I was going insane, no one else seemed to care about the horrible rotting smell, so after 3 days someone came to our house to inspect the smell, it was a dead snake. I can’t imagine a dead person.. but just that alone and I’m still sick two days after..
@@ellisburgess3946 Most people would consider it rude and disrespectful because the bride is supposed to be in white and only her cuz she is the star of the show. . .and the groom too. I doubt family would say something just like the girl in the video, only the brides mother (auntie) said something but everyone else could sense the ignorance of one wearing white. Not calling you ignorant, but its generally a wrong thing to do in a wedding
Story 3: op reminded her she was beautiful regardless. You can tell a little girl she’s beautiful as much as you want. But it’s not going to make a difference when the cousins and classmates tease ber for it
I don’t understand people who hate unibrows. My brother has a thick sharp unibrow and I think it just makes him look even more handsome tbh. My parents, siblings and I used to tease him about it when he was younger, stuff like “you doing an advertisement for Macdonalds?” or “Only 9 and already got a mustache?! Amazing!”, nothing too serious. He grew up loving his unibrow and swore he’d never wax it no matter what. He’s a confident handsome fella and everyone loves him just the way he is. I’m very upset this little girl is being made fun of for being unique... I guess the whole unibrow thing is especially harsher on girls, huh?
but its going to make her believe she isnt pretty all the bulling i had made me want to hurt myself it would start with the name calling but then turn violent at a quick speed.
did the wife tell her husband " so you want our daughter to be bullied by her cousins and her classmates? I told her she was pretty and everything but her cousin had the say in it...so instead of yelling at me teach that kind of to your cousin."
"Am I the asshole for wearing white to her wedding?" Hm... *Yes?* It's not about you being comfortable, it's about HER being comfortable. By excusing yourself saying that "she is blind" you're only being more insensitive. It wouldn't kill you wear another color for a couple of hours, jeez...
No shes not she Is just wearing white to the wedding doesn't everyone? She's not being selfish also there's not a word in the dictionary called confartable it's comfortable
@@pinkszcels It's not "just" wearing white. It's wearing white to a WEDDING. It's rude and disrespectful. Damn, even her bf and family told her she was wrong, why are you defending her?
12:34 Yes, yes you are. I doesn't matter is she can't see, you are taking attention away from her when it is her day. You can wear white any day and yet you chose a wedding? You were even warned beforehand and did it anyway. You better apologize.
Cream and like grey. Honestly, white is traditional for the bride. This was just disrespectful although she didn't intentionally do it and should learn her lesson
Yeah but you shouldn't wear something to catch other's eyes So I would wear like a white skirt Nothing poofy and tight (Especially if it is super long)
I only wore white at a wedding when I was the flower girl per bride's request. She as a grown adult should know wearing white isn't allowed at a wedding. Could she just wear a different color for one day?! Is it that important to be shinning bright at someone else's wedding?! Get ready because I can already see all her family wearing white at her wedding and her getting all mad
For the last story I looked into it for a part 2 or an edit and I found it. Basically it was her getting mad and saying everyone is dictating what she wears and basically saying there’s no way she’s an asshole and everyone else is the problem.
Story 2: NTA. And I’m glad the parents did punish her and didn’t tell op to get over it. Also that’s not a prank. You don’t cut people’s hair. What op did was just fair play
It was awful wat the little sister did but it was also fucked up that the op cut her hair every night for 2 reasons. 1. If she makes her hair short again, she cant whine about her hair being cut off cuz she should leave it then so the sister doesnt even deserve a punishment anymore when the op is cutting her hair even shorter. 2. What the little sister did wasnt okay, but what if she chose the first punishment and got that haircut, it would all be for nothing cuz the op is trimming her hair, so that would be so unfair. I'm glad the op finally decided that she was overreacting.
@@MarianneHekkema9116 I'm not saying you're wrong, but personally, I dont think Op was being messed up. I think what she did was reasonable. I mean, your beautiful long hair was just cut into practically nothing. Personally, I have long medium hair that I'm proud of so if anything happened to it I would cry forever. The sister was dumb, pranks are supposed to be both sided but ruining ones appearance would make one side laughing if that makes sense.
