I think the first OP is the TA. The baby was with their father, at least, and since he is a light sleeper he could at least feel and hear when the baby is starting to wake up. Every parent nearly takes the chance to sleep when their baby is asleep, as well.
I feel like she should’ve confronted it differently. It’s a newborn, so I understand, but she shouldn’t of snapped at her baby’s FATHER. A d if she was blinded by anger, she should’ve come back later and apologized. YTA.
Um do u understand new born he could’ve rolled off his lap even tho he’s a light sleeper like the baby could fallen off quickly and he might of not had enough time to catch him and new browns need ALOT of attention like u can’t leave them alone
Story 2- Uhh, if your wife is the one making the money and choosing to stay safe, I don't think you can really say she's selfish for annoying you with her work meetings.
The dog story is totally messed up. She got offered a first class ticket in another plane that would've only put her two hours behind. She still could've gone her vacation and all that. But the woman with the dog was visiting a sick family member, and if they're that sick that she felt the need to visit who knows how much time they have left.
yeah, it’s literally a vacation. it’s not like she’s going to a concert, OP was being very selfish and ignorant. i’m surprised she even has to ask if she was the asshole.
Story 1: I do think she over reacted a bit but I do see where she's coming from. So kinda she is the asshole. Story 2: No the husband can just put on headphones or move rooms easy. Story 5: Hmm sure having family attend is important but I think if it makes him uncomfortable then no or try to tell her to keep her boundaries again and they can watch it online so no? Story 6: No? I mean you both had just as much authority to be on the flight and I don't think it was much of an asshole thing to do though I would've skipped the flight if I had that much concern I mean the accommodation isn't going anywhere.
uh the dog story: if you have an allergy to dogs/animals that is something you have to inform your airline about, you cant just assume that there will not be any dogs on board or expect people to work around you. If you had informed the airline then the lady would have been informed she could not travel with a dog on that flight and could have made other arrangements that worked for her. So sorry but that one's your bad.
True, true, she could just contact the airline and would’ve been informed sooner, but I feel like she would expect the pets to be in a separate area and didn’t consider service dogs since she probably has never seen much of them.
I kinda understand the first story, bcs just a week ago, my uncle and my baby cousin were sleeping in their bedroom, and at the time my aunt was washing the dishes when we all heard crying, my baby cousin woke up and crawled to the edge of the bed and fell, his upper lip and nose bleeded, we all started screaming because we thought he puked blood and my aunt and uncle just snapped and kept blaming eachother but we all calmed down and it only took him abt 2-3 days to recover
Oh my, is the baby alright now? But i think the first story the person is TA, since the husband is a light sleeper, and most parents wake up even if their childs finger moves, it's true, my mother is such a light sleeper, even if i try to change my pose in bed, she always suddenly wake up, as if she got scared and asks me if everything was alright and tell me to go to sleep. (Sleeping with our parents i the same bed is normal in our family, because when i mentioned my mum and i sleep in the same queen sized bed, people thought it was weird, cant a girl sleep with her mother now?)
@@bkpress it doesn’t matter if he is a light-sleeper- anything and i mean ANYTHING can happen and he would not be quick enough to prevent it. you should keep in mind that they are NEW parents, they have never had a child before this one so her anger is valid. Plus, that is a 6 month old baby who may not be able to do much but that baby can and will move around a LOT. She was not in the wrong and her husband should be more careful and realize that no matter how quick and no matter how much of a light sleeper you are- anything bad can happen and he wouldn’t have had enough time to stop it.
he was snoring, so he most likely wouldn’t have been able to hear the baby. the baby was only a few months old, so it might’ve been difficult to feel the baby move since it was so small. i feel like it would be understandable to get angry about what he did, especially because of how risky it is.
The story about the sister I truly not her fault in my opinion it’s her special day and if she dint want her sister all over her man that makes sense, and for her parents to call it “normal” for ppl her age and that her husband should get over it is messed up
The one about the special needs sister- I am autistic and have basically the same description as ‘anna’... What ‘anna’ is doing is not okay... the wife is in the right
right? if he’s complaining about the noise, then imagine his reaction to having to live on the streets. he’s also a complete jerk for not caring about his wife’s safety.
In the story about the dog, I personally think the the woman with dog allergies was at fault - I know y’all will probably come at me, but the person with the dog was visiting a sick family member.. wayyyy more important than a vacation. The person who called her a bitch was kinda right
I agree, it’s not like OP was going to an interview or something. They treated a vacation like a bigger deal than visiting a sick family member. What if the person with the dog got off the flight and the family member died before they could visit just because OP wanted to be ignorant? OP even rejected first class seats just to be selfish, they’re the a-hole.
