Story 8: NTA. Did your own husband really expect you to not go to your own sisters wedding?! And not to mention the fact that she's your only sisters so you'll only get to do this once. And he went as far as to cancel your plane ticket which you paid money for. And then he gets mad at you for getting mad at him. Even though you hired A baby sitter, like I get that you had a bad experience with one but this is too far. And then he calls you a neglectful and irresponsible mother. Excuse me!? If she was a neglectful mother then she wouldn't have hired for her kids and would've left them alone. And that's her sisters wedding. What if it was her sisters funeral or something, would you have reacted Tue same?!