@@user-yb5uo6gy7j yea, it kind of did, that’s a designated color for the bride. You try showing up in white to a wedding and see how the people there like it.
The story about using someone’s house after finding out his fiancé used to date the girl that’s hosting the wedding. Is that guy serious? You are not comfortable around the host but want to use their house still??? So damn stupid
i mean i think that the guy was down right a bitch. He is NOT comfortable around the guy but wants his house? TF? It just doesnt make sense to me atleast
@Danielle Jones While that does sound reasonable, you also have to think of something else. If this fiancé is jealous and stupid enough to do what he did, then why the heck would you allow him to get your house. This guy, doesn't what his fiancé ex in their wedding, but wants to use their house. Kinda giving me only-invited-her-for-the-house vibes.
On top of that the friends were calling them a**holes and saying they should just give the house for the weekend?! What? They should throw that whole friend group away.
I thought everyone knew white was off limits- For guests to wear at a wedding- Even if it makes you comfortable, can't you find a different dress or something?-
‘Am I the __ for wearing white to her wedding?’ Yes, yes you are. Just because you feel comfortable and confident in white doesn’t mean you can wear it to somebody else’s wedding, instead of wearing another color you are going to ruin your cousins wedding? If you think its okay to wear something thats comfortable to you to somebody else’s wedding, then lets see people showing up to your wedding in white hoodies and white sweatpants. Then you can’t complain because you wore white to your cousins wedding because you are comfortable in it, everybody is comfortable in white and everybody is comfortable in sweatpants and hoodies.
I don't really agree with your comment but it's your opinion I'm just going to say my opinion I don't feel like she is there __For wearing white to somebody who was blinds wedding 1st of all if she felt comfortable and confident wearing it then no 1 should be rude to her if might be her cousin's wedding but she could wear whatever she wanted whether she was her guest or not
@@aftinthomas1390 I, respectfully, disagree with you. Even though her cousin may be blind, it's still disrespectful to wear white. It is important that a bride stand out in her own wedding and other guests wearing white could be seen as trying one-up her. It's kind of like everyone singing happy birthday to you and then when you go out to blow the candles someone else does it with you, or does it for you. The feeling isn't nice and it makes them seem a little narcissistic.
@@aftinthomas1390 I disagree with you because a wedding day is supposed to be a brides special day which is why they should stand out I mean if you were having a wedding and somebody showed up ina wedding dress idk abt you but I would be disgusted.
I want to say something about the story where Karla and Rick were getting married and wanted to have their wedding at the op's house In my opinion, the op is completely right. Why should they leave their house just so Karla and Rick can have their wedding? But in my opinion it's more than that. If I were op, I wouldnt say: you cant have your wedding at my house cuz I dont want to leave it for you. I would have said: I wasnt invited so you cant be on my property. If they wanted to give their party somewhere else like in a mansion I own or anything I still would've said no. Maybe I'm not there at the moment of the wedding but it's still my property and they dont have to be there when I'm not invited :)
" But why it my wedding!" " so your fine with me leaving my house to a bunch of people I don't know with our stuff in it ? why don't I just open the door and invite random people in that just say "come and steal from me!" :
8:21 Dude, it’s totally 💯 fine to choose to present yourself in a way that makes you feel comfortable! The daughter was feeling bad already, and the mother simply helped her feel more comfortable. Learning to love yourself the way you are is a process, not something a young child should have to deal with, and avoiding bullies in developmental years is a good start.
I saw a story like it (idek if it was the same story but it was the exact same wording and plot) and she said that she had a talk with the cousins again idk if it was the same story so maybe I’m mixing them up. Also I think that no matter what she said to the cousins or to her daughter that bullying would’ve stuck with her. I feel like she had good intentions and just went about them in a way that some people find bad.
Last story: cool. There’s plenty of other colors to wear. Glad the aunt called her out. It doesn’t matter if she’s blind. You don’t wear white at a wedding that’s not yours. And yes. She absolutely did it because her cousin is blind.
@@user-yb5uo6gy7j Yeah, but it was still disrespectful that she didn’t ask. (Please don’t take that as offense, I’m really not trying to start a fight)
5:48 this whole story happened to my uncle although he was the one dead. Apparently he was found in his apartment dead basically decomposing with flys all around him. He had died in his sleep and then was robbed. They found him two weeks after he died.