You can tell the first story is a first time mom. Sleep when the baby sleeps. I've slept like that with my son, him shifting around easily wakes me up and my kiddo is fine. She's TA.
for the last one depending on whether or not the dog was a service dog or just a guard dog they would have been legally unable to do anything about the dog if it was a service dog however if it was just a guard dog things would be a bit different considering service dog and guard dogs are two different jobs
the story time about the lady on the flight with an allergy to dogs, yes you are the a-hole for what you did. You would have gotten free first class to miss one flight that would take an hour. People with guide dogs/ service dogs need the animal with them at all times (usually that's the case) it was selfish for them to make the person leave. I hope this person realizes they are in the wrong.
with story six, i think they are. i mean, the other person was seeing a sick family member, and there was a flight two hours later, just catch the next flight and be a bit late. (just my opinion)
yup, she’s being selfish by rejecting a flight in first class just because she wants to be a bitch or something. it’s not like OP is going to an interview, is she’s treating a vacation like a bigger deal than a sick family member that could possibly pass away before the person could visit if they didn’t get the flight.
it’s not that she can’t stop being allergic, it’s that she’s complaining about a dog when she can just take the next flight for a *VACATION* when the person with a service dog is visiting a sick family member. she was even offered to fly in first class if she just chose to go to during the next flight, but rejected because she wanted to go on a vacation.
How sick is there family member ? But if I was her I would say “can’t you leave your dog at a dog home ? And me and my friends can’t wait to get to the place and it meant that they would have to wait around 3 hours while your dog can stay at a dog home 🙄🖕”
@@Al3x_2023 it is a service dog, which means that is like the lady's lifeline. 2:00 to wait is not that bad and 1st class too, Like the friends could go and wait at the hotel. So, before you day something know what you are talking about, it is not just any dog it is a service dog on work.
How would you feel if you had to take another flight and be late to meet a sick family member, and they had died a few minutes before you arrived? You would’ve missed the last moments of someone very important to you just because a woman who wanted to go on a *trip* had you leave just because she was allergic to the dog you need to help you live your life. She could’ve went to first class if she took the other flight, but wanted to go on a vacation immediately.
@@haileypoag3349 Yeah she should sue those people because imagine if she missed the last hours to see that person. All because a women didn't wanna wait 2 hours for a VACATION, WITH FREE FIRST CLASS.
@@bubblerose292 what if she comes back in awhile? If the child is asleep you can sleep, babies cry when they wake up and they move around rapidly ik bc i have a sister
2 he has no room to speak if he is unemployed your making the money so if your staying home and earning money he should stay out of it unless he’s gonna get a job
In the first story, I do think she was a bit right but at the same time she was in the wrong as the baby was asleep in the fathers lap, he was a light sleeper and he'd wake if the baby stirred.
@@CookieKaylie That is something I thought about and seeing how he's most likely in a living room, there's probably a rug or something that would be able to make the fall better. Also the father might have his arms around the kid or have pillows around them on the couch.
she’s not selfish? her parents are literally saying that it was okay for her sister to touch and try to kiss her fiance just because she might not get a partner. it’s not really the sister’s fault, but the sister did act rude. it’s the parent’s fault for encouraging that behavior and not trying to stop the sister.
The person with a dog allergy is not in the wrong aspecialy because she could be in hospital especially the person who came up to her like who does that .
She could literally hop off and wait only two hours and get first class. What’s more important, being late for a “vacation” or being late for an ill family member?
the first one is a no. She was not overreacting. and alot of people in these comments have the audacity to tell her to give her husband a break and that she really should chill out. a break? A BREAK?? you do realize that she SPECIFICALLY said that they BOTH are new parents meaning they do not have any experience before this baby. He can sleep and he can catch breaks but, he cannot have his wife put her trust in him and go mess it up and say she is overreacting. I’m so sick of people telling good and hard-working and/or new mothers that they should give the people that, most likely, barely do anything truly helpful. Yeah, her husband may help put the baby asleep, and feed it and occasionally change it’s diaper- but he doesn’t have to schedule the doctor appointments, go shopping for new clothes, remember the specific milk your baby should drink, stock up on bottles, keep the baby healthy- inside AND out and etc. That entire situation could have all been avoided if he had put the crib next to him while he was on the couch, place the sleeping baby in it, and THEN try and take a quick nap. most Mothers lose SLEEP and even have their hair fall out all because their husbands always either told them to stop being paranoid or to stop overreacting and their husbands decide to BARELY help them. it’s sickening.