@@janedoeslostsoul as long as no one gets hurt it should be There's a lot of trees and waterfalls so the photos will be beautiful, if I end up doing a video I'll post it
For the wearing white to the wedding, I feel like it would have been OK if she asks the bride but she didn't. Personally, I would be ok if somebody chose to wear white at my wedding but others might not be, so I think it's always good to ask.
I don't know you feel like it's up forgiven forget because 1st of all she wore white turtle wedding without asking and then she tried to justify it by saying she was blind so she couldn't see it which was even more insensitive
Yeah, I think she was a bit dramatic with like living 3 feet away from a dead body but it really makes you wonder how much people who you see dramatic is actually not crazy
@@Anonymous-hv2zc dead body smells so much, i dont think she is being dramatic. My friend's father died alone on his house, goes unnoticed for 3 days and the smell was already horrible . they need to throw out most of the things in the house because it also has been decontiminated by the smell. They need a week to clean the house and get rid of the smell
The wearing white girl is like the type of person who would steal someone’s pens in primary school because “sharing is caring” (Also she could literally just wear light pink or something)
Please dont assume a person because of a situation that had happened were their choices werent the brightest. Its quite disrespectful and judgemental to the person. Im rlly trying to put this the nicest way I can so please dont get mad.
@@jayceepenny5619 I wasn’t trying to judge her character. I just assumed that saying someone seemed like they stole pens when they were a little kid as a joke wasn’t a big deal. I’m sorry if it came of as being rude or judgmental, it was just making a joke about how the two situations seem like similar mistakes, I really wasn’t trying to call her a bad person or anything.
I wore white to my Aunts wedding.. I was the flower girl. I think I was 6/7 years old. Our dresses matched, it was kinda cute. Mine was obviously not a bridal gown though 😂. But seriously, it is common sense to not wear white to a wedding. It’s super disrespectful. Unless, of course, circumstances otherwise say different.
I think from your POV it’s totally cute and acceptable since you were still a kid! But that person was a grown woman and she should’ve known better. So, I totally agree with u
@@goldendove5417 Even if I wasn't a child but someone I was in a wedding party for wanted said wedding party to wear white, it's the same thing. I really think it's just depending on what the bride or groom says what goes and what doesn't. I don't know XD
last story: couldn't she have just worn a light version of a colour instead of white because that just ruins her cousin's special day and wearing a different colour is probably worth not being disliked by some of your relatives
The girl who wore white to her wedding is totally in the wrong like she would never wear white to a person who could see her wedding but she took advantage of her cousin
To all the people in the comments that are confused: You shouldn't wear white to someones wedding so you don't "outshine" the bride. That is her and the grooms day, she should feel special. It has nothing to do with her being blind. It is just disrispectful.
@@TheHypnosBunny Dude white at a wedding is reserved for the bride. Almost every wedding gown is white and its so that the bride stands out amongst the crowd. If you show up to the wedding in white, you draw attention to yourself on the brides special day. It is insanely rude. The only exception is if you are asked by the bride to wear it, like flower girls and ring bearers.
I personally think that, as long as she wasn't actually byying a wedding kinda dress it shouldnt be super big? I meant wedding dresses are very costful and it seems that she just wore a basic white dress to me. Thats my opinion, please dont try and convince me other wise i just wanted my opinion off of my chest
@Alyssa MarieJust shut up already you commented on every comment talking about not wearing white to a wedding. It is a tradition in some places where if you're wearing white to someone else wedding it mean disrespect. If you're going to disrespect somebody at their wedding when can just wear a diffrent color don't come. Also she was even more disrespectful when she tried to justify it by saying she was blind so she couldn't see. Like in no way Was she putting her cousin's feelings into consideration on her big day when she chose to wear white to her wedding without permission.
You should never ever wear white to a wedding unless you are the bride it is just disrespectful and not a nice thing to do that might have ruined their entire day just wear a different colour
for everyone saying "get over it, it's just a colour" it's considered disrespectful in many cultures to wear white at a wedding. so no, i won't "get over it."
"i wanted to wear white because i felt comfortable in it" yeh so u would rather ruin ur cousins best day of her life instead of just wearing a different colour? ok pick me girl Edit : when I say pick me girl I mean as in she chose wearing white (the ONE COLOUR you don't wear at a WEDDING) over being respectful, why being because "SHE only felt comfortable in white". she could of chose a light colour but instead of giving respect to her blind cousin, she picked her looks instead. She also used her cousins blindness against her, if her cousin wasn't blind she probably would of thinked twice. I hope that explains what I has said in my main comment
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For the last one, it doesn't matter if it's comfortable for you or not because it's a matter of decency and respect. Even if it had nothing to do with your cousin's blindness it was still disrespectful
I just wanna say , about that couple who wanted to do there wedding on somebody’s property What are they thinking ?? There is soooo many other places to do their wedding , do thoses people don’t have a damn mind or what . The guy who was going to share his property has every right to say no cause that’s his not the soon to be husband🙄
That man wanting OP and his wife to get out of their house just so he can have a wedding at a house of "ThE gUy WhO hAvE dAtEd HiS fIaNcE" bro. OP did nothing wrong. I would after that just distance for at least 3 months and if anyone asked I'd say: "But if I am not good enough for your wedding but for being friends am?" And just leave it at that. I know this sounds petty but believe me it's not.
Considering the reaction she received for wearing white I think she’s in the west correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t a taboo to wear white/ whatever color the bride will be wearing to a wedding if you’re not getting married? If that is the case she is in the wrong .
Yep, not only in the west but in other cultures it is custom and traditional to wear white. A lot of Hispanics/Mixed people live where I am and it is tradition for the bride to wear white.
Wearing white on someone else’s wedding day is not forgivable. How would you feel if someone showed up in white at your wedding????? In my opinion she is either stupid or jealous because that makes no sense.
Just because you feel confident and conferrable in white does not mean you ruin someone else's wedding. You will be wearing a different color for a couple of hours not forever.
White dress girl. ITS. JUST. ONE. DAY. Wear a comfortable pretty different color for ONE DAY. Because for ONE DAY, its not about you. Its someone else’s expensive and possibly once in a lifetime day and you just HAD to go on and on about how white is best for you, how you love it, how everyone is against you. If EVERYBODY disagrees with you including your boyfriend, is all 10-30 people wrong or just you? How about at your wedding your grandparents show up naked because airing their buttcracks out is most comfortable to them and if you’re against it then you’re just being unfair. Maybe you’ve been saving for years, spent a couple grand for the clothes/food/reservation/decoration, and went through the stress of organizing it for months - BUT LORD FORBID if you think all this work, time, and money is more important than someone’s FAVORITE COLOR.
1:30 if your house/ apartment smells like fish for no reason, chances are its a fire in an electric outlet so get outta there and DONT turn on the lights
for the last one she literally said "I really thought no one would notice that I was wearing white" so she knew that it would be offensive, and that people would disaprove if they did notice.
for the third story:you are not! it’s important to make sure your child feels good about themselves. as long as the child is okay with it, it should be allowed.
One quick question: why not wear white? It can be something simple that doesn't draw away the attention, but why not wear white? I thought many people wore white-beige light colored clothes to weddings. I personally don't really care about the occasions that much my self, but am confused why white is seen as disrespectful.
It is seen as disrespectful to wear white to a wedding because the bride is seen as one of the most important people at the wedding so she need t Gand out o if everybody wore whit them he would look like everyone else.
I think because the bride is the most important person in the wedding and usually wears white so people say it’s disrespectful because you maybe draw more attention to yourself than the bride, it depends what person and which wedding your going to in my opinion
Its most likely because the colour itself is symbolic. The bride wears white because she is getting married. It symbolizes joy and peace and is the icon for a lovely wedding. If you arent getting married, then wearing white kind of destroys the symbolism behind it.
the person who waxxed their kids eyebrows isnt the asshole- they told their daughter she was beautiful no matter what, and the daughter wanted her unibrow waxxed. i understand where the husband is coming from, but tell him all of what happened, then he should understand.