Okay, so they were on the couch, both asleep in this scenario. The baby wasn't in any physical harm, except if *maybe* it somehow woke up and fell off? However, the Dad (as a new Dad) probably was taking a quick nap as taking care of a baby is quite tiring. Also, the baby is 6 months, so it is probably reasonable to assume they knew the baby's sleeping patterns and if it wriggles or whatever. Also, you're stereotyping relationships in this- I don't know your personal experiences but sometimes it's not like this! Dads can be just as responsible, just because they didn't do the labor part doesn't mean they can't shop, schedule doctors appointments and all these other basic things listed here. Assuming that they're just lazy slobs who don't do anything is just plain stereotyping! I know personally, my Dad was just as involved in raising me as my Mother. Anywho, males don't just simply have a turn off switch when it comes to newbornes. The mother should have stayed home, but maybe, if she was this protective of the baby and paranoid, it was healthier for her to get a breath of fresh air, even if it meant working. We don't get enough information, but in this story the mother goes off her nut. She was not there for the other events, and we don't know the backstory enough for anything more than "Woman yells at husband for seemingly nothing". Either way, the worry for a new mother is understandable, yet this one is exaggerated and more paranoid than reasonable, though calling it "sickening" is an overstatement.
it’s understandable to be concerned about your baby’s safety, but she shouldn’t have snapped at him since he’s a light sleeper and would’ve woken up if he felt the baby wake up or just move in its sleep. i know a light sleeper and they wake up if they hear a small noise.
I feel like it was reasonable for her to be concerned about her baby’s safety, but she shouldn’t have snapped at her husband. I understand snapping at him if she knew he was a deep sleeper(which he said he was a light sleeper), but if the baby moved a little then he probably would’ve woken up. i know some light sleepers and most of them wake up when they hear a small noise.
i think the first one the mom is overeacting its natural for a parent to sleep while the baby is asleep and its fine because he is a light sleeper so nothing can happen to the baby
A lot of people are saying that the disabled sister story the sister is wrong but the sister doesn’t know and if we really looking at all views the boyfriend should be the one to be stopping the sister not the parents or the first person view. The parents did overreacted about everything and understand all the points of view but- *plot twist* The boyfriend is the a$$h01e
but the parents are encouraging the sister to try and kiss an engaged man? not only an engaged man, her own SISTER’S FIANCE. the parents are not the asshole for telling the sister it’s okay to kiss her sister’s man?
1:yes 2:no 3: very funny 4:their ALL b words and terrible people and on your birthday 5:HELL NO 6:you could have just given uo your seat 7:Idk he might be cheating
6: Yes, she can wait to go on a *VACATION* for someone to visit a sick family member. She rejected first class on the next flight just because she wanted to go on a trip. The person with the dog could take the next flight, only to find out that when they arrive, their family member died minutes before. They could’ve been with their family member during their last moments, but since a woman wanted to be a bitch, they couldn’t. Plus, the next flight was only 2 hours later. Sick family cannot wait, family is the people that were there for you your entire life, it’s not like you would disrespect and neglect your sick family after they spent all that time, effort, and dedication trying to raise you.
For the wedding on I forgot the other ones but for the wedding one get over it why is a basic color it’s not even a color so let her wear whatever she wants and break up with that dude because he has no right to say that OK and your family has no right to come at you like that the one about the unibrow I get where other people are coming from I got it’s really not that OK to do that but if she feels that way let her and you’re trying to keep her safe, but don’t do that like constantly you know And then the one about the boyfriend and should I go back to work like a few times a day when I am working from home no tell him to instead get up and go to work. You’re the one putting all the effort into the relationship he’s not he clearly is not play paying for anything, so he needs to shut up get up and go to work and like you’re reading you’re actually when you’re reading you’re actually doing something to provide for your house for your partner him. He’s just sitting there and reading a little book that’s not gonna do anything honey it’s not gonna help with your financial troubles.
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Don’t know about the autistic sister you should be able to feel the way you are and it’s not your fault it really isn’t and your parents are being really annoying. They should understand where you’re coming from and your sister making like those type of things at your gonna be husbands not OK. But I understand that she can’t control it. And for the one about the dog thing, I think that you are in the wrong but people should not have done that to you like that lady should not have said that she feels that you’re the biggest B word because that’s inappropriate and she needs to shut up and that’s none of her business and the lady with the dog she was a little bit ray about like the vacation and then the sick family member but honestly like you don’t know her sick family member so there’s nothing you can really do about it and you should probably get some help with the whole entire lake dog thing just in case in the future you don’t want this to happen again so that way you don’t feel like mad or stuff like that and your friends should not be making those comments like they need to shut up and stop being like that like I don’t like your people do that because it’s like so you don’t really care from where I’m coming from you know how I feel about a dog and close room with me and you’re just doing that like it’s not OK
The first story: You overreacted. He fell asleep after the baby fell asleep. If the baby was on his lap then if the kid woke up he would most likely feel it. It would be a problem if he fell asleep if the baby was awake but the baby was sleeping with him.
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