Last story: I really don't know because from what I've been told it's not disrespectful to wear white to someone's wedding but I guess it may be in America. But if it is then YOU DEFINITELY ARE. YOU DO NOT WEAR WHITE TO SOMEONE'S WEDDING IF IT IS DISRESPECTFUL. IT IS 1000 TIMES WORSE IF THE BRIDE IS BLIND.
Haircut Story: Ethically? Yes. Subjectively? No. Ethically, you were both being petty. For your sister, its obvious. Your sister got punished, and great job to your parents for coming up with a options fitting the situation. You were, ethically, the wronged party, and you forgiving or getting over it is ethically the goal of that. Unfortunately, a lot of the time, this makes it seem like an apology should be enough compensation. Most of the time, realistically, its not. Owning the mistake is your sisters responsibility, and whether you forgive her for it is yours. Your parents tried to account for both in their punishment, when ethically, you didnt respect the rules and conditions your parents put down around the incident. But morally, the fact that you let your hair grow out / stopped trimming it once you'd either forgiven her or gotten over it - that was the whole point of the punishment to start with. Unibrow Story: Not even slightly. You did your parental duty by telling her she was beautiful with or without, and that you loved her either way, but your daughter was unhappy with herself. Helping your child to be confident is also your parental duty. And hey, its hair, itll grow back eventually. As for the "permanent lesson of changing who she is to fit in and be accepted" argument, show her ways to love other people that arent about looks, and reminding her that -her- looks dont determine -her- worth or abilities, and when shes older, that different people will have different priorities for measuring someones worth, and whether they care how you look or not, its her attitude toward her own worth that has deciding vote. Confidence is not everything, but it is a lot easier with it. Wedding location story: No. They cant kick you out out your own house, regardless of how big a day for them it is.
story3: i think the mom did the best thing since her daughter wanted it even tho she was told that she was beautiful with it. i got bullied a lot when i was younger about my appearance and would say just because i was told i was still beautiful with very blonde hair and very pale skin and if i could have changed that somehow in kindergarten to middle school i think it would have made me a much happier person now as someone in highschool. either way the most you can do is try not to get your kids bullied because it puts so much stress on a child and a kid that young shouldn't have so much stress and hatred for her appearance.
It’s someone else’s wedding day. It doesn’t matter what color you’re comfortable in, you can wear other colors? Same chick ALSO mentioned she ONLY accepted the invite to get out of work. That’s a victimizing mentally of “why should I apologize? I wasn’t in the wrong?” If it’s an argument of “could I wear a dress with longer sleeves? The shorter sleeves make me feel uncomfortable” that’s a different story. Who cares? They’re sleeves. Colors don’t dictate anything. It’s a color, maybe it’s doesn’t 100% agree with your skin tone, but it’s not your day. Suck it up or something, yeesh.
If someone wore white to my wedding I'd have them escorted off the property and told to leave bc that shit isn't gonna fly. That's disrespectful and you know exactly your angle bc it's definitely not "iTs mY fAvOrItE cOloUr" bc white isn't anyone's favorite colour 🤣 Edit: ok y'all are right. If you ask the bride and they're down you can but in most cases ppl just don't like it. Sometimes you'll see someone wearing white at a wedding that isn't theirs but the thing is this girl didn't ask. It's just common courtesy to show respect at someone's wedding by wearing something that isn't white. At my aunt's wedding all the bridesmaids wore navy blue and it made everything look great 👍. If you don't like the comment just scroll and don't get upset bc I feel like I've upset some of you. Have a good day/night :)
@@user-yb5uo6gy7j not really. They'll probably say no anyways but also you'll just basically be shunned by the whole family bc the color white should only be worn by the bride to make her stand out whilst everyone else where's other colors bc it's her special day.
@@indirectobject7487 In some countries it's not aloud but not all- I wore white to a wedding and seen other people wear it and no one said anything- just celebrated-
Last story: I feel like she should’ve thought about how she would feel is someone wore white to her wedding because I almost guarantee you she would’ve flipped out if someone wore white to her wedding.
Why tf people can't wear white at someone's wedding? Also bride's dress aren't even white always. In this case maybe guests shouldn't do makeup at weddings, and wear clothes any bright colors... Ok probably you shouldn't wear "bride's dress" for other people wedding, but just use white color... I think it's okay
White is the most common and it’s the bride’s special day..if it’s so hard to wear another color on someone’s special day then there’s a problem with you..
@@kst3463 well I personally don't care about color of clothes, which guests on my wedding could wear, white, black, even if they were half-naked. And amount of condemnation in comments truly amazed me. One thing that matters is your partner and your feelings to each other... can't believe such nonsense can ruin someone's wedding day)
@@user-vr8pp7kg4v Well, that's great for you. You can have a wedding like that, but it's very common courtesy that a guest or whoever that isn't the bride wears something that's not majority white. The whole point is that the bride isn't competing with someone else with a similar color dress for attention. It's a very special moment and it's considered very rudely to wear white without the bride's permission(She never said she got permission, so I don't think she did). The cousin is blind so I don't know if wearing the white bothers her or not, but our main speaker here is in the wrong as she has been warned multiple times it was a bad idea and was scolded for the poor decision. Yet she was very stubborn to refuse to acknowledge or accommodate by wearing a different color, heck she could have gone with something similar like beige.
@@user-yb5uo6gy7j I meantion unless with the brides permission. But on this case she has never mentioned that she got permission, cause usually it’s the first reason you throw out to justified it if anyone ask. So I don’t think she did ask, she just went there cause she was told she can wear whatever she liked. But wearing whatever you want doesn’t mean disrespect the bride, it quite a common knowledge the significant of only the bride wearing white. Our main speaker here has never attempted to communicate with bride on the color, just thought “she’s blind, doesn’t matter what I wear. I’ll wear white cause I. Like. It” The speaker isn’t dumb, she was warned by her significant other of this issue but she’s stubborn and defensive of her own poor decision
For the one about the blonde cousin they should have emailed you in a Vance saying that oh you can’t wear white even though it’s your favorite color because you know the bride will be wearing white and if they had that communication there would be no problems but they decided don’t do it and not say anything so technically it’s their fault I’m not saying that it’s the bride and groom‘s fault I’m just saying that they should have a melt in Vance advanced so that they’ll be no complications with the wedding ceremony there should be no reason for you to apologize since you were not informed of this nor saw the wedding dress until now so don’t feel bad for doing something that you wanted to do without them knowing that it would be white they should apologize for the rude entitled behavior
No actually it's taken as a rude gesture if anyone other than bride is wearing white, so ofcourse her aunt was hurt that it can take the spot of her daughter on her own wedding day
Oh boy here we go. IT'S. COMMON. COURTESY! In your idea they should have expected OP to be an ahole and come to the wedding in white and not be an understanding cousin and wear for ONE NIGHT a different colour ? Because that's what your logic is saying.
@@platinumangel2612 no u can wear white in some "countries" it's not aloud but not all I wore white and other people did to a wedding no one said anything just celebrated-
@@user-yb5uo6gy7j Well the bride must have been cool about that but still a lot of people don't wear white to show respect to the bride on her special day. Maybe some people don't care about it anymore and just want to have fun but in many places they still care about it and try to not wear white
For the one Abt the girl wearing white, Yes bc your not supposed to wear white to a wedding that isn't yours, only the bride can, You're not supposed to out stage the bride. As an adult you should have known that. So yes I do believe she did it bc her cousin was blind, thankfully the aunt confronted her Abt it.
She simply favored that particular color. What if she were to wear a bold dress in a different hue? "What would the aunt say? 'You shouldn't wear that style of dress'?"
8:52 No, They don't won't you to be there and that's YOUR property, they are being assholes about it something that happened YEARS Ago wth is wrong with people, the audacity to still ask to use your house is mind blowing.
For the house wedding story: it’s your house. Don’t let SOMEONE ELSE kick you out because they like your homes view and space. There are plenty of pretty places that they can use instead
Wearing white to a wedding is definitely a bad thing. I wore a tux to my sisters wedding and I hate dressing up but I did it to make her happy. If it was up to me by all means I would show up in pjs
for the last story, i understand there comfortable in the that color but i still believe that they should’ve worn a different color. i want a black and red wedding and my dress will be deep red and i don’t want anybody wearing red or the color my bridemaids are wearing
